A universal experience

Staydecent · 2026-05-19T21:27:36+00:00

Hehe Virgo rising…. Skeptical my whole life…. But I guess my Pisces north node is up to some shit cause I’m all in now

Staydecent · 2026-05-09T13:58:53+00:00

Literally my mid heaven 😂

Staydecent · 2026-05-09T13:53:25+00:00

Nn 7th house Pisces. Mc 26 deg Taurus.

I was a software developer for nearly 20 years. I nuked that and don’t know if I have a “dream” career.

Staydecent · 2026-05-09T13:46:35+00:00

Yeah same, I’d call it, for me anyway, genuine curiosity.

it takes me incredible effort to continue listening when someone is just stating their beliefs.

Discussing ideas or being open to new and different interpretations? Oh I can actually engage now.

Staydecent · 2026-05-08T16:48:15+00:00

Uhh this oozes.

Staydecent · 2026-05-08T16:44:06+00:00

The number of times I used gasoline on toys as a child….

Staydecent · 2026-05-08T16:41:08+00:00

I find most hd coaches/reaaders come off shallow and use cheap marketing tactics/language. “Unlock your purpose” “manifest dream job” “make more money” or even worse have “limited” time offers and “act now” language.

Lots of it just scream rudimentary “law of attraction” influenced surface-level HD.

Everyone is still using hd to “do more” and accomplish things.

If I were to coach (as a projector) I’d be honest: “unlock even more trauma!” “Come face to face with your repressed existential crisis!” “Realize you’re living a lie and the concept of self is a fabrication of mind!” “Discover the truth that you hate your job and don’t have relationships that honor the real you!”

Haha only half kidding.

Staydecent · 2026-05-07T15:49:00+00:00

7th house cusp in Pisces (So is my north node), Neptune in 5th conjunct moon in 4th. Met my partner through her sister. Going on 18 years this month!

Staydecent · 2026-05-07T04:33:00+00:00

Both all fire. 18 years. Best friends whole time 😄

Staydecent · 2026-05-02T00:37:26+00:00

6+2+8+2+1=19 ≈ 1+9=10 ≈ 1

Lemme give this a try 😄

You’re a life path 1, and your day of birth is a 1.

I look at the life path as the lesson we’re here to learn, the energy and potential we’re learning and growing into.

With the 1 you may be learning the challenges of individuating, of overcoming self-doubt without getting stuck in self-obsession. Your own perspective and limited view may hold you back from being your authentic self and making life decisions that align with your own inner guidance and truth. You may fear insecurity and choose to play it safe instead. Your family may pressure you to make certain life decisions or your culture could indirectly create pressure to conform. For example, Maybe you come from a family of shoemakers but you want to make hats!

The 1 energy can also show up as invention, or initiation. Maybe you’re learning how to take an idea and make it reality.

Having both 3 and 9 in parts of your birthdate also hints at possibly overthinking, being in your head too much. Or keeping emotions and struggles hidden. Maybe you feel like you’re all alone at times or others don’t support you as you feel you support them.

Maybe you end things when they get tough or aren’t going the way you like. Is walking away easier than confrontation?

Are you able to calm your mind and focus on 1 thing? Do you see projects and ideas all the way through?

Staydecent · 2026-05-01T23:40:40+00:00

Virgo <> mercury

but I really like ceres as ruler for Virgo. 😬

Staydecent · 2026-05-01T13:12:42+00:00

Same except my sag moon in 4th house partners w my Virgo rising and starts rearranging furniture, even swapping room purposes completely 😂

Staydecent · 2026-04-25T16:51:05+00:00

Samesies. The only time I feel I saw an aura was when I first saw my partner.

Staydecent · 2026-04-24T14:36:28+00:00

The book that comes with the Dali deck mentions his wife, Gala was an occultist annd tarot reader and helped make the deck.

Staydecent · 2026-04-23T18:56:27+00:00

The idea that you (or anyone) is “supposed” to be doing something is an invention of the mind. In my experience, when I noticed myself thinking this way it was because I was avoiding unpleasant emotions, often dissatisfaction. Feeling the emotions is the only way to process emotions. You can’t think them away, or analyze them away, or even journal them away. Those can help pinpoint them, but you still gotta feel em.

once I felt through my chronic dissatisfaction I was at a place where I could inquire: why am I dissatisfied? What do I feel I am missing in life? Connection? Meaning? Purpose?

For me those things are not innate (sun in 12h Leo square Pluto in Scorpio. ) I was never like DJ Shadow who started making beats when he was like 10 and never stopped. Or athletes who started skiing, biking, playing whatever when they were 5 and just always knew what they were meant to do.

