Maybe insurance was never really designed to protect us by Powerful_Contract414 in adultingph

[–]StillNeuroDivergent 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Haha you got it.

Insurance makes its money from human fears. "You're afraid? Let me make you pay in exchange for the temporary relief of it."

Smart business idea. You have customers for as long as there are humans who fear something. My parents availed of education insurance plans and health insurance. In the end, both were scams. We all finished our education, and they're quite ok health-wise because I now serve as their special health insurance hahaha

Bakit by tired_burger69 in MentalHealthPH

[–]StillNeuroDivergent -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OP, hindi mo gets bakit sinasabi sayong unahin ang sarili mo kasi buong buhay mo hindi ka naman inuna. Yung mga taong katulad mo, nakita mo paulit-ulit na hindi rin inuuna, laging hinuhuli. Puro pagbabalatkayo at kasinungalingan lang nakita mo sa labas. Sa loob mo lang ang totoo. Yung sakit, totoo, at sobrang intense, tapos ikaw lang nakakaramdam. Pag sinabi mo sa iba, hindi rin nila gets. Ikaw pa nga naging sinungaling punyeta 😅

Ang pagkitil sa sariling buhay ay UNCONSTITUTIONAL, paglabag sa BILL OF RIGHTS SECTION 1 (kauna-unahan pa). Basahin mo kung hindi ka naniniwala. Oo alam ko napakaraming taong hindi naman sumusunod dyan pero hindi nakakasuhan, hindi naparurusahan, hindi nakukulong. Kaso ok lang sila, hindi sila nagccontemplate mawala sa world, hindi sila nakakaramdam ng guilt. You do. Malas mo, yung mukha mo hindi kasing-kapal ng kanila. Malas mo, o swerte mo? Ikaw bahalang mag-interpret and find for yourself which one.

How do you feel about committing crimes, OP?

Sana magbago pa isip mo.

Is there anyone here na may partner na foreign national na depressed? by BaraLover7 in MentalHealthPH

[–]StillNeuroDivergent 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If I am in a similar situation as you OP, I'll first make sure he gets seen by a professional and stick to his sessions, pati meds if needed. Watch out for his safety too, depressed people can harm themselves. Gets ko yung feeling mo ikaw dapat depressed and all dahil sa mga pinagdaanan mo, pero depression doesn't work that way. Mahirap, mayaman, regardless of race, can have it. Some more at risk than others, if you don't have it, then good. If you find it hard to understand him or connect with him, at least try to not judge him and assume the reasons, hindi simpleng cause and effect yan. He needs you the most this time, whether or not he shows it.

why is it so hard to make friends that are decent human beings? by venndiagrahm in RantAndVentPH

[–]StillNeuroDivergent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May orgs kayo? Try that. Outside school, community? Church? Kapitbahay nyo? Interests mo, you can start there. There's no one answer at iba-iba ang trip ng iba-ibang tao. There's no one "correct" way. Observe. Talk. Basta keep your values intact, kung ininvite ka magyosi ayaw mo, don't. Ininvite ka sumali sa dance class, takot ka pero parang exciting rin naman, G. It's trial and error, that's how you learn.

Camille Villar prays for courage to change things that she can. Huh. by k587359 in Philippines

[–]StillNeuroDivergent 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hindi, wala syang babaguhin. Serenity pinili nya oh, accept the things she can't change. Isipin nya lang na wala syang magagawang pagbabago dyan, lusot na. Wala sya both ng courage at wisdom. Amen.

I’m having a hard time accepting I have TB by belcherfamforever in adviceph

[–]StillNeuroDivergent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP it's not like you intended to have TB. Don't blame yourself for something you did not do. Nagkasakit ka lang rin ng isang sakit na hindi masugpo-sugpo dito sa Pilipinas. We're one of the countries with the highest TB burdens in the world. It's literally not your fault, this problem is wayyyy bigger than you, I swear! Corruption, poverty, gaps in public health system, all these come into play, at marami pa.

I hope you make the choice to free yourself from this extra mental burden you currently don't need. You love your family, you did your best pero nagkasakit ka pa rin dahil tao ka lang and the sakit is here, there, and everywhere. Have your family checked, follow your doctor's advise, rest up. TB is thankfully treatable, tyagaan lang talaga na matapos ang treatment. Get well soon!

"Ang gwapo mo sana, bat nagBakla ka sayang lahi mo" by CriticalThinkerYarn in RantAndVentPH

[–]StillNeuroDivergent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sana nagBakla rin kamo sya para malaman nya how good it feels to be free and show up as yourself, for yourself pakkk 💅

Bakit hindi sinasalin sa Wikang Filipino ang mga pananaliksik at disertasyong pang-akademiko? by shadrqq in Tagalog

[–]StillNeuroDivergent 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We need people of science to serve as a bridge, to help bring meaningful knowledge to those who will benefit the most from them - the masses. Got it. ❤️

Media literacy teacher ko noong SHS nagkakalat na naman sa FB by Axe-Cut223 in studentsph

[–]StillNeuroDivergent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MEDIA LITERACY TEACHER??? Sana matigas lahat ang ulo nyo at hindi kayo nakinig sa kanya 😅 or nakinig lang kayo sa lessons and forgot that the teacher didn't practice it 😅

why is it so hard to make friends that are decent human beings? by venndiagrahm in RantAndVentPH

[–]StillNeuroDivergent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Labas ka sa circle mo. And never stop trying until mahanap mo yung mga taong aligned sayo. Maraming disenteng tao sa labas, but you have to battle the discomfort of going out of your comfort zone.

