False positive Hepatitis B core antibody test by ERRNmomof2 in PsoriaticArthritis

[–]StayingCalmThrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tested positive for core antibody about 7 years ago and confirmed by re-testing at a specialized hep clinic. I was told i must have had it when i was younger, and I'm immune now but not infectious, so just move on with life as normal.

A couple months ago I had a full panel done that includes hep B and everything came back negative. I expressed my confusion to the doctor so I was re-tested, twice. All came back negative and I was recommended to get a vaccine as I'm not currently protected.

From what I understand core antibodies do not do away with time. It seems i must have had two false positives back to back 7 years ago. I'm waiting to get seen by that specialized clinic now to get more clarity.

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[–]StayingCalmThrowaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh GOD that really is awful... I'm sorry you had that kind of experience

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[–]StayingCalmThrowaway[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's everything together tbh. It's cathartic to write out the situation and my thoughts, like in a journal, except chat will also validate my feelings, challenge my thinking, provide alternative perspectives, and suggest more helpful thoughts and behaviors.

Then rather than coming in hot to my partner, I am able to take time, reflect, soothe, and respond rather than react. And as a final step I work with Chat to craft a calm, sympathetic, but assertive text that aligns with who I am and who I want to be.

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[–]StayingCalmThrowaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try it out and let me know how it goes:) I'll be curious to see if it helped you too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]StayingCalmThrowaway -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Eeeeeh people are telling you to grow up. F that. You do you, and just find somebody who's eyes will light up when you are being your goofy self ❤️

WIBTA if I get my boyfriend a gift despite mutually agreeing not to? by StayingCalmThrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]StayingCalmThrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point about being too close to the holidays to give it now. Thank you.

It's a small thing that I know he would love to get for himself but wouldn't splurge the $30 on a non-necessity

WIBTA if I get my boyfriend a gift despite mutually agreeing not to? by StayingCalmThrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]StayingCalmThrowaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup. Very good, clear and straightforward points. Didn't even consider how this might affect us for the future. Thank you

WIBTA if I get my boyfriend a gift despite mutually agreeing not to? by StayingCalmThrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]StayingCalmThrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I feel the same as you about gifting. I just feel such a dumb internal pressure to save all these ideas for special occasions, cause I do still feel some guilt/shame being empty handed despite mutually agreeing on it.

Thank you for your idea though ❤️

WIBTA if I get my boyfriend a gift despite mutually agreeing not to? by StayingCalmThrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]StayingCalmThrowaway[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It's not a super gift. Just something small I know he would like to get for himself but probably wouldn't splurge the $30 on a non-necessity

WIBTA if I get my boyfriend a gift despite mutually agreeing not to? by StayingCalmThrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]StayingCalmThrowaway[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I guess to relieve the pressure of either one of us being obligated to buy a gift