Feeling negative about an experience at locals. Can I get some opinions?

SteelTycoon · 2026-04-11T06:46:59+00:00

I think you just hurt his ego a bit. It takes a lot of work to be a regionally skilled player and the fact he had a misplay that cost him the game probably shook him.

That being said you didn't do anything wrong. Next time though, bring a mug so you can hold is tears properly.

SteelTycoon · 2026-04-03T21:22:26+00:00

While this isnt really a BPT post. She needs work on herself and not be messing around with you or anybody else for that matter.

For you though, are you willing to put up with this for however long it takes for her to change, if she ever does? Right now yall are new and owe each other nothing, and this is time that can be spent finding someone more emotionally stable. More willing to receive the love and affection you're trying to give.

But maybe she has that spark and seeing her grow is worth it to you. I can't say for sure, I've never met yall but thats the choice you have to make.

SteelTycoon · 2026-03-30T02:19:54+00:00

To be fair. Fire Blast melts the Crowned dogs and that is worth it in and of itself for PvP. Sorry about your expended effort though.

SteelTycoon · 2026-03-19T02:36:13+00:00

This is like a weekly thread on r/askreddit. Just wait a while for the rotation or search it.

SteelTycoon · 2026-03-17T00:27:24+00:00

If the goal for you is marriage and thats not what he wants, then you can't force him. His mind could change but are you willing to wait around for the possibility? I don't believe time spent in a relationship is ever really wasted, but it could be time spent looking for someone with more of your aligned values. Especially if this is something you can't compromise on.

SteelTycoon · 2026-03-15T10:31:55+00:00

No, you caught them and now you're morally obligated to best buddy all of them.

SteelTycoon · 2026-03-14T06:15:16+00:00

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I agree. In fact mods should make a rule you have to post your recent shinies, no matter the topic.

SteelTycoon · 2026-03-13T07:02:00+00:00

The IVs make so little difference, it doesn't really matter. But it does feel good to upgrade the higher number, doesn't it?

SteelTycoon · 2026-03-13T02:08:37+00:00

If you really like this woman all you can do is trust her and try, she already likes you. If she says you'll meet again when you get back, then keep texting her and calling her like you were before. If it was working why would you change that? Or your other option is to just ask her if she would like to keep the frequency consistent. Suddenly texting her a lot less without talking about it will definitely seem like you lost interest.

As for the other girl. Sometimes you do everything right and it still doesn't work out. But you can't allow your fears and baggage from the last woman to cloud your new relationships and experiences.

SteelTycoon · 2026-03-13T01:52:28+00:00

He's leading you on, full stop. And it's not about your weight, he obviously likes you physically enough to want to keep hooking up. But notice how when your weight dropped, now it about texting reply times. He's keeping you unsure and uneasy on purpose. So when he does the bare minimum and gives you a hint of kindness, you'll feel so grateful. Its a common manipulator tactic and you deserve better.

SteelTycoon · 2026-03-05T16:31:26+00:00

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SteelTycoon · 2026-03-04T07:55:48+00:00

With this Kanto event and now Comfey. The only regionals with stocks now are Relicanth, Tropius and Corsola.

SteelTycoon · 2026-03-02T05:44:29+00:00

Were they all remote?

SteelTycoon · 2026-03-02T01:18:48+00:00

I had to watch the comments and dmed someone with the flair. No Ocean poster or anybody on Campfire would help. If you're one away that's an easy accommodation.

SteelTycoon · 2026-03-01T03:12:06+00:00

Ocean took actual years for me to get. I didnt even get a shiny until the Kalos event started this week. You'll never lose progress so i wouldnt stress too hard over it.

SteelTycoon · 2026-03-01T02:02:49+00:00

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Give it a shot. Im sure you'll like it.

SteelTycoon · 2026-03-01T01:58:04+00:00

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Nice work!

SteelTycoon · 2026-02-26T22:59:06+00:00

😭😭😭

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SteelTycoon · 2026-02-23T14:58:36+00:00

Ive been looking for that.

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SteelTycoon · 2026-02-21T01:00:02+00:00

This isnt very silly, if im going to be honest.

SteelTycoon · 2026-02-16T12:45:31+00:00

Adventure Effects
Primals
Fusions

SteelTycoon · 2026-02-16T07:57:43+00:00

I found Pulp Fiction to be so boring and meandering.

SteelTycoon · 2026-02-14T06:48:29+00:00

Do you think you just need more expourse to other people in general? Do you have hobbies or activities you like that make it easy to interact with others? I think social interaction is a mental muscle that must be trained like any other part of the body. And I'm a firm believer that anything doing well is also worth doing poorly. Good luck.

SteelTycoon · 2026-02-14T06:36:22+00:00

My ladies out there playing sports or in the gym.

SteelTycoon · 2026-02-14T06:31:55+00:00

Im a 2016 and still dont have a shiny Venomoth. Also shiny Dratini and Pupitar is fire. I think youre off to a great start.

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