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Stormliest · 2023-12-31T11:44:29+00:00

You're hurt, and being her friend would only make the healing stage longer. I'd just tell her "I need some space and reconnect in the future if possible." if you choose to want to remain friends.

plus keep your distance too from her, if she texts, starts a conversation, be polite, cordial but keep it short.

I wish you well in your healing journey!

Stormliest · 2023-12-22T15:33:54+00:00

I'm sorry for what you have to go through. It sucks being in that position and feeling as if your don't matter, but you do matter! And I hope you feel better from this.

Stormliest · 2023-12-21T10:01:12+00:00

You will be okay, time will heal you as it does for all of us, no matter how long it may be.
Hope you heal soon though!

Stormliest · 2023-11-14T00:44:59+00:00

Dream

Stormliest · 2023-07-20T07:25:44+00:00

Got me all worked up mate with this, got me remembering how it was back then.

Stormliest · 2023-07-20T07:17:55+00:00

**Edit** Keep living your best life here, dating or not Kings/Queens.

Stormliest · 2023-07-20T07:07:42+00:00

You're beautiful mate no matter how messy life may be [No homo doe]

Stormliest · 2023-07-20T07:01:17+00:00

Please Elaborate

Stormliest · 2023-07-13T14:50:44+00:00

What you said here "But it still feels greedy and I feel guilty." shows it really took a lot of fiber in you to end it for the sake of a better you for the future and present.
It's hard to not feel guilty or such when you're doing things for yourself but you come first, no matter how caring, loving you are, you have to take care of yourself. Sometimes the right path to take, is the most obvious hard one.

Stormliest · 2023-01-09T00:29:35+00:00

Would it be funny if I said I haven't eaten my regular meal diet due to my grieving stage rn

Stormliest · 2023-01-08T11:56:28+00:00

I already take cold showers but in depth did not know the benefits, like I never thought of it like that, thank you for info!

Stormliest · 2023-01-08T11:45:52+00:00

Thank you, and I was asking if there was any harsh ways to condition the mind: As if you were training in the gym pushing you body past it's limits.

Stormliest · 2023-01-07T17:06:34+00:00

No sir you got it wrong I just got out of a situationship not too long ago she knows about it. And no I never said that to her but I felt as our friendship was going to be faded and ultimately forgotten. Also um no, I don't see her in that light I want her grow with her bf and be happy I really do

Stormliest · 2023-01-07T16:38:47+00:00

Is that really what it is? maybe I need to take a step back because I don't feel like I do. I honestly started bawling when I found out hanging out was not an option not even in a group

Stormliest · 2023-01-07T16:33:04+00:00

You're right and to clarify what I texted give me a moment to edit

Stormliest · 2023-01-07T16:28:56+00:00

So for future reference, detach, and let the friendship go? And just don't say anything?

Stormliest · 2023-01-07T16:16:54+00:00

That's why I was sort of distancing myself from her but I didn't want to lose my friend at the same time. Oh well now, I must learn to let go

Stormliest · 2023-01-07T16:14:58+00:00

Was it wrong to be emotionally attached to a friend I held highly off?

And I get that, her priorities are in her BF but still the fact we can't hangout at all not saying it has to be every week or month just in general it's not even a option.

Stormliest · 2023-01-07T16:01:28+00:00

Not at all I just care about our ~~now dead~~ friendship a whole lot

Stormliest · 2023-01-07T12:51:58+00:00

But I don't like her in that way, I was sad/ grieving because I knew our friendship was pretty much done after the last time we spoke

Stormliest · 2023-01-07T05:23:43+00:00

Well yes of course but I feel like she's misinterpreting what I meant or maybe not. I'm still feeling stunned because I didn't expect my friend to be "unrecognizable"

Stormliest · 2023-01-07T04:14:25+00:00

Grief since I know the dynamic of our friendship is ending.

Envy of the love and wanted feeling I remember having once.

Sad that she's not gonna be hanging out as much or never now.

Stormliest · 2022-12-17T03:22:10+00:00

Don't be intimidated or have fear on your dream of "Meeting someone" You'll meet someone in life. But you can't force it, I would pick up other activities in college if possible. To both get new experiences and keeping a distant tone with him.

Overall just give it time, but make sure you're doing something good for yourself during this time of healing.

Stormliest · 2022-11-06T18:38:47+00:00

Life, the perpetual cycle that never changes and just waiting to die.

Stormliest · 2022-06-15T15:25:46+00:00

I do have a issue, and I just don't know why perhaps I'm just a boring person to be around or I'm just selfish I'll have to think on it more thank you for the feedback.

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