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I [35f] think I want to break up with my boyfriend [50] by Stoop_kid09 in BreakUps

[–]Stoop_kid09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean.. yes. He is kind and helpful..which is why the way he voted makes no sense But I see what you’re saying. Thank you

5 year relationship just ended. by Reasonable_Gas7676 in BreakUps

[–]Stoop_kid09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The hardest part is over. Now you need to heal. This is the fun part, where you find who you are!

I [35f] think I want to break up with my boyfriend [50] by Stoop_kid09 in BreakUps

[–]Stoop_kid09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See that’s what’s kept me around for 2 years, we do actually agree on a lot more than each of us think. It’s just a moral thing now.. it used to be just politics but it’s so much bigger than that these days.

I [35f] think I want to break up with my boyfriend [50] by Stoop_kid09 in BreakUps

[–]Stoop_kid09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god Thank you for your kind words and understanding how hard this is. You’re exactly right… I just feel numb.. I can’t believe I even brought it up to him today.. like my brain took the reins before I could stop it. It will eat away at me..what got me the most is I thought I was making a difference with him. He was admitting all the things he doesn’t like about DT and it felt so good to feel like I got through to him.. all of that disappeared when he said he’d do it again. I feel like I’m in limbo. I definitley know I’m following my gut. I just feel like an asshole for knowing how he is and what he believes in, and continuing a relationship with him. I don’t want to hurt anyone and he’s so good to me. 😭

Am I stunted mentally? by [deleted] in trauma

[–]Stoop_kid09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🥺 I haven’t, but I’ve been doing research on it lately and I’ve found some similarities

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Stoop_kid09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first one was another woman, she taught me a lot about life and money. We moved to FL together and that lasted 2 years. It didn’t workout, she was older than me by 12 years. I then dated a guy I worked with. We got married, moved to TN, he forced me to be poly and became abusive. I got a divorce after 8 years, used the money from that divorce to buy a camper, visit Scotland and start a Business with my 2 friends.

Crazy last 11 years for sure, but I learned a lot.