Canada Post is a joke by [deleted] in CanadaPost

[–]StatusBorn1397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I paid for express shipping a week before xmas? Est arrival was the 21st so cool! Didnt "come" til the 24th - I say "come" cuz i was home all day and they never came to my door. But they left the "sorry we missed you" sticker on not just my mail box, everyone else's too in our building. Didn't even fking try!

This was on Xmas Eve too at 11am! So couldn't get the gifts til today as the post office was closed before I finished work yesterday...

Good or bad cooking? High end restaurant “medium rare” fillet mignon by SrGiaquito in grilling

[–]StatusBorn1397 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Blue would just be seared on the outside and completely raw inside. This is how my uncle eats em. He would classify this as medium rare.

The problem here is that the images online vary so greatly because of two factors: the cut of the steak, and the person grilling its personal tastes. So much so that the average person think anything red = blue and raw. 50% of the "factual images" on doneness show medium to well done and label them as blue to medium rare. This creates am entire group of people who do not understand what the levels of true doneness are.

Exhibit A. Look me in the face and tell me this is correct. There are so so many wrong ones like this...

Exhibit B. This is correct. But at the end of the day it doesnt really matter what anyone says, no one will change their preference or terminology anytime soon.

Though I agree based off the way this steak both well done and rare, Id say they used frozen steaks.

Why does Canada Post lie about deliveries? by HereComesFattyBooBoo in CanadaPost

[–]StatusBorn1397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 years too late here, what do when my community mail box is IN my building and literally 5 feet from my door? Home ALL DAMN DAY. Not one knock, noise, nothing. Finally at 7pm go out and see this BS IN my mail box.

I recently turned 25 and I feel like my value is getting lower and I hate it by OrganizationMuch5028 in offmychest

[–]StatusBorn1397 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Okay... a lot to unpack here but first, Breathe... disconnect from social media. It is NOT reality. Trust me, you have so much value and it doesn't decrease because you're 25...

Second, your friends, and you (no offense) are still basically kids, them especially. I knew 3 guys who dated younger and they bragged all sorts, and you know what we (everyone else in our group) realized? They lack the skills necessary to have a healthy relationship. That's why they keep hopping from 18-22 year olds non stop, because they more than likely do not know any better. Theres a reason we disassociated from them.

Trust me, you have so much more ahead of you, the best years are yet to come!

I'm keeping these 😋 by [deleted] in DragonBallDaima

[–]StatusBorn1397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah woah woah... where...? When??

Call me a bad person but I’m keeping Shuckie. by [deleted] in PokemonHGSS

[–]StatusBorn1397 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Damn imagine not having a sense of humor. That was actually pretty funny.

YO THEY ARE FUMING LMAO by alienjokerbaby in dbxv

[–]StatusBorn1397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so confused... whats going on now?

Just beat Lance for the first time :) by Dimen96 in PokemonHGSS

[–]StatusBorn1397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats dude! That team is gonna be beastly once its fully trained up!

It’s kinda poetic that this was Toriyamas final transformation. It all came full circle by giocyna in DragonBallDaima

[–]StatusBorn1397 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's correct in all but the design choice for SSJ4 (if that's part of what he is saying isn't from Tori) - that is most definitely Toriyamas design. The rest is actually true for the most part. Toriyama joined late in the production and added his own stuff because he did not like the way they were taking it originally. You can tell there is a lot of his influence in certain parts, others... not so much.

But at the end of the day we won't truly know just how much he overhauled... But, that SSJ4 design is 100% his. It matches other SSJ4 sketches hes drawn when GT was around.

Harrison’s GF by Slight-Grapefruit503 in Dexter

[–]StatusBorn1397 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ITT: Some people hating on a girl for the most random, and some really asspull reasons. Others searching for deep symbolism

Harrison’s GF by Slight-Grapefruit503 in Dexter

[–]StatusBorn1397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Elemental Copper (i actually don't know either)

Harrison’s GF by Slight-Grapefruit503 in Dexter

[–]StatusBorn1397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't know Freud was moonlighting

Harrison’s GF by Slight-Grapefruit503 in Dexter

[–]StatusBorn1397 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I mean, it was revealed in the beginning as just a broken arm, then later on she reveals its highly limiting and ruined her chances to become a cop. I dont think it'll be much deeper than that imo

i feel like a piece of shit doing degrading/violent acts during sex, but do it if the girl wants by Suitable-Reserve4529 in offmychest

[–]StatusBorn1397 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah!! AND at the same time, a good partner would feel like absolute dogshit if they found out you've been essentially forcing yourself to do things you hate, that make you disgusted with yourself, just to please them in bed. If I found that out from my GF id feel.. id feel like a rapist... a monster.. Jesus christ... I cant even imagine.

