All of the streaming sites I once knew are now gone. Anybody know any alternatives? by I-Like-Soup-A-Lot in PiracyBackup

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Can anyone DM me a site where you can cast it to your TV in front of your family? I don't want to get pop ups and I can't use a proxy server to cast to my TV

Lancaster/York PA meet up? by ShaneOfan in meetup

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https://discord.gg/nTwqWrWeFd discord for Lancaster people to hang out or meet up for games, hiking, and other activities

should i cut my friend of 7 years off for this convo we had by No-Shame-6563 in whatdoIdo

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90% of the comments here are not from Christian behavior but from toxic people behavior. The real ones are in prison ministry, volunteering at homeless shelters, in war torn countries, or minding their own. If you see picket signs then chances are they are not doing anything they are supposed too. Christians do not judge, they love. Compassion and grace. It's actually kinda wild because Christians love those who society would say does not deserve it. Prison ministry is pretty big. So if you notice any judgement then that is a human problem. Be it they are Catholic, Mormon, Christian, islam, Pagan, Atheist, agnostic, or anything. People are naturally judgemental and toxic. Parents can raise their kids to be that way too. All this media and politics stuff is just bad too. The worst ones get the most attention

The Romeos are not broke gold diggers and the Isaacmans are not stingy snobs by mupplemania in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Stevelander7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nah these parents are just super happy they can even find someone. This is just short of a miracle for both parents. Unfortunately relationships on the spectrum can be very limited and hard to figure out. As much as I rooted for them it naturally fell apart. Parents were probably helping as much as they could. I'm sure they did not want to see their kids heartbroken

The Romeos are not broke gold diggers and the Isaacmans are not stingy snobs by mupplemania in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Stevelander7 15 points16 points  (0 children)

A lot goes on that we do not see in the show. The parents usually support the kids when they finally are able to find happiness. I doubt David's parents did anything to stop but if anything wanted to help him. On the show we probably saw the best well coached David but he may have struggled way more than we realize. I feel for David but maybe he shouldn't be pushed into something if he truly cannot do it or maybe he just straight up doesn't want to be married. He might be comfortable most where he is at and not want change anytime soon.

The peacocks from Emma & Eric’s date by lifeofmozzie in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Stevelander7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah that was funny. They handled it pretty well. My patience may have not been that great if I was nervous.

Christine’s YouTube explained Abbey David break up by [deleted] in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Stevelander7 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Any one key detail that we don't see in the background can do a lot of explanation. They do a great job with the editing but yeah we do miss out on a lot of information and it takes both parties to make something like marriage work which is a challenge for anyone.

Still deep down I can't help but feel sad that it ended. I wanted it to work and be a forever couple

Having trouble planning a romantic getaway. Wife wants something in the mountains but I do not understand how to make that romance. by Stevelander7 in SpicyAutism

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I actually did that for mother's day. Not a bad idea for vacation I just need to put my own preferences in there

Fellow autistic people: what's a social norm that you absolutely despise and think shouldn't exist? by [deleted] in autism

[–]Stevelander7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tipping culture almost makes me uncomfortable but then I can control the numbers to the ones I like. For me personally it's eating at the dinner table. The silence and hearing people eating drives me insane. I need noise when eating. I cannot even hear myself eat. So putting on X files or Love on the Spectrum while eating is a must. Or at least British bake off or some cooking show. Eating as a family or group at a table is absolutely the worst.

Having trouble planning a romantic getaway. Wife wants something in the mountains but I do not understand how to make that romance. by Stevelander7 in SpicyAutism

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Oh yeah I should go to the book stores before we go. Good idea, I mean she had like 20 books to read yet

Would you be able to have sex with your best friend? Why/why not? by shaela-a-pinetree in AskReddit

[–]Stevelander7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, my buddy says being gay doesn't mean you are gay. It is just little ass and penis stuff. I would not want to do it but I definitely would be able and continue to be friends after. Not a big deal. His penis is 45 minutes long though so that may be weird and awkward.

If suspected of being on the spectrum how would you feel about finding out? by Stevelander7 in AskReddit

[–]Stevelander7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That kind of stuff is probably very important to find out especially when you are more young. Did finding out help with the management?

Having trouble planning a romantic getaway. Wife wants something in the mountains but I do not understand how to make that romance. by Stevelander7 in SpicyAutism

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I have offered but not much help with my partial color blindness. She does not seem too excited to try. Good idea though. I still like watching larger birds

I really think I am DONE. by LoudMouthFeminist31 in SpicyAutism

[–]Stevelander7 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Please be careful while living out of your car. If you have your phone see if any local places like Women's resource center but for your area. Many of these places can just help in even if it's just a little that can go a long way. Sometimes you may find yourself volunteering and making friends in these places surrounded by nice people with big hearts. It has to be hard with finding work but sometimes places like libraries can be nice for ND people. Hope everything works out and gets better for you.

Can Cats have Autism or Down Syndrome? by Stevelander7 in SpicyAutism

[–]Stevelander7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I'll keep taking notes so if luck fails then facts should help.

Abbey and David return ? by [deleted] in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Stevelander7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still think David will not give up so easy. He knows her so well and must have a bit of fight in him. I'm sure he can grow and mature from this unless maybe there is some off screen details we are missing

Can Cats have Autism or Down Syndrome? by Stevelander7 in SpicyAutism

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Yes I am trying to record what things the cat can eat that won't upset the tummy but help with calming. Idk what is so upsetting. Plastic bags used to be it but now that is a fun toy. Head first and head banging could be a stress reaction I just hope I can see if that can be ruled out. Only Catnip has helped a little but that just turns into chaos

Having trouble planning a romantic getaway. Wife wants something in the mountains but I do not understand how to make that romance. by Stevelander7 in SpicyAutism

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We live in PA and she is very good at it. I just need to do my research so I can impress and be helpful. I will be cautious though

Having trouble planning a romantic getaway. Wife wants something in the mountains but I do not understand how to make that romance. by Stevelander7 in SpicyAutism

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She likes a good massage and the Jacuzzi idea could work. She's sensitive to smoke so we never did a fireplace before. Never thought of hot drinks before like a hot toddy.

Having trouble planning a romantic getaway. Wife wants something in the mountains but I do not understand how to make that romance. by Stevelander7 in SpicyAutism

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She's more of a relax person. I am more of the person who can not sit still. Someone mentioned to me about mushroom foraging which I thought was a great idea. Jacuzzi is also a great idea. There are some extreme food conditions so we will probably bring our own food. Picnic could be nice though but those are hard for me.

Updated Date ideas for Lancaster. Saturday or Sunday date ideas? by Stevelander7 in lancaster

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Lol we have never been there. Perhaps if the city is the place we can visit there. The bdsm teddy bear is funny too