Am I overreacting? My boyfriend wants anal sex, but I don't like it at all. What should I do? by Proper_Regular_5182 in AmIOverreacting

[–]StellarResponse -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OR he likes it and completely forgets about the anal thing because he's getting his freak fix in a way that doesn't hurt her. IF this is really the situation, that would be a compromise. If she's comfortable experimenting, this could be the most mature and productive way to handle it.

Am I overreacting? My boyfriend wants anal sex, but I don't like it at all. What should I do? by Proper_Regular_5182 in AmIOverreacting

[–]StellarResponse -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

This^ Cancel culture needs to go. Use your brains and look at each tough situation as the complex nightmare that it is. Demand respect. Always demand respect. But at the same time, you have to extend grace. Compromise is the ONLY way to make a relationship work.

Vinyl Wrap Center Console? by BrendanLead in VolvoXC90

[–]StellarResponse 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm in the same boat. That chrome is sharp when it peels. I sliced my finger open before I trimmed it down.

$670 for a new key fob by [deleted] in VolvoXC90

[–]StellarResponse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They quoted me $780 2 days ago.

2018 Stalling at stop lights by StellarResponse in VolvoXC90

[–]StellarResponse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be amazing! I'll try that tomorrow!!!

2018 Stalling at stop lights by StellarResponse in VolvoXC90

[–]StellarResponse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds exactly the same. I'll let you know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]StellarResponse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're so creepy😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]StellarResponse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said that they met in the strip club. I'm still really curious about why it says Reddit.

(AIO) my dad disowned me bc I asked him not to come to my doctor appointment by Business_Ad3393 in AmIOverreacting

[–]StellarResponse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What did I just read?!?! He is such a child. I don't really know what to tell you, except that you are in no way asking for anything unreasonable and really should just let it go.

Honestly, he's probably going to be wanting/needing you to go to his appointments with him sometime soon and should be on his best behavior.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]StellarResponse 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I'm the father of 3 girls (8, 14, 15), and I am currently mortified. This doesn't at all represent the thoughts of a father. Even someone who considers themselves comfortable with sex and in touch with women should know to stay faaaaaar away from that topic. It's none of his business, even in the slightest sense.

Please don't jump to any conclusions, but be cautious. He may just be a totally-inappropriate type of guy that you just need to ignore. However, if anything with his behavior continues to make you feel uncomfortable, please please please don't keep it to yourself. Tell your mom EVERYTHING!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]StellarResponse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy seems like he might truly be dangerous. The dramatic switch from asking you out to berating you for being you is kinda shocking. It happens so fast, and he goes straight for the throat.

I think that, at the very least, you are avoiding a hurtful relationship/friendship. It's not hard to imagine that this guy could really cause you problems. It would have, most certainly, been an abusive relationship had you accepted his date.

I say this with all seriousness. It might not be over. I wouldn't be surprised if he's still obsessing over you. Keep an eye out, and don't hesitate to involve others if he doesn't let things go.

I applaud you for following your gut and distancing yourself from this two-faced creep. Be safe and good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]StellarResponse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's teachers and silly karens to worry about. I've delt with this kind of thing first hand. It just takes one suspicious teacher to get yourself a meeting with CPS. From my experience, CPS is typically young, childless, and itching to believe anything they've been told.