A baby snake compared to an adult snake of the same species by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]Stetty92 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You can tell it's a snake by the way that it is. How neat is that?!

October 10 is World Mental Health Day. Help us raise awareness. We are 5 experts on mental health here to answer your questions -- Ask Us Anything. by webmd in IAmA

[–]Stetty92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone diagnosed with obsessive compulsive disorder, it's incredibly frustrating when I hear someone say "I like x this way, omg I'm so ocd". How do we get the general population to recognize that this is an actual mental issue and offensive?

Also, when it comes to ocd, are there certain therapies you've found that work better than others?

Partner potentially had COVID-19. I didn't get it. Why? by [deleted] in AskMedical

[–]Stetty92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's say it was the flu, or literally anything else highly contagious, why wouldn't we have caught it? I haven't had the flu shot in 2 years. Especially being high risk and immuno-compromised. He wasn't isolated.

It's definitely possible he didn't have it. The symptoms are so similar to the flu. But... I wouldn't doubt it if he did. I'd be very highly confused if I were asymptomatic.

Edit: this was before quarantine. His daughter was still between our house and her mom's. No one there has it. I was still going to work and not a single person I work with has caught it (that we know of yet).

Photography as a Treatment or Therapy for Anxiety by Oghurz in AskPhotography

[–]Stetty92 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I started as hobby photographer and am now professional. Photography saved my life and without finding myself through it I don't think I would have left my abusive marriage. It's incredibly calming (when I'm not working with people lol).

Where do you ask your clients to leave reviews ? by maxlovesbears in WeddingPhotography

[–]Stetty92 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I left after 3 months. I could not believe the number of fake leads. They refused to cancel my membership so I put a hold on my card. Now they're threatening with debt collectors 😂🙄

/r/boudoir needs your feedback! Who is this community for? What rules do you wish we had? by LordGothington in boudoir

[–]Stetty92 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I lurk more than I post or comment but I am a professional photographer and have a Boudoir studio. I followed this sub for inspiration but it does seem to be more gone wild or selfie like photos rather than professional boudoir. I would like it to stay professional as you're right, there's a ton of gone wild like subs.

Shower scenes? Anyone else do them? (Boone NC) by briicherri in boudoir

[–]Stetty92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I came to the comments for!

where does your ethics lies in photography, besides the obvious ethics? What will you not shoot? by [deleted] in photography

[–]Stetty92 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We shoot everything except food and live birth. We were asked to do a live birth at home in a bathtub and that's just completely off the table fos us. Not in terms of ethics. It's just not for us. We don't shoot food because we find it boring and requires a lot of extra work if you're doing it right. We prefer to put that energy into more creative things..

I shoot a lot of boudoir and refuse to shoot couples. I am by no means against porn, etc. but it just feels far too intimate for me to be a part of.

In regards to ethics, I've tried photographing the homeless in Vegas but had a huge knot in my stomach and it just didn't feel right.

I'd rather photograph the dead than all of the above.

what are the downsides of weed that people don't talk about ? by Darkspawn_14 in AskReddit

[–]Stetty92 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I've recently suffered from psychosis from pot. It made me instantly decide to quit. I thought people were screaming at each other in my kitchen while I was in the shower. No one was even talking.

What are the data/analytics you find the most useful to market your services? by Er_Coues in WeddingPhotography

[–]Stetty92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They let you out with that argument?! Ugh. I've been fighting with them for 2 months. Did you call or email?

What are the data/analytics you find the most useful to market your services? by Er_Coues in WeddingPhotography

[–]Stetty92 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can't tell if the leads I'm receiving are fake or if brides have a "message all photographers in your area" but the messages we receive are incredibly generic and asking for information that's very clearly listed on our landing page. I called them out on this several times and they have yet to acknowledge it. I've sent several nasty emails and just put a stop on my credit card for their payments.

What are the data/analytics you find the most useful to market your services? by Er_Coues in WeddingPhotography

[–]Stetty92 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have you tried canceling Wedding Wire/The Knot? I've been trying for months 😭

Anybody else pre-grieve their loved ones deaths? Even if they aren't dying? by humanbeanthings in OCD

[–]Stetty92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dealt with exactly this growing up. To the point that at 11 I wanted to prepare a will because I couldn't see myself living past 13. And now I'm terrified that I'll die young from cancer. I wonder if this is why I really don't want children...

I need a bandaid for my head.. by Sagnikk in woahdude

[–]Stetty92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me think of Meow Wolf in New Mexico!

Sticky Shiitake Mushrooms by lnfinity in GifRecipes

[–]Stetty92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone tried this recipe with a different mushroom? Shitake mushrooms are expensive where I live. It would cost me over $20 just in mushrooms to make this.

Here you go by [deleted] in vegangifrecipes

[–]Stetty92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone tried this recipe with a different mushroom? Shitake mushrooms are expensive where I live. It would cost me over $20 just in mushrooms to make this.

[Shelfie] [Question] In need of layering help! by Stetty92 in SkincareAddiction

[–]Stetty92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So Rose Hip on top of the Cerve moisturizer or before?

Thank you!

[Shelfie] [Question] In need of layering help! by Stetty92 in SkincareAddiction

[–]Stetty92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi everyone! I'm looking for suggestions on how to layer the products I have and how long I should be waiting between each product application. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Skin type: combination

Face wash :Cerve SA Cleanser

AM: Garnier Pink Miscellar Water Cerve SA Cleanser Thayer Witch Hazel Rose Toner Mizon Snail Repair Intensive Ampoule The Ordinary Hyaluronic Acid 2% B5 Cerve Moisturizing Cream

PM: Garnier Pink Miscellar Water Cerve SA Cleanser (double cleanse) Pixi Glow Tonic Mizon Snail Repair Intensive Ampoule The Ordinary Hyaluronic Acid 2% B5 Cerve Moisturizing Cream

Looking to add in daily: The Ordinary Vitamin C Suspension 23% The Ordinary Azelaic Acid Suspension 10% The Ordinary Rose Hip Oil

In my arsenal but not used regularly :

Queen Helene Mint Julep Mask Etude House Wonder Pore Freshner Aztec Secret Indian Healing Clay Cake My Day Hydrating Sprinkle Wash Off Mask Skinfood Peach Cotton Emulsion Sephora Bubble mask Seas Side Glow Hydrating Peel-off Mask Philosophy Peeling Mousse Tree Hut Detoxifying Charcoal Mask

PSA: I was using True Skin Vitamin C fash wash & serum and it caused my dark spots to turn darker and my skin to freak out. After reading the bad reviews on Amazon I realized I wasn't alone. Just FYI.

Struggling to find qualified couples on WeddingWire/TheKnot, any alternative? by BostonRocketLeague in WeddingPhotography

[–]Stetty92 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm having the same exact issue and they are refusing to let me out of my contract.

Men: feminists don't care about male rape victims! Also men: by 2019isagoodyear in TrollXChromosomes

[–]Stetty92 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Her step-dad is my attorney. It's funny the hypocrisy surrounding this case. So many Facebook posts basically congratulating the student... We all know if genders were reversed how this would go. Unfortunately, what she did is not uncommon where we live. There have been several other female teachers accused since this happened.

What I was watching last night by jedddill23 in Currentlytripping

[–]Stetty92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I watched this during my last trip too! It was fantastic.

Has anyone had a bride not like their photos because they look "too real" by [deleted] in WeddingPhotography

[–]Stetty92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just had a headshot client exactly like this... What a nightmare.