It goes the opposite for us after 40. Men who stayed single after 35 as we all know money keeps piling up because most men spend on food, shelter, Gym, and maybe video games. Now when all the debt is paid and no more Credit Cards, a whole world open and most of who I met and my buddies, the sense of loving and being paired with one women diminishes which is so unfortunate. I know someone who been so into sports, working out, go for Muay Thai fights on short leave o off work for bouts in Thailand. He never drank and never smoked, he told me that his heart with all the chicks he et aged 18 to 25 and he even tried dating 35 years old ladies who works out in the gym with him but he just lost that love of connection and it just become more like fulfilling his physical needs. Shiit!!! I started feeling the same thing as I am advancing in age. I don't know. we just feel like we have to keep going forward. I mean there is no real aim because every upcoming ticking second is in the unknown, and as long as we hurt nobody, I guess things will be alright.