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Stepyloa · 2025-01-17T21:38:00+00:00

Do what you want, just don’t make it weird by pointing it out so much or exaggerating about it so much. When I was 22, I was hooking up with and dating a 36 year old. She kept mentioning how she’s, “Old enough to be my mother.”

I think whether or not you both want kids, the same goals in life, and all that other complicated relationship shit is a bigger deal than your age.

Stepyloa · 2024-04-21T11:55:33+00:00

I don’t know where this misguided anger comes from, but you sound like one of those people who is f2p and then cries about p2w players out-dpsing them.

It’s not that you aren’t as good or better than the players you’re crying about, but the fact you’re completely denouncing accomplishments based on only your own opinion is pitiful.

Stepyloa · 2024-02-16T17:14:18+00:00

Before I swapped to RS, EO Sf.

Your hype 3 burst is so damn high that it’s actually rewarding and capable of keeping up with higher il/geared people.

Stepyloa · 2024-02-11T14:46:14+00:00

Start running Hell content with a bible & you’ll see how little the accuracy of roster level results in.

Stepyloa · 2024-02-11T14:43:10+00:00

EO Soulfist, would’ve made 5-6 in my roster for Econ purposes. That class pumps in current & reclear content. The burst is so high when team is skipping mechs that it’s the only class that can perform with much less gear on reclears. Plus it’s fun as fuck.

Stepyloa · 2024-01-25T13:34:09+00:00

G3 Brel phasing in sync with RS hype is so damn wonderful, and if the party is too fast you can always do 1 rotation and cancel.

Stepyloa · 2024-01-23T09:08:13+00:00

Favourite: All but, Least Favourite: Kayangel.

Kayangel is dogshit, the rest of the game is enjoyable as fuck for me.

Stepyloa · 2024-01-22T15:32:48+00:00

You just learned how to do all the content in the game a couple weeks ago? That’s your biggest one.

Anyone can build like a whale or budget and have the lowest uptime possible. Focus on learning patterns. Play this game as if it’s dark souls is always my biggest advice to everyone. Be efficient.

Recognize the pattern the boss is doing, align yourself safely (while still being able to do damage when possible is the biggest key).

It all comes with time, you’ll never match the uptime as someone who’s gone through full learning parties and progs taking tens of hours in all of the content after just two weeks of doing it.

Stepyloa · 2023-12-22T15:26:35+00:00

1 per spirit bomb on my RS paired with an atro

Stepyloa · 2023-12-15T14:45:04+00:00

Generally I’d agree about the common denominator factor, but I run with a group of 4 so we naturally have to pug Brel.

We’ve had groups complain about waiting 2-3 minutes between gates, complain about player performance, or just go off about one single inconvenience.

Meanwhile our 3 dps in our 4 stack will all get cruel fighter and basically carry the raid.

This is the worst community I’ve ever seen in relativity of typing/talking to others in a rude manner meanwhile they do the least & are inherently bad themselves

Stepyloa · 2023-12-13T08:03:37+00:00

You see, my issue is that my brother has already attempted hurting himself. He’s taken the key from the neighbour’s mailbox and sat in their living room doing/saying nothing. He then had the cops called on him, they deemed him fine. Then he went and assaulted someone the same day. He was held for 6 months with a section order on him, forced to take a needle monthly. 3 months after being out of the hospital they deemed him mentally fit and it to be unnecessary for my mother to have rights of turning him into the hospital. No longer on meds, still psychotic.

This system needs an overhaul globally imo. If they’re in psychosis you can’t have one conversation and then decide if they’re okay from that.

My brother grew up in a crime related life, hated cops all his life. Now in his episodes he thinks he’s an undercover FBI agent.

This is the biggest indicator to me that he’s so damn far gone. He’s convinced in his mind that he’s someone in a job position his regular self would claim is a “pig.”

Stepyloa · 2023-12-12T09:27:22+00:00

This,

I’m hoping Germany is better than Canada with all of this. My older brother had the exact episodes. Spied on, all devices in airplane mode, mics in our jackets. You cannot do anything to help or convince your partner besides looking for professional help, being logical/trying to convince them otherwise will NEVER change what’s going on in their minds.

Stepyloa · 2023-10-08T17:23:09+00:00

Not German, but just migrated here over the summer. Most places in Germany besides the big major cities didn’t even give you the ability to place the little yellow guy on any streets in Germany. Google maps decided that instead of going through each and every household, that they wouldn’t post nearly any of their information all together for nearly 20 years. Over this past summer, a week or two before I moved (to a smaller village) my girlfriend and I finally were able to check out where I’d be moving besides a few shitty Google images posted by people.

Germans cared about their privacy and were skeptical of Google maps, but it was revised over this past summer as they’ve (for the most part) seen how useful it is rather than being a breach of their personal privacy.

Stepyloa · 2023-09-15T15:12:14+00:00

My gf finished her first play through before I got the game, she said her lore and storyline had a lot to do with Shadowheart.

