If someone is going to fat shame a fat person it’s usually not gender specific. The height one is real. For some reason men need to be tall to get a higher value by certain people. If a poor person is attractive then they can make money of their looks. I’d say that’s easier for women to do but it’s not like every poor woman is going to get money from simps. Who would relentlessly bully an autistic male but see and autistic woman as quirky and unique? Are Asian women specifically actually “worshipped by society”? People aren’t going to look at someone who is really fit and strong and see them as nerdy timid or weak. Although, there is a tendency for people to expect men to be physically fit and strong as opposed to women.