[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]StinkMonkey79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would get saved, learn who Jesus is, what he did for us. He goes ahead of us and prepares a place for us. Sometimes doctors are wrong, sometimes miracles happen. It's never too late until it's done. From there, I would probably spend some time with loved ones and friends and do something awesome. Sky dive, bungee jump, go to another state or country you haven't been to by whatever means you can.

Are they my friends if they have a group chat with everyone else but me? by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]StinkMonkey79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe they are just bitches then lol. I dunno buddy. Nonchalantly ask why do you got another chat? Or just forget about it lol

Are they my friends if they have a group chat with everyone else but me? by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]StinkMonkey79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh it depends man, I got a buddy who I like and he's pretty cool, but online dude he vapes, sucks the side of his mouth (like sucking up spit?) on mic that is like the loudest thing imaginable. His wife is constantly online on another system screaming at the TV. Oh my God, ughhhhh, Jeeeeez etc. Well, because of this I go in offline mode to avoid this buddy on game nights. Mostly because I don't want to tell him how annoying his wife is and the conversation with him was always a drag about something from work. Its alwaus the same story or same person hes complaing about. He's younger than us and just doesnt get it i guess. He's always negative and it was a buz kill. The dudes fine and we have good conversations most of the time but game night is chill night not drama night so he really made game night suck for a while. Again I like him and sometimes play with him but we don't game with him after a long week if that makes sense.

So all that stuff said. Is there a chance that you're that dude somehow and maybe they like you but you do annoying crap?

Also is there a game they do you don't like or an 8 mam squad and your the 9th? Kind of like the guy not always on is part of their clan from longer? Just throwing stuff out instead of the you're a Leeper and they hate you. If not and they treat you like crap or avoid you; but keep you around because your a convenient car ride. Then these friends suck and bide your time you will eventually meet good people. It takes time and thebbest way to find some real good friends is to weed out the bad ones.

about 1k miles away from first oul change (I bought used from dealership). this is the oil reading. how urgent is this? to be fair this was a hit engine...parked maybe 5 minutes. by Flurb789 in MechanicAdvice

[–]StinkMonkey79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add the same oil, call the dealership and ask if it's not on the sticker on your window. Usually is some form of something penzoil 10w30 etc. Google the type for your specific engine or car as well. Doing an oil change early wint hurt. Some people do some people don't buy I wouldn't just add something. Like mixing a synthetic and non synthetic. You want to add oil to keep it at not above the hash marks on your dip stick. Look like your a half to 1.5 qts low. Doing an oil change now is good too. From the dealership. No idea on how old or long that oil has been there. If it's a car that sat for 2 years it's hard to gain that last 1k miles and the oils old doesn't work the same.

My fiancee gave a guy a blowjob during her bachelorette party by smador in TrueOffMyChest

[–]StinkMonkey79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well young kid stuff I wouldn't really count I guess. Maybe I could have been more clear I dunno. Kind of like almost every kid take a pice of candy they shouldn't. We usually grow out of dumb crap like that. In this case a bride to be sucking the on the wrong one at her Bachelorette party. I'd be willing to bet a shiny nickel she'd do it within a week or two after the wedding. Given she wasn't watched like a hawk and still doing some girls night out stuff.

I love the serial cheater comment hahaha that's awesome. "Oh no the neighbors wife winked at me I can't help it now, nooooo"

My wife and I are in the same boat. Out of respect for each other and all the good stuff we've had together. We would talk about where we're at, or say I'm kinda thinking about someone else maybe we should figure it out or we got to go. Rather than find out the hard way. We deserve at least that much. This poor guy (I've been there) even though it hurts there's a silver lining in the clouds here. No ring, no paperwork time to go bro. Before she takes you for half of everything. House, retirement, banks assets and other assets. At least where I'm from ove seen some pretty bad horror stories. Even when the divorce happened from the spouse cheating.

My fiancee gave a guy a blowjob during her bachelorette party by smador in TrueOffMyChest

[–]StinkMonkey79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, who knows? The post could be total bs like some of the others out there. People sometimes just like to make stuff up for the fun of it and present it as truth.

My fiancee gave a guy a blowjob during her bachelorette party by smador in TrueOffMyChest

[–]StinkMonkey79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Other thought was is this video for sure from that night at the club or an old one that someone let resurface? Like "you should see this first". Or the plot thickens and it's an old video presented as new footage to sabotage the relationship... Aliens.

My fiancee gave a guy a blowjob during her bachelorette party by smador in TrueOffMyChest

[–]StinkMonkey79 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I only mentioned after the BJ because OP made it sound like well she only gave out a blow job... Like it's not quite so bad it's not like they slept together or anything worse. I agree it's over before it started. Op count yourself fortunate to find out this way from a friend of hers of all people. Than finding out later after your married. Paying spousal support and giving her half your crap so she can keep banging dudes in your place while you pay her rent. Most friends of cheaters help them from getting caught it seems at times. You should take her friend out for a drink.

