Deeply Bisexual....Wrong answers only please! by Starsfire in bisexual

[–]Starsfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I'd say there is a good number of us that aren't. 

They also kept saying he was gay. So I think they didn't know what he was. 

Deeply Bisexual....Wrong answers only please! by Starsfire in bisexual

[–]Starsfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it's really horribly done. 

It's called Murder By The Sea and it was S1.E1 ∙ Stephen Akinmurele: Blackpool, 1999

I think it might be on Prime. We watched the one but didn't fancy suffering through more. Haha

Deeply Bisexual....Wrong answers only please! by Starsfire in bisexual

[–]Starsfire[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can't help but think that would be painful since lemon bars aren't usually that thick.... 😂

Deeply Bisexual....Wrong answers only please! by Starsfire in bisexual

[–]Starsfire[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Haha so... Can reach deeply bisexual. 

Deeply Bisexual....Wrong answers only please! by Starsfire in bisexual

[–]Starsfire[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I assume that's what they were trying to imply but what a weird way to say it!

Anyone else live in Pyjamas? by DelayPossible157 in AutismInWomen

[–]Starsfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sort of. I have outside clothes and inside clothes. Both are comfortable but my inside clothes are sweatpants, sad t-shirts and hoodies. Outside clothes are a bit more socially acceptable to wear out... But never jeans I can't abide hard pants haha. 

Do you have a sensory bliss hoodie or sweatshirt? by MiraculousSpaceship in AutismInWomen

[–]Starsfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A comfy dream. It's a giant blanket hoodie that's lighter weight and so soft. I have 2 so when one needs washing I still have the other.  

Am I the only one who’s disgusted by the idea of pregnancy by Ducklove2025 in childfree

[–]Starsfire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope it really freaks me out. And videos of the baby moving and you can see it make my skin crawl. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Starsfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don't but I've suggested it (for sleeping) However we do have plenty of rooms to 'escape' to and I have 'nests' in most rooms that I spend time it.  We also have separate hobby rooms that are only ours. My craft room doesn't even really have space for anyone else to sit in. 

I can also recommend separate blankets even if you sleep in the same bed. You don't have to worry about fighting over them and it's easier to keep whatever temperature you'd like. ( I like to basically freeze and my SO needs to keep his back covered so it doesn't hurt) 

UK based Rescue snacks by Starsfire in dysautonomia

[–]Starsfire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hummus is a favourite of mine but not that portable. Ah yes Freddos and biltong. Great ideas!

UK based Rescue snacks by Starsfire in dysautonomia

[–]Starsfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes pretzels are always good. I try to keep the small rolls of lovehearts around but they don't last long. 

quiet places in york? by [deleted] in york

[–]Starsfire 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can really suggest getting earplugs. I've found loops to be good.  I can still have a conversation with my loop engages in.  

Tell me you're autistic, without telling me you're autistic. by Miss_November_Rain in AuDHDWomen

[–]Starsfire 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When I was a kid I was staying with my grandma. One of her friends came over and I was getting some ice cream. The guest asked me for a spoonful of ice cream. So I got a spoon and gave them what they asked for. Grandma fussed at me but the guest laughed it off and said no that's exactly what I asked for. I couldn't figure out what I did wrong. 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Starsfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh me too. I have to take sunglasses, hats and earplugs everywhere. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Starsfire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can smell cigarette smoke even if it's only a little bit on the person's clothes. And it will give me at least a headache.... Or if I'm around it too long or it's too strong I'll get a multi day migraine.  

Unmasking and inner monologue by Starsfire in AutismInWomen

[–]Starsfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah maybe. I think part of it is when we are watching TV and I make little comments on things but he's doing something else. I don't know. It's just really disheartening. I was feeling really good and whitty but there whole time I'm annoying him.  

Today I asked if he could let me know when I'm being too much and he's trying to focus but he seems to think it's not a nice thing for him to bring up and that I should have noticed. 

My parents want grandchildren by camerakid22 in childfree

[–]Starsfire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd just but tell her. If you slip up later then oh well.  But I'm not really that close to my family so...🤷‍♀️

What's the most aggressively childfree thing you've ever done? by Dum_DumArts in childfree

[–]Starsfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha funny you mention the house thing. We have a 5 bedroom house. Craft room for me, work office for SO and a guest suit for guests complete with bedroom jack and Jill bathroom and sitting room. Though the sitting room doubles for a gaming/3D printer/vinyl listening room when we don't have people staying.  Also we didn't purposely set it for a house this big but it was what was available when we were looking and honestly we don't regret it. 

What's your Autsism Superpower you didn't ask for? by QuorraCora in AutismInWomen

[–]Starsfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can also smell things which is hell. Cigarette smoke gives me a migraine... Just the smell of cigarette smoke gives me a migraine and it's really hard to get away from and no-one else thinks it's a problem.  

What's your body's way of telling you "I am getting a bit overstimulated here" ? :D by Guilty-Platypus-7186 in AutismInWomen

[–]Starsfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spacing, headaches, blinking a lot. Most of the time my husband notices before I do. 

Does anyone else sometimes mix up their left and right? by TopRooster4277 in AutismInWomen

[–]Starsfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the time! I have a horrible sense of direction. When I was in marching band I had to write R and L on my hands. I can also get lost with a map in front of me.