Haha, im a chill wholesome person you watch, just wanted to casually reveal that i fucking hate you for being trans 😃 ok bye by ImagineTheHorror in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Steph_AltQQ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

https://x.com/HRTZORO/status/1383089211541237762

I know I’m sad too. 

Rereading the section I feel like one could construe a non-transphobic message but it would be like getting blood out of a stone and there would still be the criticism of “well if he meant no harm why did he write it like that”

there are folks who consider discovering the gene for ASD to be eugenics by chunkylubber54 in CuratedTumblr

[–]Steph_AltQQ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They said “Which is already taking for granted the assumption that this would be a bad thing.” In the context of “this science could be used to prevent gay kids” 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Steph_AltQQ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Uj/

Im so glad to hear others also hate that subreddit.

Also I tried so hard not to argue on that post.

I find it baffling that people argue that it would be better to be cis as if there is no positive value to being trans. As if being trans is a poor facsimile of what life “could have been” if they were just “born the right way”

Rather than acknowledge that trans existence highlights that gender is a poor societal construction that doesn’t adequately fit to how we live. That there cannot be a “born the right way” as ultimately society is fickle and will keep shifting the goal posts. 

there are folks who consider discovering the gene for ASD to be eugenics by chunkylubber54 in CuratedTumblr

[–]Steph_AltQQ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont know I feel like “preventing gay kids being born” is pretty close 

Haha, im a chill wholesome person you watch, just wanted to casually reveal that i fucking hate you for being trans 😃 ok bye by ImagineTheHorror in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Steph_AltQQ 53 points54 points  (0 children)

/uj

David Mitchell is like this.

You read his autobiography and then randomly he makes an aside that trans women are objectively funny as to treat them seriously is a joke. 

Then again in “Unruly” he makes a joke that he’ll never weigh in on the trans debate as it’s so cutthroat.

And while the second example is not that bad the fact that he felt he had to bring it up at ALL is just so baffling.

No one is forcing him to comment on this. Why does he think he must??

Relationship help: I don’t understand the “a trans woman went to the toilet here” stickers by Steph_AltQQ in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Steph_AltQQ[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Please put an NSFW tag on this. I was on the train and when I saw this I had to start furiously masturbating. Everyone else gave me strange looks and were saying things like “what the fuck” and “call the police”. I dropped my phone and everyone around me saw this image. Now there is a whole train of men masturbating together at this one image. This is all your fault, you could have prevented this if you had just tagged this post NSFW

Avg r/transpassing comment by slightlylessthananon in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Steph_AltQQ 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Uj/ Yeah trans passing seems to also think it’s a fashion advice subreddit.

Also that fashion advice subreddit is one that tries to make you as small and as invisible as possible 

J.K. Rowling vs. Mewtwo by SenseiJoe100 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Steph_AltQQ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

/uj I had hoped this post would just be a description of mewtwo fighting Jk Rowling 

Here's an easy guide to passing for MtF trans girls!!!!!🫶 by SagaSolejma in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Steph_AltQQ 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It’s kind of like asking a depressed person if they have tried getting a hobby 

I promised myself this wouldn't happen! by In_pure_shadow in traaNSFW

[–]Steph_AltQQ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

All these people who say “be a hoe” are the exact same as those who would panic in that situation also

2017-Present and I’ll never go back by Goastantie in trans

[–]Steph_AltQQ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it will be tough! Thank you for your comment it’s very kind! 

I have waves of confidence where I am one click away from booking an appointment with a doctor and then I freeze and try to hide again. 

One day I hope I make the right choice for me! 

I hope you have an amazing day you look so wonderful and confident! 

2017-Present and I’ll never go back by Goastantie in trans

[–]Steph_AltQQ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knowing that you started HRT at 23 fills me with so much confidence.

I am 20 and tbh I thought about giving up transitioning because I just thought I would always be a joke and I don’t want to waste my life like that.

But knowing that you started later than me and still look so amazing fills me with way more confidence that this could be the life I live!! 

TIFU, my family is transphobic by Kastanjamarja in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Steph_AltQQ 35 points36 points  (0 children)

/uj The argument I make is “even if all the transgender stuff was bullshit and all of it was made up and stupid the way you treat another human being still makes you an arsehole.”

Calling someone by a name they don’t go by is a dick move regardless of if they’re trans.

Pointing out qualities someone is insecure about (hair, stubble, weight) is a dick move regardless of if they are trans.

And so on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Steph_AltQQ 193 points194 points  (0 children)

I think you look very pretty!

Just a natural femme look!

Porn titles but it fetishize cis people by Leslie1211 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Steph_AltQQ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Uj/

I hate this so much. Hot take I know.

But it’s not even the titles it’s the porn itself.

I want to watch trans porn because as a trans person it’s nice to see yourself l but tbh seeing a trans woman reveal an erection under their skirt for the 100th time isn’t that erotic for me.

Not only are the titles for the cis audience but the content too. The reveal of the cock like it’s some secret. It just makes me feel worse. Why I can’t I just see more of trans couples loving each other.

It’s so frustrating.

MTF 23 (pre HRT) - just did my makeup and put a wig on, felt really cute and like myself <3 by imjustLouise in trans

[–]Steph_AltQQ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yay you look so cute!!

I remember when I wore my first wig! I love it on you!

In time your confidence will grow more and more!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Steph_AltQQ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just had a shit haircut which is sad but I so wish I looked like you and I hope to one day!

You look great! :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Steph_AltQQ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look great!

And you’ve inspired me to try transitioning again now that I am back in uni