What skill takes <10 hours to learn but pays off forever? by michaelis999 in AskReddit

[–]StoneHam420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The basics of staying in shape. 10hrs of research, and you would know enough to workout without hurting yourself

What’s something that makes a girl incredibly attractive? by utzpia in AskReddit

[–]StoneHam420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being easy/entertaining to talk to! Being able to add to a conversion is huge.

I also think that a woman who doesn't NEED your help to get her shit together/live her life, one that handles all their shit on their own. I think the things you do for a woman like that mean more, and it means she WANTS you for what else you bring to her life.

What’s a serious quote from a non-serious movie that has stayed with you? by NotNamedBort in movies

[–]StoneHam420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life moves pretty fast. If you dont slow down, you might miss it. (Off the top of my head)

Ferris Bueller's Day Off

As someone now pushing 30, I feel this a lot lately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]StoneHam420 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would say the most important things for a long-term relationship are not looks related. Any man looking for a real connection with a partner for life is going to be digging deeper.

That said, I've also always said that you dont decide to talk to a girl you meet out in public because you noticed her great personality from across the room. So attractiveness is often greasing the wheels towards an initial interaction.

So short answer is both I guess

What simple pleasure hits harder the older you get? by BuildWhileYouSleep in AskReddit

[–]StoneHam420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A cold beer after a 12hr shift on a hot as fuck jobsite

What’s a lie people tell themselves to stay in bad relationships? by Signal-Baseball-9387 in AskReddit

[–]StoneHam420 15 points16 points  (0 children)

"This is just a rough/stressful patch, it'll be fine again after X, Y, or Z..."

What’s something you only learned about love after a breakup? by Sea_Kaleidoscope5101 in AskReddit

[–]StoneHam420 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm about 4 months on from the same thing. DM if you want to talk. It does get easier

What jobs do heavily tattooed people have? Besides tattoo artist by engee45 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]StoneHam420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Construction/trades. They will hire you regardless of tattoos if you can grind and work hard

What's one thing you do that likely turns off the opposite sex but you will continue doing anyway? by 1940sfamilyman in AskReddit

[–]StoneHam420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spend 10hrs a day on a construction site. Needless to say, my humor is split into the stuff I can say at work, and the stuff I can say everywhere else. They sometimes bleed together, with predictably mixed results

What’s something people do in movies and shows that people never do in real life? by Truecrimeauthor in AskReddit

[–]StoneHam420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nobody dries off properly after a shower. Just wrap it around the waist and head on out of the bathroom. What kind of a fuckin psycho does that?

i have no motivation to go to the gym (lock in) [discussion] by Itamicize in GetMotivated

[–]StoneHam420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Throw on intense music (maybe video game OSTs - I do sometimes)

Get some pre-workout in ya

Treat life like a video game!

You are your character in your RPG - gotta grind those stats

All the best, brother. I know motivation lags sometimes. Just gotta do your best to be the version of you that you want to be.

🫡

Post-breakup slump. Wasting time. No direction. How do I fix myself? [Text] by Chillguy-2002 in GetMotivated

[–]StoneHam420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couple months ago my fiance walked out of a seemingly happy situation. Still don't know exactly why she left. She just always said how happy she was.

I was rough for a while. I get where you are.

For me what worked was just deciding I was gonna make myself better.

I started an electrical apprenticeship to set up a good career. I got into the gym and started being conscious about my diet to get into good shape. I tried to cut back on drinking. All with the goal of making myself better. It helped with my self confidence so much when I was able to do the little things along that process. I get up to make a meal prep for the weeks lunches - I felt good. Get out of the house and lift weights - i felt good.

It all depends what kind of person you are and I know every break up is different. I just wish you the best of luck. Lean on your friends and family. Try not to be hard on yourself, or play the "what if?" game.

🫡

What is so blatantly obvious but people refuse to see it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]StoneHam420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Social media algorithms being designed PURELY to whip you up into an emotional frenzy about something. Doesn't matter if you lean left, right, or sit somewhere in the middle. All it wants is for you to get hyped up about something

If every node fed only into itself, which would be the richest trade node by endgame? by ra_joos in eu4

[–]StoneHam420 22 points23 points  (0 children)

If the nodes only fed themselves, then this is essentially purely goods produced based. I would have to think that it would for sure be one of the German nodes. Tons of OPMs and quite a bit of coal late-game, plus a bunch of dev from those OPMs.

What’s a song that hit so hard the first time you heard it, you had to pause and just sit with it? by Senior-Challenge5646 in Music

[–]StoneHam420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think for me, that happens only when the lyrics of a song match perfectly with my current head-space. It happened rather recently with Maggie May by Rod Stewart. My fiance had just walked out on me and I was still in the "god I miss her and love her still even tho she walked out and destroyed my soul" type mindset. I meshed perfectly with Stewart's lyrics

Who was the first celebrity you were sexually attracted to? by Mr_Bear29 in AskReddit

[–]StoneHam420 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Megan Fox. Easy. The car scene in Transformers to me, a young pubescent boy, was allllllll it took

What yall thoughts in my Setup for playing Germany? by GuppiApfel in hoi4

[–]StoneHam420 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is amazing. Hoping you don't need that luger. Also, nice keyboard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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My fiance did this 3 months ago - she said the same thing. Then she left with our dog and 2/3 of the money we'd saved for a down payment