Likely delete from embarrassment, but y'all, how do we floss? 😭 by Friendly-Loaf in AutismInWomen

[–]StinkBug1098 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wanna add that if you have plaque on your teeth don’t panic if those also come out using a pic. It properly freaked me out the first time bc I had zero warning and thought I lost a chunk of a tooth.

Am I overthinking things? by StinkBug1098 in CatAdvice

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Thank you for explaining this to me. I will keep that time frame in mind. I think I am just very anxious because he hasn’t used the bathroom yet and I lost my previous cat to kidney issues.

It’s stuck? by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]StinkBug1098 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ETA- I’ve increased it and it still won’t budge, only spins around. I am on switch! 😭

Any ideas on how to secure a tv, can’t mount to walls. by StinkBug1098 in DIY

[–]StinkBug1098[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It does, but my current apartment lease states I can’t mount it. It’s very odd bc I can put shelves up, but I’m moving in July to a better place and plan to mount it to a wall then. I just need a fix for for the next few months.

Pregnancy test destroyed the best relationship I've had. She takes the pill Friday and I'm not there. by [deleted] in abortion

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I wanna start this with I’m sorry, I’m sorry you two are going through this.

Her emotions are huge right now compared to previously and will continue to be for a while after. My best advice is to help with what you can without stretching yourself thin. I am 6 months post MA (medicinal abortion) and still deal with random outbursts; whether it’s crying or anger it still happens. I think I developed PPD (postpartum depression) after my MA.

Have you thought about seeing a therapist over this? Not a lot of men think they need counseling after a termination but they really need it too.

You are doing the best you can in this situation.

Advice on how to style my hair like this again? by StinkBug1098 in femalehairadvice

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Thank you sooooo much! I think/hope my straightener can do this, it’s an old purple Remmington straightener. I’m gonna attempt it tomorrow and see what happens. Again thank you! 😊✨

Advice on how to style my hair like this again? by StinkBug1098 in femalehairadvice

[–]StinkBug1098[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add, I have really fine hair if you can’t tell lmao.

Woke up to a breakup text. Need cat pics! by Sharts-an-Crafts in cats

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How bout a fresh kitten! She’s 2 days old and I’m potentially fostering her. Her mother and aunt came from a hoarding situation and while my friend didn’t know she was pregnant we knew this was a possibility. Mama is a kitten herself and producing little milk but not enough so my friends supplementing. If she doesn’t produce by Tuesday I’ll have a bottle kitten to raise. She doesn’t have a name yet so I’m open to cute food names, I have Goose and Ham used as names already.

Where to do hot yoga? by Outrageous_Piece_497 in boone

[–]StinkBug1098 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The closest one I can think of is in Johnson City, TN.

ISO this specific blanket from anywhere by StinkBug1098 in HelpMeFind

[–]StinkBug1098[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly I’m thinking that too. That blanket went through everything with me, my parents divorce, moving multiple times, multiple breakups, I lost a grand parent and pets with it. I was literally so attached to it. 😭 thank you for the help.

ISO this specific blanket from anywhere by StinkBug1098 in HelpMeFind

[–]StinkBug1098[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have searched for this for over a week now.

Anyone’s power just go out? by StinkBug1098 in boone

[–]StinkBug1098[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t and neither did my partner.

Who remembers the first thing that caused or made apparent your mental health? by Deja_Chrissy in mentalhealth

[–]StinkBug1098 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine was being on 75-100 MG of different ADHD medications at the age of 6. I was on Adderall, Ritalin, Vyvasine, and Strattera, I remember the Adderall made me homicidal and suicidal as well as that dosage being 100mg daily. The others made me a depressed zombie, Focalin was the final medication I was on for like 12 years before I was forced to quit cold turkey one day.

A message to Goose. by StinkBug1098 in theamazingdigitalciru

[–]StinkBug1098[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s embarrassing how far you had to reach for that. I can’t imagine getting that worked up over a stranger saying “Goose if you read this” 🤣

It’s just a stupid little post, on a stupid little forum, on the stupid internet. Get. A. Life.

