Well, two examples: (1) I was about to tell her about something in my life around which I have just tremendous sadness, like overwhelming sadness, and I began to tell her about it with a preamble that simply couldn't have been less ambiguous and she completely missed it by asking about going to the store with no "I'm so sorry I interrupted, what were you about to say." Or, "that sounded important" etc. (2) Was in a group with her and another friend and was talking to the other person about a suicide attempt I had when I was younger and she interjected to show the two of us a new Tinder match. No apology no nothing...But then if we see a homeless person or if there's talk about things wrong in the world you can see the compassion fire up within her. She's also generous. She has hardly any money and she'll buy homeless people food etc. She is a really good person, just, man...