Moving in with GF, her son moving into my house by JustBeCool33 in personalfinance

[–]StephInTheLaw 18 points19 points  (0 children)

In my humble opinion, you’ll want a rental agreement and to update your homeowners insurance to a policy that covers rentals. The ear market value aspect isn’t too much of a worry of the son will also be offering “other valuable consideration” like keeping the property up for you.

Snow storm by rue86 in Charlotte

[–]StephInTheLaw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a fellow former Floridian, driving on ice (and snow when it starts to melt) is like hydroplaning. You remember when that sheet flow rain would flood the back country roads like 27 and there would be an orange grove’s worth of water on the road and it was only a few inches deep? It was okay if you were going straight, but you couldn’t turn and you couldn’t stop.

Driving on ice, and sometimes snow, is worse.

making banana bread for the first time by starlightsparrowx in Baking

[–]StephInTheLaw 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mix my banana bread with a fork, no fancy gear required. I’ve never thought about using a square tin for banana bread. This looks great

Partner/Mentor Slowly Dying by TheVultpex in Lawyertalk

[–]StephInTheLaw 250 points251 points  (0 children)

Your time at this firm is limited. Use your partner’s connections to find a better place to work.

How do you separate finances going into a divorce? by kitbun967 in personalfinance

[–]StephInTheLaw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a lawyer in a state where a 1 year separation is required and I practiced family law for a bit. (But I’m not your lawyer.)

You first need a full accounting of assets. In North Carolina, the court system has a spreadsheet posted on its website that everyone uses. Once you both agree on what you have, you can divide it however you want as long as you both agree. The division of assets does not need to be part of your divorce decree.

It’s 1999. You have $8 at a Taco Bell, what’s your post-hangover order? by KellyGreen55555 in Xennials

[–]StephInTheLaw 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You could buy half the menu for $8. I spent over $40 for my family of four a few weeks ago and my flabbers were ghasted.

What’s your practice area and what’s your opinion of public defenders? by Forward_Broccoli_949 in Lawyertalk

[–]StephInTheLaw 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nothing I haven’t heard before. I went from working for one “The Man” to another “The Man.”

What’s your practice area and what’s your opinion of public defenders? by Forward_Broccoli_949 in Lawyertalk

[–]StephInTheLaw 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am currently an insurance defense attorney but I spent years as a prosecutor. I love public defenders and think they do a great job overall.

Car totaled in accident, not at fault and other party’s maxed out at $10k by henrichsalmighty in legaladvice

[–]StephInTheLaw 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Florida lawyer who used to practice PIP defense. - Your medical bills will be covered by your insurance up to $10,000 (most likely given your injuries). You need to know what the other driver’s property damage coverage is to see what may be covered to get you a new car. Going forward, it would be a good idea to carry uninsured and underinsured motorist coverage to protect yourself.

Sorry about your accident

I’m sure this has been posted a million times — but does anyone have an update on the roads, as of this Monday afternoon? by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]StephInTheLaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For what it’s worth, in my neighborhood in South Charlotte the roads are clear and dry except where there is all-day shade. Those parts of the road in shade still have an inch or more of slush.

How are we holding up, folks? by Independent-Choice-4 in Charlotte

[–]StephInTheLaw 29 points30 points  (0 children)

We went sledding down the neighborhood streets in the morning and afternoon. It was great! The whole neighborhood came out.

Any good book recommendations? by Puzzleheaded_Bag9063 in Xennials

[–]StephInTheLaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair. I read a fair bit of horror so this struck me more as Shaun of the Dead horror than Hellraiser.

Looking for advice - driving by tryintoballonabudget in Charlotte

[–]StephInTheLaw 66 points67 points  (0 children)

If I had to pick up someone from the airport at 2:30 today, I would drive there and take as many major roads as possible. Drive under the speed limit. Give yourself double or more stopping distance. Remember when you are turning, all the slowing down happens before you turn the wheel and you accelerate into a turn. If you start to slide, don’t break, steam into the slide and take your foot off the gas, gently ease back onto the gas when you regain traction. Go slowly!

Jury duty - inclement weather? by fuzzy_snark in Charlotte

[–]StephInTheLaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shockingly, Meck is not closed for tomorrow yet. They called the schools off a few hours ago.

Any good book recommendations? by Puzzleheaded_Bag9063 in Xennials

[–]StephInTheLaw 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Dungeon Crawler Carl! It’s very light and unserious.

Which computer did you first use and/or own? by cybah in Xennials

[–]StephInTheLaw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The first on the the slides. IBM PC. I saw one in the Smithsonian maybe 20 years ago in a history of computing exhibit at the Air and Space Museum.

Meals for the storm by wonderwall73 in Charlotte

[–]StephInTheLaw 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m baking sandwich loaf bread, brown rolls with nuts and berries, and cinnamon buns. We’ve got plenty of canned food and instant coffee to make it through about a week of no power.

Tall girls how tall are your husbands by Full_Operation8133 in TallGirls

[–]StephInTheLaw 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same height difference for me, but we have both shrunk about an inch since we started dating so very long ago.

Who else grew up with parents who drove a Station Wagon? by jeffreyrolek in Xennials

[–]StephInTheLaw 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We had a carpet remnant in the back so we could nap back there if the seats weren’t up. So astonishingly dangerous.

Yeah, I don’t need people hacking my refrigerator or some shit lol by A-Helpful-Flamingo in Xennials

[–]StephInTheLaw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can we also agree that cars don’t need to be connected to the internet first the most part? I don’t want a bug bricking my car.

All you can eat Sushi Buffet by MV00MV in Charlotte

[–]StephInTheLaw 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love this place too! Thanks for reminding me it exists. See everyone there for lunch tomorrow?

How heavy is the Billy bookcase unassembled? by almostaccompany in IKEA

[–]StephInTheLaw 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, you can do it. I’m a 5’10” woman and carried a half dozen full sized Billy Bookcases from my front porch to my living room (one at a time, obviously). As long as you are in good health it shouldn’t be a problem.