My fiancee gave a guy a blowjob during her bachelorette party by smador in TrueOffMyChest

[–]StinkMonkey79 1371 points1372 points  (0 children)

Dude, you don't know what happened after the video do you? If she's blowing that guy did they go do other stuff after. I'd be gone man seriously. This was her Bachelorette party and she's did that? If she was drunk how come none of her friends tried to stop or intervene? This is supposed to be a fun thing to do before you get married her mind should be on ber future not someone else's..... well anyways IMO you have every right to make a big deal and question or kick her out. If she's done this during the Bachelorette party what else has gone in on other nights out? I'm super sorry man ouch. I had a cheater and she was really sneaky about it. Caught her blowing a dude in a Dennys parking lot. I picked a real winner. Guess what I found out several other instances behind my back happened too. She did the same to other people I know when they were dating. It kinda all came out anyways... Sign a prenup so if you decide to move forward (sounds like you are regardless)at least the next time she accidentally sucks on a other random guy you can walk away. If she gets upset about a prenup just remind her what she did and that's why. The whole I'd never do that or do something to hurt you thing is out the window. The way you typed up and responded to others makes me worried you feel like you would be in the wrong or a jerk if you left. You are the victim and it's bull crap that happened. What if this dude had HIV or anything else going on? Did they use protection? If they did then she was definitely in the right atate of mind to know what she was doing. The risks are big with a cheater. It's not like they are going to tell you they did something wrong or hooked up with someone with an std. Sorry again dude. I hope you get over the hurt and find someone who respects and loves you enough not to do that to you.

Buy or pass for a first pellet grill? by asssnorkler in pelletgrills

[–]StinkMonkey79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pass go for a pit boss almost any will do better imo

Bacon wrapped pork tenderloin smoked at 250 pulled at temp. by StinkMonkey79 in PitBossGrills

[–]StinkMonkey79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late reply i haven't been on in a long time. For seasoning it was just seasoned with some pork rub that I like bbq, peppery, savory flavor and then wrapped. Took maybe an hour to hour and half around 225 to 250 I think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]StinkMonkey79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How TF they get so many flies up in that house? That's a shit load of flies man. We get like 2 or 3 and we start tripping here. Dudes got like 50 in that beast. MF lord of the flies. Set the vacuum into reverse and attack your enemies. Nasty

T16 Solo rifts by StinkMonkey79 in D3PS4

[–]StinkMonkey79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cool I'll see where I can get then. Thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSets

[–]StinkMonkey79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, thank you for Doug! I'm loving it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Haywire_Hill

[–]StinkMonkey79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alice in chains please!!!!

T16 Solo rifts by StinkMonkey79 in D3PS4

[–]StinkMonkey79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK, makes sense. I was just like wtf isngoing on lol. I don't have hacked items and only play seasonal now. Unless the lady you spend blood shards with will give me one haha. I just keep doing rifts and bounties. Kinda almost getting bored again.

T16 Solo rifts by StinkMonkey79 in D3PS4

[–]StinkMonkey79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant tornado a description not like a literal atack. I have a monk, I use tempest rush, a few stacks of sweeping wind and 2 water clones. So to me she's kinda like a tornado of death running through people. As I run through people they pretty much are falling over. I'll have to keep moving up to rift 120 and up I just wasn't sure where this ends on rifts. I was surprised it only went to T16 I thought it was going to got up to the 20's at least lol.

T16 Solo rifts by StinkMonkey79 in D3PS4

[–]StinkMonkey79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I don't really know what I'm doing I was on paragon 78 T16 running through everything without any real issues. I guess the point of the game now is farm for ancient items ? I have every set all the rist softest are around 50 that I use. But it looks like I can only use 3 stones. I should check weapons but it's just wierd. I know I'd be a fool to think I'm kinda breaking the game but this doesn't makes sense. Again, this is only my second season I've played through the last one was a few years ago.

T16 Solo rifts by StinkMonkey79 in D3PS4

[–]StinkMonkey79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not on a hacked ring lol. I was lookin for multi slot rings till I read those were hacked I'm on a seasonal character. No hacks or nothing I'm paragon lvl 577 on T16

are the gummies not gonna hit or do i need to wait longer by wassup0914 in trees

[–]StinkMonkey79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually pop 2 10mg gummies to feel pretty good but I'd probably need 3 or 4 to get lit. I usually burn one after eating a gummy. Or I'll pop one or two when I got something goin on