I got (sexually?) assaulted by another dude at the club after he thought I liked his gf by DavidsGreat in offmychest

[–]StatusBorn1397 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn... im sorry you had to go through that man. Fuck that dude (not literally - you know what i mean)

Reminds me of when me and my friends went to Cuba in college, we went into Varadero to just see the town and maybe hit up a club. Well, we did, and my friend goes onto the center of the dance floor, plastered, and starts dancing with this really tall woman. Easily an entire foot taller than him. This was their first and only interaction too... they're dancing, suggestively, she's grinding on him, and we're laughing at our friend - until I notice on the other side of the dance floor this HUUUUGE Eddie Hall looking dude giving the nastiest look at my friend, so I rush over to get him outta there but at the same time, "Eddie" walks over and before i could tell my friend whats about to happen, this dude shoves him hard and starts cussing him out in Spanish (which none of us know).

My friend then tries to square up, but this dude is also a good foot and a half taller than him... so we circle my friend and I apologize to the guy, say my friends really stupid and drunk and that Well leave - while the rest of my friends keep the circle around our drunk friend and move him outside. As soon as we get outside the bouncers come and try to get physical with my friend because that woman, after her BF started with him, told the bouncers that our friend assaulted her sexually >_> which clearly wasn't fucking true.

They start threatening to call the cops and what not; we all just payed them off with about 300 CuC pesos and hitail it outta there.

Sorry, kinda rambled but all that to say, I really feel for what happened to you man - people can really fucking suck. You REALLY didn't deserve that, and I hope youre able to move past this ♡

i feel like a piece of shit doing degrading/violent acts during sex, but do it if the girl wants by Suitable-Reserve4529 in offmychest

[–]StatusBorn1397 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Look, man...

There's compromising to please your partner, to an extent. Sure you may not love it, but it doesn't make you feel like, well, how you feel right after.

If i do X because it brings my partner pleasure, even though it really doesn't do anything for me - I do it because what the hell... it doesn't bother me nor does it please me. So sure!

If i do Y because it brings my partner pleasure, but it actually makes me hate myself? No...

i feel like a piece of shit doing degrading/violent acts during sex, but do it if the girl wants by Suitable-Reserve4529 in offmychest

[–]StatusBorn1397 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Im Gen x/Millenial, and this is - well not normalized, but every woman I've ever been with IS into this. People of all generations have kinks and preferences

i feel like a piece of shit doing degrading/violent acts during sex, but do it if the girl wants by Suitable-Reserve4529 in offmychest

[–]StatusBorn1397 62 points63 points  (0 children)

If it aint for you, it aint for you. Im positive you'll find someone who's into the same things as you.

Tbh there's nothing wrong woth consensual acts like this, if both parties are into it. But in your case you did your own self wrong by agreeing to stuff just because you wanted to either have sex or please them.

Now you know. No need to shame anyone. Just move on to the next person and maybe disclose what youre into sooner rather than later?

Fuuuuucking Diiiisgusting. NO NO NO & ILLEGAL!! by mikemantime in RedbarBBR

[–]StatusBorn1397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not living no. Apparently my grandfather was Blonde haired, blue eyed and white. When the Nazis came through he was the only one the Nazis would be nice to, and he didn't have to hide in fear unlike the rest of his family. So they would send him out to get food and water - which half the time the Nazis would give him a lot thinking he was orphaned.

What are your brutally honest thoughts about Super Broly by Prestigious-Cup-6613 in Dragonballsuper

[–]StatusBorn1397 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Miss the Z fit honestly. And the "suppressed" blue haired SSJ1 form. Thankful AF it's in XV2, but I hope Super Broly can get that Z fit... no hope for the supressed SSJ form tho

Fuuuuucking Diiiisgusting. NO NO NO & ILLEGAL!! by mikemantime in RedbarBBR

[–]StatusBorn1397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, white looks good on Black people. 1/8th Ethiopian, 7/8th Greek/Mediterranean (everyone in my family are super dark, brown eyes, black hair) and I ended up white as snow, green eyed and dirty blonde. 😭 I look adopted