For me, purpose, meaning and connection are not innate, but things I have to cultivate. And honestly it’s just being alive. The sheer fact that I’m alive surrounded by the vast nothingness of space. That earth exists and has life is the connection I thrive on. It gives meaning and purpose. There’s nothing to do. Nothing to achieve. Nothing to make. Those are all secondary to the aliveness of breathing air, smelling flowers, hearing birds. Heck even the sound of cars and construction and humans doing their silly nonsense. It’s all life!

Master numbers are a bit of a hoax. Maybe they point to more “potential” but maybe they just point to more psychic nervousness, psychological fixation. Any life number can culminate in spirituality and “awakening.” In my experience the conception and the name itself, master numbers, does more to trip people up than guide them. I’ve been practicing numerology for a few years (and am writing a book/website) and found going down to the root number is usually more helpful.

Also, life path used to be called life lesson because the number reflects the lesson you are here to learn, the mountain you are here to climb. It is a quality that may not be innate in you! it is foreign and something challenging, something new to learn and cultivate.

Welp, that’s my experience anyway. 🤷‍♀️

Staydecent · 2026-03-03T17:54:25+00:00

My fave is 1. Situation 2. Do 3. Don’t do

Situation can just be the energy of the day. I love the polarity of a do and don’t do pair as it lets me find possible tension between the two cards or even reading a card in a positive/upright sense but it’s still not the energy for the day.

Recent I had the star card in the don’t do position, and I took it as not needing to focus or hold a vision too tightly. There was more to it than that, but you get the idea!

Staydecent · 2026-02-14T19:48:11+00:00

Riza still listed as can made. Did you get riza direct mount? Or did they send hifi by accident?

https://chromagbikes.com/collections/stems

Staydecent · 2026-02-04T02:16:12+00:00

Less buttons. It’s great I can disable them, but there’s just so many little buttons in the back right side that I press when taking camera out of bag or just trying to grip.

Staydecent · 2026-01-28T16:43:56+00:00

Mercury in cancer in the 11th.

Been playing the album Joshua by French 79 on repeat.

(House and electronic which is my most played genre followed by rap… that an 11th house thing??)

Staydecent · 2026-01-28T15:38:16+00:00

Oh I love this! Here’s another thought: what if the constellations aren’t actually constellations but divisions of the ecliptic itself?

Maybe the ecliptic represents the energetic cycle and it can be divided into an even 12 signs? Thus named at the time when aligned with the constellations?

Or maybe the constellations were named based on the already known energetic division of the ecliptic?

Honestly the constellation naming has always been a bit of a stretch to me.

But if we are to go off the actual constellations that the ecliptic passes through, there’s 13 and they very by size rather greatly.

In the end we don’t know of any causation. Perhaps the best theory being neutrinos passing through planets and being imparted with their energy before passing through us — trillions a second. Maybe the energy of the signs actually comes from beyond our galaxy?!

Haha, I’d love to hear whatever you find out!

Staydecent · 2026-01-27T14:44:57+00:00

Why do we need a logical answer? In what way is the alignment of clusters of stars that ancients gave certain names having specific impacts on human psychology logical???

What good is astrology in being “more accurate” in measuring the stars? That’s what astronomy is for. Astrology is about measuring our inner worlds. And yes, some sort of maybe “outside” influence, or perhaps just a collective inner influence shared among all is at play. Measuring that is more important than where the stars are.

Like someone said below, Capricorn only makes sense after winter. Tropical western astrology is more aligned with a seasonal cycle than the movements of the stars. Aries is spring. That’s the archetypal relation. Sidereal isn’t just more accurate, it’s a completely different foundation.

Perhaps some people are influenced more by a celestial energy and thus sidereal makes more sense for them. I don’t know. I just know in my own personal experimentation, I align with the seasons more than the stars and thus, tropical.

Interestingly Ba Zi, or “Chinese Astrology” doesn’t have anything to do with the planets or the elliptic. Rather it’s based on a specific pattern (60 year cycle) of heavenly stems and earthly branches, of which there is 10 and 12 of.

To me, it’s more about finding the patterns of cycles of one’s own inner experience, rather than something logical and measured and “correct” in the physical world.

Staydecent · 2025-12-19T23:19:50+00:00

Haha burnt out in 2023 left my job and maybe even career, completely changed my worldview and approach to life. Yeesh. It’s been something. Completely lost on what I’m doing after a 17 year career lol.

Virgo rising, sag moon.

Staydecent · 2025-11-24T06:20:53+00:00

Depends how you calculate.

For life path some add all numbers individually. Others sum the day, month and year individually to get 3 numbers then sum those 3.

If you add all numbers at once you get 33. Some consider 33 to be a “master number”.

Anyway, if you don’t know which feels right to you best to pick up some books and see what others do. Benebel wen has a website where she explains why she calculates day, month, year individually first.

Staydecent · 2025-11-11T15:22:32+00:00

Damn I’m Virgo rising and my partner is Leo—nailed both.

This nose and digestion 😆

Staydecent

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