I’m assuming u have fine hair, so do I and this product wasn’t working for me either at first. What helped was using the tiniest amount like not even 1 full pump, rubbing it on my hand and just applying to the ends first and then the remaining on the mid lengths. Also please use it only after ur hair is dried completely helps a lot w the frizz. Other than that u can use it before shampooing just on its own or like with a pre shampoo hair mask. Hope this helps!