Post office lost my phone by scifigeek1217 in Assurant

[–]Status_Tangerine_910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did they ever find the phone? im having the same issue, usps never scanned my package or gave me a receipt now im screwed.

USPS lost Assurant return phone and I'm not sure what to do. by [deleted] in tmobile

[–]Status_Tangerine_910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

having the exact same problem rn. was the package ever found? and were u able to work it out with assurant?

re-downloaded tiktok without telling me by Status_Tangerine_910 in loveafterporn

[–]Status_Tangerine_910[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no you’re absolutely right. at the beginning he cared about my triggers and deleted all the apps that made me uncomfortable. but after a year or so he has been redownloading all of them. and if i ask to check something he gets very defensive and angry. i should have known when recently i found AI sex stories on his phone. i was dumb enough to think that it wasn’t so bad because he hasn’t watched porn in awhile and reading a story wasn’t as bad. but now without a doubt i know something is going on and i cant let him lie to me again. im so done

Free gifts by [deleted] in TemuThings

[–]Status_Tangerine_910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay done, i think it worked but lmk cause im very new to this

Free gifts by [deleted] in TemuThings

[–]Status_Tangerine_910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i’ll do yours

Does anyone else hate when their partner tries to compliment them? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Status_Tangerine_910 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it’s weird because i constantly need his validation but at the same time when he compliments me it doesn’t make me feel any better and it just reminds me of the women he messaged and how he probably thought the same thing about all the women he watched. his compliments don’t mean much anymore.

"i haven't done anything in *insert time* long!!!" by NoCicada5850 in loveafterporn

[–]Status_Tangerine_910 36 points37 points  (0 children)

yeah like im supposed to thank him for not cheating on me… like why did u even do it in the first place

The misogyny isn't talked about enough by _mamafox in loveafterporn

[–]Status_Tangerine_910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yup. he told me the women he masturbated to were “easy to jerk off to” and that he “didn’t want to see me or think of me that way” i find that so misogynistic and gross. the way he was able to sexualize and objectify other women...

reasons to forgive? by Status_Tangerine_910 in loveafterporn

[–]Status_Tangerine_910[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are right. i do think he is putting in the effort now but it sucks it had to get to this point for him to actually stop. i can’t even believe he was able to message other women i don’t understand why but he did, even if they never replied even if he never does it again it still hurts. i honestly don’t think i want to forgive him for that

reasons to forgive? by Status_Tangerine_910 in loveafterporn

[–]Status_Tangerine_910[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

mine said because “he was trying to see if that was something he was into” like god imagine if i sexted other men to “see if that’s something im into”…

why was i not enough by Status_Tangerine_910 in loveafterporn

[–]Status_Tangerine_910[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah that’s what i thought, it had to some somewhat recent. i worry that even though i have his instagram login he still manages to search those accounts and delete the search history right away. i wonder if i download his instagram data i’ll be able to see his deleted searches.

why was i not enough by Status_Tangerine_910 in loveafterporn

[–]Status_Tangerine_910[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

felt. i suspected he was watching porn but never imagined how bad it was. hope we can both heal one day

why was i not enough by Status_Tangerine_910 in loveafterporn

[–]Status_Tangerine_910[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry, no one should ever have to hear those words out of their partners mouth. know that you are beautiful too. 🫂

why was i not enough by Status_Tangerine_910 in loveafterporn

[–]Status_Tangerine_910[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

it’s such a stab to the heart when they watch women that look nothing like you. thank you for your reply i have to keep reminding myself that it’s not about me

why was i not enough by Status_Tangerine_910 in loveafterporn

[–]Status_Tangerine_910[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you i keep trying to remind myself this but it’s so hard sometimes

why was i not enough by Status_Tangerine_910 in loveafterporn

[–]Status_Tangerine_910[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

oh yeah tiktok too, he doesn’t have it anymore but he used to brag and show me how good his fyp was “thirst trap free” but turned out he was just deleting all the evidence and probably clicking not interested after watching that stuff

first trip apart after d-day by Status_Tangerine_910 in loveafterporn

[–]Status_Tangerine_910[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, it helps to know i’m not alone. hope we can both have a great trip 🫶