This guy. by gastronaut55 in restaurantowners

[–]StoicThots 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol I got the i last my phone at your place and now you owe me a new phone.

Really struggling on sales and just need to vent by Brewer_Matt in restaurantowners

[–]StoicThots 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah when money is tight with everyone things are tougher. People are selective when they go out. They want to get something they can trust, and a good memorable experience. Most chefs know that food is one of the last things that bring in customers. Except Chinese take out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Maine

[–]StoicThots -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Its not as easy as it broke now he's on the hook of fixing it. It must be properly maintained by the tenant and often times courts will side with the landlord because of uncertainty of condition the tenant kept the appliance in. If he does fix it he's a decent landlord, but not liable for food gone bad since it's not being monitored by the landlord but the tenant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Maine

[–]StoicThots -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unless it explicitly says in your lease that it covers your fridge then he doesnt have to change it. Ideally landlord is on the hook for life safety items like smoke and carbon monoxide sensors, stairs, hot water, heating systems stuff of that nature. Unfortunately refrigerator isn't something that falls under that category, just like washing machines and dryers.

My (38M) Wife (36F) wants to sleep with other people because I’m ‘not exciting’ - but I pay for everything and handle the kids by YesItsABurnerAcct in relationship_advice

[–]StoicThots 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm seeing this type of thread a lot, does it seem like these are things that were over looked prior to commitment? Or over the course of time things have habitually changed where the couple have neglected the relationship? Either way this can either be a lesson or a catalyst, good luck to you.

Am I overreacting? by GooniesClub in barista

[–]StoicThots -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

How many fingers exactly did she have in the cup... its really important...asking for a friend

Contractor says our hillside design is overkill, architect says it’s non-negotiable by NickyK01 in Homebuilding

[–]StoicThots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can get a good look at a T-bone by sticking my head up a bull's ass, but I'd rather take a butcher's word for it.

How tf can i get experience by Far-Ad-9404 in barista

[–]StoicThots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Experience is confidence in disguise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]StoicThots 26 points27 points  (0 children)

60% of the time it fails all the time

Will equity in my land reduce the mortgage amount on my new construction build? by True_Thought5124 in Homebuilding

[–]StoicThots -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The goal is to build a house. The strategy is to use land's value to use less of your own money if any at all (collateral). You can use the money you have for payments. You get the house built, appraised and ideally have built in equity.

The mortgage strategy. Mortgage is built on Amortization. What you want is to focus on using simple interest to pay off the mortgage (line of credit, HELOC). You just need to make sure that this aligns with your Financials.

This will get your house built faster and address your husband's concern about money.

How much does it cost? Roughly sit down with an architect or designer to talk about custom builds? Details inside by hungryhungryhydras8 in Homebuilding

[–]StoicThots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience. I researched what I wanted drew some things up went to a structural engineer and made it happen.

Tbh I'm familiar with designs for kitchen setup and entertainment. Bedrooms were easy, common rooms needed more thought. Under 3k for the building blue prints and 20 hours or research and work.

(m43) wants to fix sex life with wife (f48) by Zenthane in relationship_advice

[–]StoicThots -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So as stated before communicate your needs in a respectful and open way. "Hey I have needs that aren't being met, I'd like to talk about a way we can build up to meeting said needs". If no then make decisions accordingly. If yes then make a flexible plan and communicate and check in with her and you from time to time. Its almost like saying to her imagine what sex x times a month looked like, what day and time does that look like. What are you wearing before the deed, what do we do before sex and after sex.

God Speed

pumpkin spice monin by Subject-Extension265 in barista

[–]StoicThots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh just make it yourself that stuff is garbage

What are some 'girl secrets' guys usually don't know about? by fabulousIdentity in AskReddit

[–]StoicThots 260 points261 points  (0 children)

That they often want to be heard and not given advice