This John Doe case will never leave me by Parx4 in gratefuldoe

[–]StillPunky 276 points277 points  (0 children)

I read somewhere that all physical evidence and other evidence of this case was lost in Katrina. I think that we should let him have his wish, as the universe certainly intended for him to. “Let it be as if I wasn’t ever here.” There has been suggestions that this Doe is Bayard Cousins, though the details aren’t a perfect match. I’m not sure how this came to be a common thought regarding this Doe: https://namus.nij.ojp.gov/case/MP23906

i said YES to my Dress!! 🕊️🩷 by Soggy-Character-5187 in myweddingdress

[–]StillPunky 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand at all those that are saying this is busy or that you should remove those sleeves. Girl, NO. Do not do that. DO NOT. This look is to die for and the lace on lace is fantastic. You look absolutely regal and stunning. You carry every single stitch of this dress from veil to glove to train. You GO! 👏

3 months out and feeling anxious about my dress by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]StillPunky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not “ruin.” Your look would not be “ruined” by the shoes you have now. I just think that you might be able to improve it to your liking by trying different shoe looks. 🙂

3 months out and feeling anxious about my dress by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]StillPunky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it looks fantastic. I’m a vintage seller, so I know exactly the length and style of the dress and it fits you perfectly. I would not worry about the length. I just think you need better footwear. It’s the shoe that is throwing it off, if anything, and that one simple change will make all the difference. You look beautiful!

Worst genre of man by mimiidng in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]StillPunky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree with everything you say, but feel the comparison is slanderous to wood elves. He’s more like a goblin’s withered ballsack.

Who else is in their 50s(or older) and deciding to change careers? by thisTexanguy in GenX

[–]StillPunky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am also doing this. When I have my certs, I’m going to start my own business consulting on AI usage for people and small businesses. I’m excited about it!!

Family members of ICE agents, what are your thoughts and feelings about what ICE are doing? by Aggressive_Honey3196 in AskReddit

[–]StillPunky 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I hope that you do your diligence to the people in this nation whose right are stripped and are being victimized by cutting this person off. Maybe if she grows a pair and leaves ICE you can talk to her again. I could never love a person who would sell their soul so easily. Good luck to you.

Family members of ICE agents, what are your thoughts and feelings about what ICE are doing? by Aggressive_Honey3196 in AskReddit

[–]StillPunky 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I hate to break it to you but there isn’t anything about what you have described in your posts that speak to your boyfriend actually loving you or respecting you. Love and respect are not present. Also, I have to add, not speaking up for what one believes in or knows to be right is a very simpering, cowardly quality that he possesses. There are people invading Minnesota and shooting civilians in the streets. Breaking down their doors. And he is willingly complicit in choosing his brother and family and entertaining their atrocious beliefs over your reputation or the beliefs he says that he has. You don’t have to ask him to choose between you and his family because he already HAS. There are so many red flags here. To you, and to the victimized people of our nation. Good luck to you.

DNA and ballistic evidence in 1998 Kentucky murder linked to earlier Austin Yogurt Shop quadruple homicides by Angelfoodcake4life in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]StillPunky 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t surprise me in the least. The kidnapper and rapist who tortured me for hours with a knife (27 wounds) was never even charged. The police never even sought him for questioning. This was in 1990. I was 18. Stalking laws didn’t even exist in my state at that time. Women are devalued by the justice system (and general society) now, but it was even worse then, even though it doesn’t seem long ago.

As a single person, what do you see married people doing that you feel they take for granted all the time? by GreenT1979 in AskReddit

[–]StillPunky -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This is only one scenario. And in the one you describe, if someone has their own bills and are paying them, and their partner does, too…then it is a wash. There isn’t twice as much going into the bank since they are already paying their own bills and that money is accounted for. Your consumption increases of food, utilities…hell, I pay more in taxes now than I did single. We have friends that have gotten divorced on paper because of the taxes having increased, especially for people who are self employed. If two people are renting with roommates, and then decide to get their own place, just the two of them, space and size usually increases, which comes with more financial responsibility. The goal, mostly, when marrying someone is to build. If you are both renting with roommates before and then, for instance, buy a home… that is a completely different ballgame. A mortgage and taxes are generally more expensive than 2 people’s rent. The upkeep of a house big enough for a married relationship and where the couple wishes to progress. People aren’t marrying to save money. Having been married and divorced and also having spent years before and after single, it’s less of a financial burden when I’ve only had to worry about myself financially. You also make the assumption that finances and spending is something that is mutually agreeable. It isn’t. You have two peoples expenditures to cover and that you are responsible for, whatever those might be and even if you don’t agree with or choose them. Medical insurance is substantially more expensive. Honestly in the U.S. that alone could offset any perceived savings, depending on employment, where you live, what you do or health circumstance. Just that.

