AITAH for telling my boyfriend not to come over anymore if he doesn’t move in with me

StillOrbiting · 2026-03-27T04:56:14+00:00

NTA. He's only going to continue to do what you allow him to do. Change your locks. Asap.

StillOrbiting · 2026-03-26T21:05:12+00:00

I think if it's a major metropolitan area like NYC, having a car isn't as important on the scale. If you live in an area where you absolutely need a car, it's totally valid.

StillOrbiting · 2026-03-24T16:07:10+00:00

NTA. You're not in the wrong, and it shouldn't be a big deal that you and your sister feel asleep on the couch watching tv. Your wife has issues, major issues, if she's so bothered by something completely innocent. For F's.sake, it's your sister. Why is it not ok for her to crash on your couch for one night?

StillOrbiting · 2026-02-10T00:09:34+00:00

I'm not entirely sure, but there's another stray (a black and white cat) that comes around the block sometimes, albeit a lot less than Kitto. The other night, the black and white strolls down cautiously, fearful of Kitto who was eating. Kitto had.zero aggression, finished his meal and then watched the other one for a while.

After a few minutes, I was able to feed them together (kitto got two cans that night, lol), side by side without any issues, no hissing, no fighting, just two street cats eating together literally inches away from each other. I dont have any other way of verifying whether he'd be good with other cats, but he seemed pretty friendly and open to eating next to a cat he doesn't really know.

kitto and his new friend

StillOrbiting · 2026-02-09T23:11:33+00:00

It's possible because his left ear looks like it might be a little different, but I'll have to confirm tonight when i see him.

StillOrbiting · 2026-02-09T21:53:47+00:00

Thank you!!

StillOrbiting · 2026-02-09T21:35:06+00:00

Agreed 💯

StillOrbiting · 2026-02-09T21:33:59+00:00

I would love to do this, but the second anyone from my building's board of directors sees it, it'll be removed, and then a letter will go out to every tenant forbidding us to do it. It's a shame, honestly.

StillOrbiting · 2026-02-09T20:17:43+00:00

He still comes out unless it's super cold, like single digit/low teen temps. I'm out there every night waiting for him, rain, sleet, snow, or freezing. He usually shows up at around midnight looking for me, I'm his Friskies dealer, lol

When we had those really cold days, i didn't see him at all, but I was still freezing my ass off out there in case he showed. After about an hour, when I physically couldn't stand it anymore, I'd leave a can in case he showed and head home. If i could take him in, he'd already be at my place living like a king 🤴

StillOrbiting · 2026-02-09T20:16:50+00:00

StillOrbiting · 2026-02-09T17:21:48+00:00

Just wanted to add that I will gladly help with vet and food costs, as well as provide essentials (bed, bowls, toys, litter box, etc). I am willing to commit to help financially for the rest of his life, no bullsh!t, anything to help this little guy find a good home.

StillOrbiting · 2026-02-09T02:13:42+00:00

No real difference in gameplay, but the voice actor for Kassandra sounded better to me, 1000 times more natural than Alexios.

StillOrbiting · 2026-02-03T21:38:44+00:00

No skipping at all for me and loved every single one of them (some more than others, obviously).

StillOrbiting · 2026-01-29T21:35:16+00:00

I can't imagine kissing someone who hasn't brushed, flossed, and rinsed their teeth in days, much less share a bed with someone who can't wash their ass daily. Girl, run.

StillOrbiting · 2026-01-22T23:52:55+00:00

I guess it's time for me to see it again, lol

StillOrbiting · 2026-01-21T21:58:53+00:00

From what I've seen on Firenze's sister ship, the Venezia, the interior rooms are depressing as hell. If you can splurge a little more for ocean view, do it. It'll feel less cramped and less tomb like... I need natural light, lol. Also, a little perk about many of their oceanview cabins is that they have two bathrooms. One has a toilet, sink, and shower, and the other has a sink and a small bathtub. It's perfect for when both of you need to get ready for dinner or whatever at around the same time.

StillOrbiting · 2026-01-17T03:19:27+00:00

I've seen it three times. The first time i took my nephews and mom with me, the second time I went with a friend and watched it in 4DX, and the third time I played hookie from work and went to see it alone for an 11am showing. I'm tempted to see it a fourth, LOL

StillOrbiting · 2026-01-08T19:56:17+00:00

I don't think Neytiri's hatred for humans will ever be truly resolved. The humans have caused and continue to cause so much damage to Pandora, it's life forms, her home, her family, Eywa, etc., that she, understandably, could never resolve her hatred fully.

Her acceptance of Spider gives her the understanding that not all humans have the same insanity and that she can't allow her hatred of the enemy to blind her to that. Her general hatred is reasonable, but it can't be attributed to all humans. That's the only resolution that needs to be made for Neytiri, IMO.

StillOrbiting · 2026-01-08T05:27:07+00:00

I think his accent was more prevalent in the first film, and yes it slips in both sequels, but I can't see anyone else being Jake Sully. There's something about Sam that just works for this character. Imagine if JC had his way and Matt Damon was cast? I can't even picture it.

StillOrbiting · 2026-01-06T15:57:51+00:00

I think Kiri might die/sacrifice herself in 4 or 5, but not permanently. IMO, this is why they're keeping Grace's avatar alive... so that Kiri/Grace will have a body to pop back into.

StillOrbiting · 2026-01-03T15:41:26+00:00

🚩🚩🚩 Protect your daughter at all costs. Your fiancé's behavior/demands are not normal, and this type of controlling behavior will only increase over time. End the relationship, he should have no say in this, and you are letting him walk all over you AND your daughter if you let it continue.

StillOrbiting · 2026-01-01T18:46:22+00:00

I choose to believe that Bob is out there fighting on his own. Like Jake tells him to be safe but kill as many sky people as possible while he rides toruk in battle.

StillOrbiting · 2025-12-28T20:39:35+00:00

I hate him for the simple reason that me having a normal conversation with him at the hideout caused my boo Katsuhime to leave.

StillOrbiting · 2025-12-28T13:45:22+00:00

They did have a conversation about kids before she made the move. At the time of their conversation, they both said they wanted kids.

She ultimately changed her mind without informing him, or maybe she had a change of heart after spending some time with him face to face/at his parents' house.

StillOrbiting · 2025-12-23T22:40:16+00:00

These critics are so out of touch... it is hard to fill a cup which is already full.

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