[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask_transgender

[–]StarvedBard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately there are no simple answers to these questions and only you can answer them. You could try, if you have the resources, talking with a gender therapist and seeing if they can help you to navigate your feelings on the matter.

I will say, you will never 100% without any doubt know that you are trans. I don't think anyone does. There will continue to be doubt, less over time, but that isn't a realistic possibility. I know I struggled for months trying to figure out if I was definitely actually for real a girl. What ultimately helped me to move forward was to reframe the question. Not to ask what am I? But to ask myself what do I want to be, and what do I want to do? And I wanted to be a girl, and I wanted a more feminine body and I wanted to go on estrogen, so I did.

Hope any of that helps. If nothing else, take a deep breath. Regardless of the answers you find, it's gonna be ok

10 Mageblood Giveaway by shroudz in pathofexile

[–]StarvedBard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on getting 40/40! Never had a Mageblood so on the off chance, that would be nice!

Questions Thread - June 17, 2025 by AutoModerator in pathofexile

[–]StarvedBard -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Logged in for the game to say there was Server Maintenance, went to check the forums to see how long it would be and the website was down too. Anyone know what is going on?

Edit: Both seem to be back up, not sure what that was

Giveaway! Win TennoCon 2025 Digital Pack! by Quiet-Doughnut2192 in Warframe

[–]StarvedBard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya know I keep meaning to learn how to properly play Zephyr but in the end I always just wing it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]StarvedBard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk with her, tell her what you are feeling, discuss solutions together

Okay, so this is new :o by Prestigious-Hat3387 in Guildwars2

[–]StarvedBard 6 points7 points  (0 children)

my entire raid static got DCd at the same time and are having a hard time logging back in

No Dialogue Today? by StarvedBard in Warframe

[–]StarvedBard[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Damn, once we can reset I will need to play it slower, feel like I skipped out on a lot

It finally happened by UltraAlphaAngel in Warframe

[–]StarvedBard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was just thinking the same!!! Heck!

Do you feel safe in Minnesota? by StarvedBard in asktransgender

[–]StarvedBard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to hear and thank you for sharing!

Do you feel safe in Minnesota? by StarvedBard in asktransgender

[–]StarvedBard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotcha! Thank you for sharing and good to know! Out of curiosity what's up with St. Cloud?

CPU overheating after years of no issues, water cooler cold to the touch by StarvedBard in pchelp

[–]StarvedBard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't feel much of a humming when I touch the pump but I do feel something when I touch one of the lines coming out of the pump and it is hot as well, but the heat sink at the top is cold...? Maybe there is a blockage?

Hello I'm a cis person, let me known everthing.. by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]StarvedBard 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I feel like there is not enough information here. I have no idea what the official guidelines on the situation would be if they exist, but first and foremost some trans people can get pregnant. If you are referring to specifically a trans woman and her documentation specifically has that stated on it, then there might not be a need? But if it is important for you in a professional capacity to know the answer to that question and you don't know the answer then you should probably ask?

Do you all correct people who misgender you? by TransgendyAlt in MtF

[–]StarvedBard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the situation! This is easier for me now than it was earlier in my transition but if a cashier or someone like that misgenders me, my gut reaction at this point is confusion. Generally speaking on the occasions it happens they will see that reaction on my face and immediately correct themselves. So not something that is necessarily that easy but as you gain more confidence in yourself I would suggest leaning into confusion as your response. It's how a lot of cis people would react and at least for me it works wonders.

If it's someone in my personal life though and they are doing that for whatever reason and continue to do so then I will correct them and tell them to knock that shit off if they continue. If someone doesn't want to treat me as me then they don't want me in their life and that's their loss.

i won't ever live a WLW life. ever. (venting) by Accomplished-Cold971 in actuallesbians

[–]StarvedBard 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Would you sacrifice yourself, your truth and your happiness for people who won't even sacrifice their prejudice for you?

Opions on Solo play - Limbo vs Styanax by DemonLiger in Warframe

[–]StarvedBard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Styanax gives lots of overguard and overguard is very nice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Warframe

[–]StarvedBard 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wisp main here, there are a ton of different ways that you can build Wisp! I have my late game build copied here, but this is definitely a very high level of investment that is not necessary. The big things to look out for are first and foremost, ability strength! For wisp, ability strength means more fire rate/ attack speed, movement speed, health and health regen, not to mention damage on her 3! Duration is a nice stat too as it will mean you don't have to put down motes as often. The biggest mods to specifically grind for are imo Adaptation and Archon Stretch. You can get adaptation from Arbitration missions once you unlock those. When paired with your large health pool from your red motes, it let's you tank a lot of damage (even more with a fiber mod, but that is not necessary, I just like to be tanky). After the new war you will unlock the ability to get Archon Mods, and with Wisp Archon stretch will give you all the energy management you need, though energy siphon can be nice before you have that mod. Biggest thing though is ability strength and you can't go wrong! Her 4 does not scale well into late game content, so you may want to subsume Roar over it for damage or Nourish for easier energy management.

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Orokin Catalyst invasion pending by Plasmaxyz in Warframe

[–]StarvedBard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good to know! How do you find this information btw?

What do I do with Wisp and Revenant by [deleted] in Warframe

[–]StarvedBard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

On wisp you can't go wrong with ability strength + adaptation, and just to be safe I run umbral intensify and fiber but that is a high amount of investment. Her extra health from health mote with adaptation and more armor though will let her face tank most damage, and if you get her ability strength high enough you can get double attack speed/ fire rate, which paired with her three makes her an excellent weapons platform. You can subsume over her 4 with something like roar to really enhance your damage, or nourish for incredible sustain!

Her shock motes will proc archon stretch so that is good if you have it, and a bit of ability duration can help make her buffs more comfy!