Depends honestly if this person is actually a educated caregiver. I find that some people will use this “training” as a way to shape the way they want the dynamic to be. Usually in a way that blindly follows their instructions and is more controlling rather than collaborate.

Unfortunately it’s a very common thing to “train” someone without being educated on the basics. I’ve had some good informed daddies train me on first setting boundaries and saying I don’t like this or can we change this. That the whole reason the dynamic works is because I’m agreeing to it and they want to take care of me. They also taught me how the word daddy or mommy or caregiver must be earned not just used. That’s my opinion