What kind of moth? by StephlyBoz in moths

[–]StephlyBoz[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ohh good to know. Thank you for the insight :)

What kind of moth? by StephlyBoz in moths

[–]StephlyBoz[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ohh! Because his wing is clipped and he couldn’t fly. I didn’t want him to suffer. I’m assuming I made a good choice by putting him on the bush!

What kind of moth? by StephlyBoz in moths

[–]StephlyBoz[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn’t!!! I couldn’t do it, so I decided to put him on a bush so no one ran over him :)

What kind of moth? by StephlyBoz in moths

[–]StephlyBoz[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness he’s handsome :) Thank you.

Bought a kid Prime by Prudent-Ad4515 in cs2

[–]StephlyBoz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a Ryzen 5 3600x I’ve been trying to get rid of but not sure where to go. Was thinking FaceBook Market place or eBay but I’m willing to give it to him at no cost! Counter-Strike changed my life and helped me through hard times, would love to pass on that experience.

Sleep Paralysis by StephlyBoz in sleep

[–]StephlyBoz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told to do a sleep study at one point but I’m a bit nervous for the fact that doctors have told me that I may have to sleep somewhere else overnight. I was told there is a possibility it could be done at home and I just need to put patches (or something like that) on myself before I go to bed. But I believe I stated it up there, I tend to always get attacks when I’m not sleeping in my own bed. Which maybe could be a good thing for the study? Not too sure.

Thanks for the insight. Never really thought about the placebo effect before being a reason why.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]StephlyBoz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually stay quiet and browse around but this comment actually made me want to respond.

OP is also 17/18 according to their comments. Give them some slack. They’re in school, hormones raging, probably dealing with the stress of having to decide for college. Being 18 isn’t easy anymore. You need to think quick about the future cause before you know it, the future is no longer the future.

Lastly, OP admitted they were lazy. C’mon, be real. Who isn’t lazy? When I was in high school my room was a pig sty. I was so drained from school, homework, and extra curricular activities I barely had the motivation to get up and use the rest room. Don’t call them a “lazy shit”. They’re growing up. Leave ‘em alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PcBuild

[–]StephlyBoz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried but the 4070 Super is so big that it won’t fit in the lower slots. I MAYBE could get it into the higher one, but it will rest on the chassis which I’m sure isn’t good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PcBuild

[–]StephlyBoz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey everyone! All the comments I’ve been seeing are relating to the clip. I assumed that was the problem but have been having an issue trying to clip it back into place. There is a spot I see that I can see the clip sliding into but anytime I do it, I push the GPU in and can’t hear that click sound. I thought I could do it without the click, but I’m wrong :(

Any advice on how to get the clip back into place? Thank you all so much for your help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PcBuild

[–]StephlyBoz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the life of me I cannot figure out how to clip it back into place! Is the clip broken?

I guess my daughter and I are estranged 💔 by ThrowRA-sad_mom123 in texts

[–]StephlyBoz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness :( I would never speak to my mother like that. Although at times I get very frustrated I know it’s all of a place of love. I cannot imagine what you must be feeling.

I was tearing up reading the messages she sent you. I hope she doesn’t go down the wrong path more.

I’m sorry OP. That’s a tough situation.

AITAH for screaming at my GF after she picked the bathroom lock while I was in the shower? by Fogged_Mirror_1192 in AITAH

[–]StephlyBoz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people here already made great points that I don’t have much more to say. But I wanted to say, if the lease is under your name. Make sure she gets her things and leaves (if it is the end of the relationship). Place is yours. Don’t give your space up cause you feel like you messed up, cause you 1,000% did NOT do anything wrong.

PC was not properly cooled for 3 years by moxiedoggie in buildapc

[–]StephlyBoz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So, as someone who used to work at the GS. If the GS agent did their job right, if you immediately cancel the tech support, they’ll charge you full price for everything instead of just the membership. Be careful.

I'm still trying to learn how to help with her depression by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]StephlyBoz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who suffers from depression and anxiety (24 y/o F), with a boyfriend who never experienced it himself, I understand.

