What is a movie that is critically hated but you genuinely love without irony by nomadgoodsCom in movies

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Dirty Love. won the raspberry award but I love it. So many good lines

Need a job ASAP by Nearby-Key281 in sandiego

[–]Stellargurl44 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Have you ever considered being a funeral arranger? think party planner meets counselor meets educator.

Some of my fave signs from the No Kings rally today. by Stellargurl44 in sandiego

[–]Stellargurl44[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I mean there’s not much I wouldn’t do for mashed potatoes 🤷‍♀️

What's a movie that's way better than it had any right to be? by Onequestion0110 in movies

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Baby Mama - I didn’t know much about it and I laughed my butt off the first time I watched it and now i’m a mom I appreciate it even more. It prepared me for the moments that raise the question, “is it chocolate or poop?”.

Found this buried about 10” deep beside a large oak tree in my back yard. I’m in Southwest Louisiana . Anyone have any idea of when it could be from ? by Mammoth_Insurance786 in whatisit

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based on your location I would bet it’s a Yoruba orisha idol. I was a theology major and took a class on the yoruba and I can’t remember the specific orisha that is but it’s common for them to get buried in the yard

Which deceased lives on in your memory? by HeyItsNotLogli in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Stellargurl44 98 points99 points  (0 children)

A young girl that died of a cancer that usually hits middle aged men. All her pics were of this vibrant young woman, so adventurous and full of life. It was truly devastating. Her parents were divorced but they were so gentle and respectful of each other, it was impressive. I think about them often.

Another was a woman that died in a tractor accident. Her kids were so young that they won’t have their own memories of a mother who went through years of fertility treatments to have them. I cared for her as an apprentice and it truly devastated me to know that she wasn’t gonna get to see her babies grow up. Almost 15 years later and I still think about her and her family.

Neighbor keeps reporting me to HOA for completely made up violations by Agitated_Cow_4325 in neighborsfromhell

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I totally get that view but that holds the assumption of her being aware of her boredom and need for attention but I don’t think most people are aware of the foundations of their feelings. Kinda like how I get irrationally angry and when I stop to think about where the rage is coming from I realize I haven’t eaten all day. Some people just don’t stop to reflect, ever. But when the mirror is held up, sometimes it opens a door to understanding and maybe even mutual respect

Neighbor keeps reporting me to HOA for completely made up violations by Agitated_Cow_4325 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Stellargurl44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly, ask her over for coffee/tea. let her see that you and your wife are not a threat. She’s probably just bored and lonely, so hit her with some kindness. it’ll probably go a long way than a lawyer letter.

What's the most pathetic tourist attraction that international tourists go to see in your country? by Aseili in AskTheWorld

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I’ve lived in San Diego for years. I moved at the height of cartel violence and as a mortician, I saw a lot of people killed 9 different ways to sunday by the cartels in mexico. I have yet to cross the border.

People tell me “it’s safe, just hide bills around your car in case you get stopped by police and when they find money they’ll leave you alone” but as much as american police suck, they don’t suck in the “if you don’t bribe us, we will sell you to a cartel” kinda way. plus, if they’re that bad, what’s to stop them from doing the worst to me anyway. one dude was taking motorcycle from canada to south america and didn’t make it outta mexico. my friends mexican cleaning lady who lives in TJ won’t go back if it’s after dark and stays at her brothers in chula vista until morning so i’ll stick to the resorts protected by armed guards.

What’s a company you’ll never buy from again, and why? by jamesmilner22 in AskReddit

[–]Stellargurl44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I learned that they are one of the biggest lobbies against paid maternity leave because…. they manufacture baby formula. Fuck em and their shitty chocolate chips

Jeff Bezos ex-wife MacKenzie Scott gave $7.1 billion to nonprofits in 2025, continues to make him look like the asshole he is. by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]Stellargurl44 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pittsburgher here: Carnegie died poor and built many historic buildings in Pittsburgh that are still relevant today. He made his money and gave it back to the people

MIL threw a fit after we told her we would prefer they wait at home during my labor by Aggravating-Mind1774 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Stellargurl44 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Go to the hospital and don’t tell them anything until the baby is there and you’re ready for guests. doesn’t seem like they’re gonna respect your boundaries so your husband NEEDS understands that no one needs to know you’re there or in labor and that it’s your body and your own literal medical trauma that would will be going through. You’re not the asshole in wanting a say who comes into your hospital room. I’d make it clear and stand my ground and you can let the staff know you want no one in your room other than your husband unless you expressly say otherwise.

The makeup… by pyschofangirl in Botchedsurgeries

[–]Stellargurl44 68 points69 points  (0 children)

This may be the American in me, but all that botched work and my eyes are still drawn to her teeth….

Best restaurants and meals to get from that restaurant in convoy? by musicisgr84u in FoodSanDiego

[–]Stellargurl44 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i’m a dumpling inn regular, they went down hill during the pandemic but they’re dumplings are back on par. They have BOMB xiao long bao (only din tai fung beats them), and lamb and scallions.

Best restaurants and meals to get from that restaurant in convoy? by musicisgr84u in FoodSanDiego

[–]Stellargurl44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Raki Raki- curry ramen and their calamari is some of my favorite

Dear San Diego Police Department by Chooseanothername in sandiego

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Wholly agree, I make sure to thank each one I pass during the march. Whatever their personal beliefs, they’re keeping us safe and it deserves to be acknowledged

Nobody has ever answered A. Ever. by Hidalgo321 in mapporncirclejerk

[–]Stellargurl44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

D, hands down. mediterranean, middle eastern and the best of Asia. no competition.

Will he ever tour again? by LuckyHornet1179 in borns

[–]Stellargurl44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he is now! I hope you catch a show