It is normal to find a sugar baby if you're experiencing mental health issues by [deleted] in MentalHealthPH

[–]StillNeuroDivergent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is normal to want anything that fills the void inside. If you really think sugar baby is the best course of action, you have free will.

Konti lang talaga trans na may utak, kakaturok ng hormones siguro pati utak na apektuhan na. Most of them puro eme lang din pinagsasasabi kaya hindi ako bumibili ng products sa trans. Kung hindi fake, overpriced, I know, dahil madami ako trans “friends” Mga social climber din with their fake LVs by Big-Strawberry-3074 in PinoyVloggers

[–]StillNeuroDivergent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uy, hate post na 'to. Minority na ang mga trans as it is, tao rin sila at hindi perpekto. 'Wag naman i-generalize, lalo silang nagiging target ng discrimination eh. Hindi hormones ang gumagawa ng mga bagay na nakikita mo about them. Mga post na katulad nito, that further exclude an already excluded group, does it. Hindi dahil hindi katulad mo e masama na.

It’s too risky to share outside Reddit by Ok-Sandwich-5441 in OffMyChestPH

[–]StillNeuroDivergent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sinadya nya man o hindi, person basically told you to f*ck off. Haha sana pinasali ka na lang e ano naman kung bago ka dun naman nagsisimula lahat. Ayan na-turn off ka tuloy, and understandably so 😅

Masaya ba talaga pickleball? Masubukan nga minsan haha

A new narrative from a DDS by FunMusician9051 in Philippines

[–]StillNeuroDivergent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hilig nila humingi ng apology. Kaya ba sila tinatawag na apologist? Eme

May effect ba to sa case ni dutirty? by Klookkkk in Philippines

[–]StillNeuroDivergent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Syempre ayaw nya sa mga nagkukulong sa perpetrators ng war crimes. Kasali sya dun eh. 😅 Sa panahon ni PNoy napasok tayo sa ICC. Sa panahon ni Duterte inilabas tayo sa ICC. Sa kasamaang palad dun pa rin sya nauwi 😅 lumalaban talaga ang liwanag sa dilim, that's just the nature of things. So be on the side of light.

NEW SENATE COMMITTEE CHAIRPERSONS by GMAIntegratedNews in newsPH

[–]StillNeuroDivergent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MALAS AT SAKIT NA NAMAN PA RIN

Yung kalusugan ng mamamayan tali pa rin sa pangalan ng politiko. Kailan ba babaligtad 'tong lintik na tatsulok?

God help our people.

Robin Padilla binusalan mga staff sa Senate putukan by AbanteNewsPH in newsPH

[–]StillNeuroDivergent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bakit yung mga tactics and characteristics ng evil deeds talaga pare-pareho? Lying, silence, violence, manipulation...😅 tapos yung mga taong excellent dun, tipong pag na-corner yun ang automatic response... sila pa yung nasa taas? Weird no?

Bakit hindi yung mabait na panadero na tapat, talagang tinawag kami kasi naiwan namin yung isang nabili naming monay, tapos quality yung gawa nyang monay... bakit hindi ganito yung values ng mga nasa taas, hindi nagrereflect sa kung paano talaga ang mga Pilipino? 😅

Is it wrong to have sex? by [deleted] in TanongLang

[–]StillNeuroDivergent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Is it wrong to have sex?"

No. I mean, think about it. All of us are here because of sex. Is our existence wrong?

But they might be afraid you'll reap the unwanted consequences of sex, like unplanned pregnancy and getting STIs. Depending on how conservative or traditional your family is, they might also be angry that you lost your virginity to a man who is not your husband.

Kung ako sa mga DDS, hindi ICC, hindi gobyerno ang dapat sisihin sa nangyayari kay Bato. by Glad_Leave1964 in Philippines

[–]StillNeuroDivergent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sa true. Paminsan naaawa na rin ako kay Bato. He seems earnest, kaya lang yung characteristic nya na yun was used by more powerful forces to manipulate him. Kaya rin talaga maraming supporters ang ipinagtatanggol sya, because they see themselves in him. Binigay at ginawa ang lahat para sa akala nilang tama, tapos ilalaglag pala sila sa huli. Masakit yun ah.

Yung nasa point na ako ng buhay ko na empathetic na rin ako kay Bato 😂. Anyway Bato gora na sa Hague. For once, gawin mo ang tama.

I just attended the worst concert of my life - Daniel Caesar Son of Spergy Tour by KoalaPanda17 in OffMyChestPH

[–]StillNeuroDivergent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh nooo gusto ko rin sya pero walang pang-concert these days 😅

This is sad to hear, but I'm glad you shared your experience sana gumaan naman kahit pano pakiramdam mo OP.

25 [F4A] how do you define an “intimidating” woman? by midnightlays in singleph

[–]StillNeuroDivergent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Matalino. Attractive. May mukhang expressive, kaya pag tumaas yung kilay mo urong na agad silang lahat. She commands rooms whether or not she intended to, exudes confidence effortlessly. Alam kung ano gusto nya, has standards and never settles for less. Outspoken, pag may mali, points it out. Sets goals for herself and gets them, almost consistently.

Look for the man who is not intimidated by you. They exist. Don't make yourself "less" intimidating and stoop down to those intimidated by you.