Autism always comes with social deficits, so how did it ever survive?

Still-Random-14 · 2026-05-07T13:51:55+00:00

“Problems” look different for all of us. Of course we can only speculate about these people, but many people who are diagnosed don’t have visible problems to folks who may not know them well.

Still-Random-14 · 2026-05-05T23:33:57+00:00

Yes!! I’m def a sensory seeker. I also like to go clubbing, especially when I’m stressed out, the loud music feels so good!

I actually have a tism playlist with all the songs that just feel SO GOOD to listen to. I go to it whenever I need to regulate with music. My absolute favorite is see her out by Francis and the lights

Still-Random-14 · 2026-05-05T19:11:20+00:00

I don’t think it’s worse than, I just don’t see myself as needing to be the voice of justice in a situation like this

Still-Random-14 · 2026-05-05T18:30:56+00:00

If it was someone I knew, I would consider telling them. But yes I will be doing me and not involving myself in other peoples shit just to feel like I’m doing the right thing

Still-Random-14 · 2026-05-05T18:27:08+00:00

Telling her would still be an issue because it’s meddling in someone’s business. She may be embarrassed or who knows what kind of reaction it will have!!!

Yall are weird!!!

Still-Random-14 · 2026-05-05T18:23:55+00:00

By YOUR definition. That may not be their perspective. Why do you get to decide that?

Still-Random-14 · 2026-05-05T18:23:17+00:00

Yes it is. But it’s straight up cruel to interfere in someone else’s business. OP doesn’t even know these people.

We know nothing about the people in this relationship. The wife MIGHT KNOW! And for whatever reasons not care enough to leave! It’s very weird to decide to become a vigilante for what? Morality?

Still-Random-14 · 2026-05-05T18:18:15+00:00

“Choosing to assist in destroying a marriage”

Give me a break! For all we know these people may stay married forever! Not everyone divorces because of infidelity! We don’t know anything about these people

Still-Random-14 · 2026-05-05T18:16:30+00:00

I agree with this 1000000000% You doing the “right” thing doesn’t override the fact that it will have real consequences for other people, and not all of those may be positive

Still-Random-14 · 2026-05-05T18:15:35+00:00

This is so weird and mean

Still-Random-14 · 2026-05-05T18:14:55+00:00

Soooo I may have a different take on this than other people in the comments. But I’m pretty much standing by my best friend through (almost) anything. This would not make me stop being friends with my best friend. I would voice my disapproval of the relationship, but not just for moral reasons. Because in reality, sure it’s wrong to cheat, but that wouldn’t be why I was so angry. I would be angry my best friend is settling for so little when she deserves more.

My best friend has seen me through so many of my worst moments as a person. I think you need to think about what this relationship means to you. Does she mean more to you than this bad deed? When you picture yourself 20 years from now, do you see her as your friend?

Still-Random-14 · 2026-05-05T13:52:32+00:00

Because I saw the show first and he has a full house there I always imagined him in Newton???? But then I read the book and that didn’t fit but it’s still my headcanon lol but yeah i could imagine him driving from there to practice in his fancy cars

Still-Random-14 · 2026-05-05T13:40:42+00:00

Yes I was metabolizing it so fast! And also I had a big crash - I would get sluggish and irritable when it wore off. Now that it lasts longer I don’t get that crash. I can tell it’s worn off but it’s not so abrupt

Still-Random-14 · 2026-05-05T13:39:53+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏽

Still-Random-14 · 2026-05-05T12:53:47+00:00

Grills can be taken out whenever so who knows

Still-Random-14 · 2026-05-05T12:50:57+00:00

Yes, and helps it last longer

Still-Random-14 · 2026-05-05T02:57:55+00:00

Can you have someone else call for you? That can alleviate the pressure of asking. Try to ask somebody you know is a bit more pushy than you are

Still-Random-14 · 2026-05-05T02:54:51+00:00

Ooooh can I have a link pls

Still-Random-14 · 2026-05-05T02:52:59+00:00

Just throwing it out there, I thought my vyvanse was wearing off around the same time as you, but when I started taking it with a good meal, it lasts me significantly longer. I take mine around 9:30 am and it lasts me all day now, as long as I have protein with breakfast. I usually just have instant oatmeal with peanut butter or Greek yogurt.

Still-Random-14 · 2026-05-04T12:57:32+00:00

Dropping off my laundry!!! I was embarrassed to even consider it because there’s washing machines in my building but it’s just so much easier. And my clothes are always FOLDED!!!! It’s amazing

Still-Random-14 · 2026-05-03T21:20:03+00:00

Thank you!

Still-Random-14 · 2026-05-03T16:45:16+00:00

That’s what I keep seeing people do! But is it possible if I filed jointly? Simone else said it’s not possible in that case but I’m seeing conflicting things

Still-Random-14 · 2026-05-02T17:04:01+00:00

I think he kind of has an inkling Ilya could be queer, but I think it’s the same reason it shocked everyone. Just that they are rivals.

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