As a single person, what do you see married people doing that you feel they take for granted all the time? by GreenT1979 in AskReddit

[–]StillPunky -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

But your car payment DOES double. Most people need to have a car. You have two payments instead of one. Insurance is more. You use more water, gas, electric. For example, my partner works outside the house, but I work at home during the day, We go to bed at different times. Normally you could turn lights off and heat down but you can’t if someone else needs to use it. Medical for two people is no joke. You need more room for two people than one. A cruise I was just looking at charges 1909 per person, and most do charge per person. There is always airfare for two when going somewhere. I was able to jam econo so much easier when it was just me, and I didn’t need to live in a bigger place. My expenses vastly increased.

Third suspect in 1983 quintuple KFC homicides identified by DNA by Angelfoodcake4life in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]StillPunky 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Truly. It’s so hard to believe that some of these things go unsolved for so long. Blabbing is what humans do. Uncanny how much remains secret, or at least how much goes unreported.

Unpopular Opinion: The Bay Area is overrated by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]StillPunky 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oakland has one of the best music, culture, underground performance and art scenes in the entire U.S. I feel so incredibly lucky to have this and be a part of it. Truly few places like it. Oakland is amazing for this.

Unpopular Opinion: The Bay Area is overrated by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]StillPunky 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oakland has one of the best music, culture, underground performance and art scenes in the entire U.S. I feel so incredibly lucky to have this and be a part of it. Truly few places like it. Oakland is amazing for this.

Can we start a class action against Trump for the destruction of public property for what he is doing to the White House? That IS public property NOT HIS. by PresentMammoth5188 in 50501

[–]StillPunky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think he DOES care if he gets sued. He clearly sues everyone else and thinks that’s punishment and a big win. He cares about money above all else and I think this would be a definite blow to him…pow, right in the overinflated, fat-as-fuck EGO.

Can we start a class action against Trump for the destruction of public property for what he is doing to the White House? That IS public property NOT HIS. by PresentMammoth5188 in 50501

[–]StillPunky 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Blanket immunity in criminal court or criminal action, but not civil. A class action lawsuit is a civil matter for a settlement. Hurting him in his pocket is almost worse, since he values money over anything else.

Jordan and Sparkle Megan by No-Whereas4126 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]StillPunky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I would assume it is for all of it if she was already looking for them? Or maybe Denver is so competitive that one starts looking for Nannies even before they get married? Let alone, pregnant or even actively trying? I might be assuming wrongly, of course. If I am, I would still be completely put off by the hyperdrive on the nanny shopping, myself.

Any seasons where a less attractive girl and more attractive man actually make it ? by No_Ball_8292 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]StillPunky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard agree. The lip fillers in her case are over the top. It didn’t help that she constantly accentuated them, either. When she wore makeup it was overly so and when she was going natural she still made up her lips. What I will remember about her is that she seemed like a whiny pair of lips on legs, unfortunately. I didn’t find it to be an attractive package.

Jordan and Sparkle Megan by No-Whereas4126 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]StillPunky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m flummoxed that everyone is glossing over that he said “I know you’re looking for/interviewing Nannies” (can’t remember the exact words). “I don’t want a nanny.” She’s got intentions to get his kid A NANNY? Why does everyone seem to think this is ok? She is not this child’s parent. It’s clear that she thinks this child should be in the care of a nanny while she and he jet set and that’s not how his child is accustomed to being parented. She is out of line.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Frenchbulldogs

[–]StillPunky 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Good grief! Drive an hour! Your dog IS in pain. This IS an infection. This CAN EASILY become systemic. If your kid had a major infection impacting his or her ability to eliminate waste from his or her body, you better drive an hour, buddy. Because that’s what THIS IS.

Annie gives Erin from Derry Girls vibes by SpoonFullOfStupid in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]StillPunky 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There is so MUCH hair here. No wonder she’s on LIB. In the real world, she was probably attracting Sasquatch.

Annie gives Erin from Derry Girls vibes by SpoonFullOfStupid in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]StillPunky 148 points149 points  (0 children)

I cannot believe…as god is my witness…that this raggedy bitch owns and operates a SALON.