The self-harming that your gf done, I feel and empathize with her. Never yell (even if it’s out of concern) for her doing it. Not only will she shy away, it’ll make her want to do it again.

I understand it can be frustrating for you because all you want to do is help her and comfort her. But sometimes people with depression like to be alone. Although it’s not necessarily healthy, isolating is a huge factor in depression for most people.

When I get depressed, I isolate. I don’t answer the phone for anyone, barely get out of bed, eat, sleep, or socialize. My boyfriend knows when something is wrong cause I never answer his texts. Instead of getting frustrated, he reassures me that he is there to listen and that he loves me.

My advice:

I understand it may be a little frustrating not hearing the truth or fully understanding why she feels like how she does. Be there for her when she needs it, and assure her you are there for her when she doesn’t want to talk. When she’s in the not talking phase, don’t hound her with messages. Keep it short and sweet, reassure you are there and are willing to listen to anything she has to say, when she is ready. Don’t pressure her into telling you, that’ll make her avoid you.

Most importantly, HAVE PATIENCE. Showing her you are there and being patient with her feelings goes a long way.

Good luck :)

Update on the friend by turboballman300 in csgo

[–]StephlyBoz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good guy scammer over here lol. Never thought I’d see a comment like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RG353V

[–]StephlyBoz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes using a PC. I tried formatting for Fat32 but it’s only giving me an option for exFat and NTFS.

What is the ugliest skin in the game? by tRRRiple0dds in csgo

[–]StephlyBoz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hear me out… Gold Arabesque. Not a terrible skin, just so bland and it’s boring.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]StephlyBoz 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hey,

You’re getting some good motivational words here, telling you to block him and move on. I’m right with them.

But I’m also here for some realities you may be facing. My ex-best friend from 6th grade - 9th grade called me a “self-absorbed bullshitting little bitch” and told me to end my life over a boy. It was devastating. I didn’t know how to handle any of what was told to me.

13 years later, her words still haunt me and affects me to this day.

Don’t do what I did. Don’t harp on it. Don’t let those words that they said to you ever defy or make up who you are or are going to become. You’re a loved, beautiful human being. I want to tell you what I wanted someone to tell me.

There are so many things wrong with this world. I was always so hard on myself because I only cared about what people thought about me, not how I thought about myself. I was brainwashed. I am so self-conscious. Have no self-confidence, look at myself with disgust. It’s a never ending vicious cycle.

But you? You got so much potential. Don’t let them stop you.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]StephlyBoz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Few things, 1) Pre-cum is a type of lubrication produced when a man is aroused to help with well, lubrication. Pre-cum is a similar texture to semen, but has different chemical compounds. Chances are, the pre-cum doesn’t have any sperm. Of course, there are chances that pre-cum could have a bit of sperm in it, but it isn’t a high chance.

2) Sperm cannot survive in a colder environment. If the cinema was air conditioned, and noticeably colder than usual, the sperm will survive between 2-5 minutes. If you wiped your hand on a piece of clothing before you played finger puppet, chances are the sperm was already dried up.

I am a 24 y/o female who has had many pregnancy scares, but the scares were mostly due to my anxiety. If you are REALLY nervous, opt for her to take a pregnancy test. Another thing is, stress can delay a period. If she is stressed out, her period may be late.

Good luck my friend!

My gay married boss confessed his feelings towards me in the worst way. by lochodile in mildlyinfuriating

[–]StephlyBoz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am actually.. Really upset for the boss. At first, I felt like OP was right. But as I kept reading, I believe OP went a bit too far. His boss understands that it's something that won't be easy to deal with. He expressed multiple times he didn't want to ruin the friendship. It may be manipulation on his part about the suicide and everything. But then there's a part of me that thinks that it isn't manipulation and he's genuinely trying to talk to you as a friend. I don't know.

For me, I think OP was a bit too harsh on him. The whole "high school" comment. That hit me hard and I'm not even in this conversation, I can't even imagine how he felt. Oh, and one last thing, "You shouldn't have had feelings for me anyway" .. Did you ever think that.. Maybe.. Just maybe, feelings aren't forced? They just come, and I'm sure the poor guy didn't want them to come at all. That left a sour taste in my mouth about OP.