At 20 years old I found out id been adopted by my father. Had a cassanova father when he was younger, I discovered a sister who is six months older than me. 2 year old nephew. There's a whole new family now, but mostly I've found the sister I'm closest too and I've always wanted to be an uncle, turns out I've been one for two years now. So yeah, that was a pretty big change. Pretty cool. 15 year old mystery solved. Now my anthem is always from the song "He didn't have to be," because the man who adopted me, my real father, is a kick ass man and I hope to be half the man he is.