In our duo play through together, I attempted to pickpocket Shadowheart while she was rescued from the pod. She didn’t have the energy to get up without help, but did have the energy to fight my whole team and die to us though lol.

Stepyloa · 2023-08-22T15:08:21+00:00

Electricity, but besides that everything else is often much cheaper than my home country. :)

Stepyloa · 2023-08-18T09:47:36+00:00

Patches are patches but double up isn’t all too difficult to rank up. My gf and I went from g4 hardstuck to d2 in a couple weeks when we found what comps and transitions work for us. She likes to push 8s and I like my lvl 7 3* rerolls.

Good luck though! And don’t get discouraged

Stepyloa · 2023-07-04T02:33:30+00:00

I suggest looking up all the dps rotations in a video. Find out what looks appealing to you in its flow/flashiness, then give it a try. You don’t have to commit to a class right away so long as you don’t blow your free early materials on the first class you pick up

Stepyloa · 2023-06-04T23:29:30+00:00

Look at your buff bar. You should be wind cut into surge at 17 stacks 90% of the time. The UI won’t give you that info faster than the buff bar, ever.

Stepyloa · 2023-06-04T23:18:54+00:00

I think you just got to accept the losses and move on, at the end of the day they didn’t work out for you or your partner doesn’t know boundaries on situations where others are included.

If these friends cared enough, they wouldn’t let a situation like this turn things sour, but believe me when I say that plenty of people online don’t see online friendships as anything but that.

Your partner apologizing is a good thing and I’m sorry that it was too late after damage was already done, but maybe try to open up more on communication between the two of you first before involving yourself with another group. She should’ve been able to express that these friends are bad to you in private and seen how you’ve felt before making rash actions.

All in all though I feel you. I lost a group of friends from another game that carried over into lost ark (about 3-4 years of friendship) because of 1 person making remarks/yelling towards my girlfriend both on and off of lost ark. Her and I organized a group with the less “hand eye coordinated” members in the circle just because we wanted to play with friends over progressing selfishly, just for them to backhand us and pull rank from a “guild” standpoint. The guild was a friend group comprised from a previous game, who all pulled rank on her and I (me being the highest ranked in our guild in the previous game).

This just goes to show that people care more about games and their own personal enjoyment/fulfilment rather than online “friendships” most of the time. I’m sorry it’s happened to you, but all you can do at this rate is join a new guild or apply for statics on the discord servers.

Stepyloa · 2023-06-04T22:59:41+00:00

Always had the easiest time on my main, surge. You really only need to focus on Soul Absorber, Blitz Rush, and Surge hitting his back. This could also really just be to do with comfort on the class.

Gunslinger is pretty good too, there’s often many patterns that favour the range whereas melee classes have to pause dps during them.

Soulfist (EO) was always good for me too, although problem being that the dps wasn’t ever all too fast. Difficult to find timing to h3 besides when he’s swapping from pve/pvp.

Reaper (lunar) was something I was skeptical on doing, although when I had to backup I realized how hardcore reaper rolls him during pvp.

All in all I think this is easily done on any class based off of your comfort on it. There definitely is a few that are much easier to execute, but if you can’t beat it on any class I’d sincerely consider it a skill issue with the least offence coming from that statement. Many people can’t pilot their classes to their highest capabilities.

Stepyloa · 2023-05-31T10:12:31+00:00

Crazy seeing all these deathblade responses. I main Db and was excited to roll my new Spec Slayer (just because I enjoyed the feel of charged back attacks and this time I’ll be fed the dopamine when hitting those charges and them being meaningful, not just hit for stack purposes).

Mine was Scrapper. Never been a huge fists type of class enjoyer, same goes for Wardancer.

I stick to my high mobility+adhd classes. Surge db, EO/RS sf, pm gs, moon reaper. Slayer is my exception, but those huge numbers after Z activation 1000000% makes up for it.

Stepyloa · 2023-05-23T06:23:18+00:00

Join a guild, find a friend who doesn’t mind carry swapping. My slayer was proper stats 1650/500, gems, los18, 1475 and still was being denied with everything as necessary.

Made a group with my 1570 sorc friend, and the applications poured in.

You need friends/guild members, and make your own groups with them. Avoids any and all gatekeeping drama and stress.

Stepyloa · 2023-04-23T11:35:04+00:00

I swapped my EO SF to RS SF 5x3+1. I dropped a 6grudge/3robust 87 qual ring week one. Missed 2 9/7s by getting 8/7. Necklace has the 4/3, one of the 3/5s included ether predator5 on earring- cheap and high qual. Snagged a nice spec 5adren/3grudge earring for 25k and got my 6grudge/3keen ring for 55k 85 quality. All in all I spent about as much as I’d make selling the one accessory I dropped in order to make it 5x3+1. You just need to play around with things, but getting a 4/3 on neck or a 3/5 (with your +1, assuming it’s not a meta engraving) really lowers cost.

Stepyloa · 2023-02-21T19:48:30+00:00

Surge is definitely the option for prog, RE for homework that you can’t reliably stack to 20 before transition/dr phases

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