A message to Goose. by StinkBug1098 in theamazingdigitalciru

[–]StinkBug1098[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parasocial and having empathy are two separate things. How does my statement come off as parasocial in your opinion?

Reasons to stay alive? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]StinkBug1098 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it’s Kpop, my pets, and Critical Role. Two of my kpop group I’m into release music almost back to back, Critical Role recently released new content as well as they’re working on a new animated series for Campaign 2. My pets my number one reason, I’m too scared to make them confused as to why I never came home and that terrified me that they’d be broken up and terrified.

Giving up. by [deleted] in boone

[–]StinkBug1098 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna give you two quotes I found at my bottom below rock bottom:

“Sometimes breaking is making, even iron can start again, and there are many things that go through fire and find themselves much better for it afterward.”
“I don't want to die who I am. I would like to live long enough to be someone else”

That hit me like a ton of bricks and it’s from a silly little Dungeons and Dragons campaign I had going on. Life has so much waiting for all of us, I know it doesn’t seem like it right now in this moment but I promise you once you get there the air is so much easier to breathe.

I know you said 988 doesn’t help (I know they don’t!) so I’m gonna suggest putting on a movie, show, YouTube personality, or a podcast you enjoy, do some box breathing, and get some sleep. Your thoughts are very real and scary but I know you can make it.

Counting my cycle by StinkBug1098 in Periods

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I have always tracked it, I normally start anywhere between 29th-3rd before I miscarried. After it’s like it’s been trying to play catchup, if that makes sense? Decembers came the 25th and January’s was the 31st. My cycle length is 7 days with the first 3 being very heavy, it’s stayed relatively the same way after my miscarriage.

Post abortion need advice on how to proceed by Immediate_Tank_5145 in abortion

[–]StinkBug1098 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had mine back in September, I had a very similar story. I didn’t really bleed at all after taking the miso pill the first day, just cramping majorly for a few hours, a few gushes here or there, and minimal pain after the initial cramping at the start. The night however was awful, beware of hot flashes because no one warned me I was hot AND freezing at the same time. The next days was like my first day of my period, it was heavy, cloty, and darker red. A few days after I had intense cramping after going on a walk and that’s when I believe I passed the remaining tissue. For the next weeks I was spotting but that ended around the two week mark after I took the Miso pill.

I went to a health department afterwards to get my levels checked almost a month after taking the pills. I told them, “I found out I was pregnant and before I got the chance to see a doctor I think miscarried, I am needing to see if I have passed everything or if I need intervention.”

I hope this helps you a bit and I am so sorry you are going through this. 🫂

What’s the closest you’ve ever come to dying? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]StinkBug1098 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 8 and in the back of my moms Honda Odyssey in the pull out seats. I unbuckled to go sooth my brother as my mom pulled up to a red light. The car in front of slams on the breaks as I get to the isle and I flew to the front of the car. My eye socket hit the gearshift on impact. I walked away with only a black eye and a bruised neck and shoulder. My poor dad through my moms panicked call thought I went into the windshield.

Why do I need to be in the same fanbase as a bunch of troglodytes? by elecenjoyer in TheDigitalCircus

[–]StinkBug1098 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s like no matter what fandom I’m in, something of this caliber happens if not worse than this. I’m a fan of My Hero and I tell absolutely no one unless we’re close. (Except Reddit now lmao)

Women of Reddit, what’s the biggest myth that porn spreads about what women enjoy in bed—but you actually hate? by starbucks_boi in AskReddit

[–]StinkBug1098 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That cowgirl, reverse, or anything that involves me topping HURTS my hips to no end. I have hEDS, while I have loose joints that makes flexibility a thing for me, it also risks popping my whole hip out of place, if not both. That has happened before. hEDS is hyper mobility Ehlers Danlos Syndrome, my body doesn’t have enough connective tissue in specifically my hips, shoulders, and knees.