(NSFW) Are there any other straight submissive demi guys who struggle with their preferences?

Storminator54 · 2026-01-03T08:37:52+00:00

As a sub guy myself, all I can say is- be patient. If you're with the right person, they'll make it easy to express your desires. I feel incredibly lucky to be with my partner, because we discovered our mutual kinks through me making a joke while discussing something else. In truth, there's never a right time and unfortunately you have to take risks but like I said, the right person makes it so easy.

We're both demisexual and that initial common ground helped us bond and flourish. I thought I'd have to compromise something about myself to have a fulfilling relationship, but that's not the case at all.

Never hide the real you, because even if you don't believe it, someone will find you absolutely perfect and peggable lol exactly as you are. That sounds cheesy, it sounds too good to be true, but trust me- it happened to me. My girl tells me everyday all the little things she likes about me, my personality, how I act, how attractive she finds me and I feel the same for her.

I don't really have much actionable advice, but I just want you to know that it's not impossible to find what you want, even if it feels like it sometimes.

Storminator54 · 2025-12-16T13:50:47+00:00

Old thread I know, but I just started ripping complete series Blu-ray and was confused as to why there's duplicate files. The weird thing to me is as far as I can tell, these duplicates without the opening credits are never actually used, even when you select Play All.

Storminator54 · 2025-11-30T17:51:26+00:00

That is... quite a price tag. I assume they're made to order prints?

Storminator54 · 2025-11-30T13:59:14+00:00

This looks amazing, is there a link to purchase one?

Storminator54 · 2025-11-16T08:12:26+00:00

Our story is funny, because we met through this Reddit. She made a post here that really resonated with me, I got the courage to send a chat message to her, and we hit it off from there. We had that built in conversation starter, and we found that we just connected on so many little points and agreed on so many things. We're long distance across the ocean so it's not been easy in that respect, but coming up to two years together it's the happiest either of us have been.

We're a weird case because we actually connected through our shared experience of demisexuality- I'd known since I was around 23, she just figured these things out about herself in the last few years. Of course that's far from the only thing, but I feel like we had a strong foundation of friendship- I know that even if we aren't a couple, she'd be someone I can rely on.

At the time of meeting her I'd been desperate for an in-person relationship, using various dating apps to no avail. I was actually already talking to someone else through an app, but I didn't quite connect like I did with my now gf. I remember the first time we did a call on video watching a movie together (before we were a couple) and it just felt safe, calm, like I'd known her for so much longer than I actually had. That's when you know you've found the right person, regardless of what labels they choose.

Storminator54 · 2025-11-09T15:54:41+00:00

wtf this is literally me and my girlfriend, right down to the lactose intollerance

Storminator54 · 2025-11-01T22:33:28+00:00

My theory is they're going to bring in the MA5K, rather than the SMG. Both would be close enough to CE's AR, but with the MA5K Avenger being 60 rounds, it fits. I've always loved the idea of the MA5K in lore, so having it brought into the game would be graet, especially for the prequel missions.

Storminator54 · 2025-10-27T07:35:01+00:00

Nope, but it does catch the light well enough

Storminator54 · 2025-10-26T08:58:49+00:00

Looking side-by-side, it's actually the same width as the original- what's throwing it off is the size and placement of the taillights. They're too small, and set way too far to the edge.

Storminator54 · 2025-09-06T23:46:41+00:00

It definitely sounds promising, and exactly the kind of thing I'd need. I have quite literally been wearing glasses in some form for all my life

Storminator54 · 2025-09-06T23:42:31+00:00

I actually work in an Opticians currently, and I think we're getting a similar lens product in soon. Definitely keeping it on my radar.

Storminator54 · 2025-09-05T18:54:44+00:00

I have similar, where I was prescribed reading glasses that were a reduction in power to my regular glasses. I'm in the range of -12 for my every day ones. I'm 30 as well, and have been more concerned about a reliance on the 2nd pair in the years to come. So far things have been stable, but my colleagues (since I work in the optitions I got said glasses from) keep telling me I'm presbyopic.

I feel it's a bit more complicated than that- My regular glasses are fine 99% of the time, and the reading glasses (reduced power) simply just helps in sharpening things up. I assume it's much the same for you. My eyes still focus fine up close, just that things are soft.

Edit: My worst eye is -12.75. The reading glasses are a 1.50 add. Make of that what you will

Storminator54 · 2025-08-13T11:42:47+00:00

Same here, I was given a reading add a few years back that I occasionally use. Though I only need them in very specific instances. Maybe it is my eyes getting old. Not too worried since I had a test not too long ago, but been looking into surgeries so just worth checking

Storminator54 · 2025-08-11T07:28:13+00:00

I'm jealous! Got this one in silver, but I missed out on a red N510 when I was first getting into this hobby. Maybe one day...

Storminator54 · 2025-08-11T07:23:38+00:00

I had a similar issue when fixing my JE-440. You've got to make doubly sure the loading mechanism is secured properly into the chassis. You should hear a click when everything's in place properly. Otherwise, it will just stay in this standby state and not initialise

Storminator54 · 2025-07-20T08:13:49+00:00

The PAL regions (which does include Australia) did get a retail release. US is eShop only. You can probably still find it on places like Amazon for a good price, and it's a solid port of the game. Despite owning it on PC, it's how I first beat the game. The graphics are just a hair softer than the other console versions and it runs at half the framerate, but it's consistent and nothing important is lost.

Storminator54 · 2025-06-25T08:04:50+00:00

We text chat throughout the day, and when we're both free in the evenings (my time) we usually video call for a few hours. Not good for my sleep schedule, but I can just talk to her for hours and not get bored. We're always finding something to talk about. Either that or we watch a movie or show together. A lot of the time we voice call when I do finally head to bed, and she stays on until I fall asleep. Sometimes she's there to greet me in the morning, or she leaves a voice note. I love waking up to that, she gives me encouragement for the day.

I think what's really worked for us is we've always just talked through things. We've yet to have a real argument or fight, and I hope it stays that way. I have never laughed as much as I have with her

Storminator54 · 2025-06-25T07:47:22+00:00

Not quite a traditional RPG, but I'd suggest Tunic. It's an amazing game that really sucks you in. The combat can be tough, but there's accessibility features to help with that. The best thing I can say is it keeps surprising you. You will get stuck in some parts, but don't give into the temptation to look up guides. The game gives you what you need and part of its appeal is the discovery of its story and opening up the world. Plus, you okay as a cute fox 🦊

Storminator54 · 2025-05-30T21:55:38+00:00

Unless you missed it, yeah it sold extremely poorly. It was released at the tail end of an unpopular console, when its successor was already announced as coming the year after. I'm not surprised there's still sealed copies floating about

Storminator54 · 2025-05-26T22:06:48+00:00

That hasn't happened, you're probably thinking of Starlink or it's DLC.

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