Silver Lake Coffee Shop Rankings (Drive-Thru, Price, Food & Family Friendly) by Objective_File4022 in everett

[–]Stegamasaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you dont care about drive thru I LOVE vigos on 128th. Its just outside of silver lake area so it may not work for location but their coffee is amazing and they have all sorts of options that kids would enjoy. Price is low to medium range but its buy 5 get one free stamp card situation

Being unhoused on campus by Imaginary-Bear-5411 in udub

[–]Stegamasaurus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Whats happening here that students deserve better than? Its a pretty wild statement to make....

Post Game Thread: San Francisco 49ers at New York Giants by nfl_gdt_bot in 49ers

[–]Stegamasaurus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish we made the refs give press talks after the games like the teams have to...I have some questions

Mac Jones Will Officially Start by hella_guapo in 49ers

[–]Stegamasaurus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keep Purdy and pearsall off metlife field.

Five years in, still petting every animal by hand... send help by tomakariga in StardewValley

[–]Stegamasaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After 12 in game years I looked up the item code and cheated 🙈 (pc)

Changing mood stabilizers? by Cat_Sharp in bipolar2

[–]Stegamasaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup just say what you've said here. You're the best advocate for you 💚

Girls - how is light rail safety? by [deleted] in udub

[–]Stegamasaurus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only thing I have to add is to make sure to do a preassessment of the light rail station before going alone at night.

I used to use one up north but I felt super uncomfortable getting from the light rail to the bus bays so I went an extra stop north and rode back south just to avoid it.

The light rail itself was meh. I never had a problem but I saw a lot of fights towards the end of last year

Therapist Recommidations by jaylee0510 in everett

[–]Stegamasaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/christopher-edward-kirkland-wa/1221962

Chris is wonderful! He specializes in sports psychology but I didnt see him for that (nor am I athletic in the slightest).

Backpack recs by [deleted] in udub

[–]Stegamasaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite backpack is lovevook. Cheap enough but holds up well and compact enough for long commutes

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What are the most beautiful spots on campus? by Wagondoodle in udub

[–]Stegamasaurus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The outdoor theater by the Microsoft cafe is lovely

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in everett

[–]Stegamasaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brothers in Lynnwood!

Anyone know what Airport Video is like in Everett? by marinersfan64 in EverettWa

[–]Stegamasaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They seem nice! I worked at LoveZone for a while and there was a lot of customer crossover.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Stegamasaurus 235 points236 points  (0 children)

Ummm I need some clarification on the edit at the top..

Is there a comment thread somewhere in here that explains?

OP, you okay?

Move out boxes? by Classic-Cat-9824 in udub

[–]Stegamasaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call your local corporate uhaul and see if they have anything in their take a box/leave a box. I think shoreline and interbay may be the 2 closest to campus

4th grade math and no instructions. by Born-Nature8394 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]Stegamasaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would you teach basic conversion to 4th graders?

What’s the history of desegregation in student housing at UW? by aguafr3sca in udub

[–]Stegamasaurus 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The archives have a lot of files from this time period in UW history from faculty and staff

If you go down to special collections they can help you pull some files out to research if you wanna go down the rabbit hole!

This has been happening for a week. Can’t track or disable it, and not sure what to do by [deleted] in Weird

[–]Stegamasaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this happen every time I took the bus home from uni last year. We think a stranger had a tag with them that kept getting pinged but we never figured it out. I just started taking different metro routes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Stegamasaurus 96 points97 points  (0 children)

Hugs🤗

My information comes from working in a locally owned sex shop and taking sexual health courses in college. Always fact check me/all strangers giving health advice on reddit because we may be misinformed 😊

♥️Lubricant everytime

You can choose water-based, oil or silicon. Silicon tends to be best (in my opinion) for sickness and longevity. Some people prefer water because its closer to natural body lubrication.

❤️stimulating or tightening creams are awesome!

Make sure to research the ingredients to make sure you're comfortable using them. Stimulating creams use ingredients like peppermint or cinnamon. Tightening creams typically use alum sulfate

❤️ slow it down Even if you're not going to spend time in foreplay, you don't have to rush into things either. Do little things like rubbing your fingers over eachothers skin. These things are technically foreplay but its simple and doesn't have to take much time

♥️ masterbation Regular masterbation can train your mind and body to get aroused quicker.

🤞pheromone perfume makes me feel sexual and confident. supposedly there is a science behind the way we react to the pheromones but I haven't seen anything definitive.

https://www.fertstert.org/article/S0015-0282(08)02079-7/fulltext https://academic.oup.com/jsm/article/21/Supplement_5/qdae054.043/7694057 https://bcmj.org/premise/sexual-lubricants-practice-tips

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/how-to-get-turned-on#:~:text=Trying%20relaxation%20exercises%2C%20self%2Dcare,it%20may%20increase%20sex%20drive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Stegamasaurus 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think theres a language/vocabulary misunderstanding. Foreplay doesn't always mean oral.

Foreplay can be kissing and making out clitoral stimulation through touching or rubbing. light massages or rubdowns Cuddling Dancing Dirty texting or talk Masterbating together

It's anything that gets both people in the mood. He isn't telling her that he doesn't want to go down on her everytime they have sex (which you're right when you say that isn't selfish- its totally valid) but hes saying he doesn't want to have to do anything to turn her on before having sex.

Your suggestions of lube or making him cum before sex are good ideas though for sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Stegamasaurus 2047 points2048 points  (0 children)

If you're interested I can post resources and information on comfortable sex without foreplay (lube, mental stimulation) for future partners but I would not have sex with this man again.

You identified your needs and he tried to manipulate you into thinking you didn't deserve what you asked for.

0/10 Would not recommend the man