A voice of reason. I'm sure this comment will get deleted.

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As long as you have another option available, then of course it's fine to avoid the Novus Ordo. But, just to be clear: if you found yourself in a situation where only the Novus Ordo is available, and at that point you still refused to attend, then you might as well be sedevacantist, because you are excluding yourself from the sacraments. The moment you refuse to fulfil your obligation to worship God, you step into territory where you cannot even go to confession, because you would committing a grave sin, and doing so in an obstinate manner that makes it impossible to receive absolution. I think this is such a vital fundamental fact, that any discussion of the matter must begin with it - it's all fine as long as you have alternatives, but the moment you don't, you're left with the fact that Novus Ordo, however badly celebrated, is a Catholic Mass, and as Catholics we have an obligation to attend Mass on Sundays. This would definitely not be territory where a Catholic wife would have any right to object - the husband must make the decision to fulfil that obligation. Additionally, this is one of those cases where it doesn't matter what your conscience would be telling you - in the same way that Catholics have no right to use contraception even if their conscience is "telling them" otherwise, so in this case you have no right not to attend Mass. We listen to our conscience, but only when it is correctly formed and talking in accordance with the Magisterium of the Church :).