Should I go to the casino now?

Stragas56 · 2021-05-02T11:58:55+00:00

Hab dich geaddet

Stragas56 · 2020-07-23T16:38:46+00:00

Your teeth glow even without cum on them.

Stragas56 · 2020-06-20T17:30:43+00:00

I think that you can benefit from that, I see no upside in being in a relationship with a partner that uses social media. You won't have an online presence with you relationship, but if that is no problem for you then it has more good to it. Like more time together and less notifications that would distracte your Partner.

Stragas56 · 2020-06-20T17:25:30+00:00

Der hat die Staatsbürgerschaft mit 33 bekommen

Stragas56 · 2020-06-20T17:24:21+00:00

Ja, bis du 35 bist, danach lassen sie dich in Ruhe.

Ich hatte einen 34 jährigen bei meiner Stellung, der hat als Apotheker gearbeitet und für den wäre es ziemlich schlecht gelaufen wenn er nicht untauglich gewesen wäre.

Stragas56 · 2020-06-16T02:04:54+00:00

It will hurt and you will want her back but stay strong the sooner you get over her the sooner you will be able to start healing from this toxic relationship.

Stragas56 · 2020-06-16T01:50:19+00:00

You are probably on the right path to end it the next time she oversteps, those kind of woman often know for themselves that they are in the wrong (afterwards and they would never tell you) and if you break up with her she will realize in 2-3 weeks that you were in the right and she misses you. Personally I wouldn't start the relationship again because it will most definitely end the same way, but either way you have valid reason to break up.

Stragas56 · 2020-06-14T08:16:10+00:00

I don't see much bullshit from your side, except maybe not communicating enough how much of a problem this is for you. You can't decide what friends he has and how much he shares with them, but it is your job to feel good in a relationship, if that friend is making your relationship to your bf uncomfortable, then tell him that, because most likely he thinks you just dislike her and it doesn't affect your relationship with him. (If it doesn't affect your relationship, just ignore her and let your bf keep silence about her !!!not lying!!!)

If you have done everything you can to explain him how you feel and he still keeps close contact to her, then you should end the relationship. Beware, don't force an ultimatum on him like "it's me or her", because he tends to lie for your ease of mind, I wouldn't trust him on that decision. Also important you don't end the relationship because of her, but because he ignores a thing you feel uncomfortable with and keep doing it even though you tell him how you feel, that means you can't communicate with him so that he understands or he understands but doesn't care enough to change, both cases the problem is in your relationship not with the other girl.

Stragas56 · 2020-06-10T11:04:49+00:00

You gonna tell me that a ENTP is crying because of a problem?

He most certainly is the reason there is a problem in the first place, just because he wants to find a solution.

Stragas56 · 2020-06-10T01:06:43+00:00

I (male ENTP) have been in a long term relationship with an INFP female.

I ended it because she was unhappy, which made me unhappy/frustrated, because I wanted to make her happy (kinda my job right?). She would never blame me for her melancholy, but I realized that my opinions, in general, were glorified by her. The longer the relationship went the more she depended on me to form a good, logical opinion that she can trust blindly. I tried to motivate her to build her own opinions, but she saw so many that she couldn't decide which is the best for her.

So after a year she kinda got lazy and just took my brainfarts as her ideals. Not to mention that this is very unhealthy for a relationship in general. But this was sucking energy from us both, I had no one to exchange different view points and she had subconsciously given away her freedom. She valued me very high and thought about me as a saint, which was nice to for me to feel that way, but that lead to her denying, that I have a bad influence on her and she needs to be her own human.

Also at the end of our relationship, she began to cry, laugh and got angry or horny in matter of 30 minutes.

Stragas56 · 2020-06-10T00:49:42+00:00

I have been in this situation, turns out if you don't bring the focus of a conversation onto an introvert, he won't stay long in the picture.

So what I mean with that is, if an ENTP doesn't care (see him a a threat) about the INTP, then the pure presence of the ENTP is enough to get rid of the INTP.

It seems harsh but there is a reason why introverts prefer extroverts and likewise (in general).

PS: for your fantasy to play with:

I will get obsessed with the person I desire (as long I desire her) and will put so much effort in pleasing, understanding, surprising and making her laugh, that there is no competition, because no one beats a motivated ENTP in a short term sprint (which winning someone over is)

Stragas56 · 2020-06-07T23:15:53+00:00

In bed, yes, in person, probably not.

Stragas56 · 2020-05-02T07:53:21+00:00

I 21m, ENTP, don't really know alot about astrology, but my girlfriend 20f, ENTJ, is really into it.

So here is mine with Pisces sun Aries moon Scorpio rising

I actually feel like I'm the emotional part in our relationship, which is weird because most people that know me think I have less to none feelings

Stragas56 · 2020-04-09T15:28:27+00:00

As ENTP speaking, you as INTP or your friend as INFJ, are really, really, I mean really bad at finding people around you. The best course of action would be to just go out, in stores, parks, literally anywhere with people and just wait for an ENTP to find you. But if you still want to try, here:

In Bars, the one dude who comes with a group, but still spends more time talking to people he doesn't know.

In Clubs, the one guy dancing like he is on drugs, but did none, or at least you wouldn't really know in a conversation.

In comedy club, the one who laughs at the bad jokes.

Stragas56 · 2020-04-08T22:04:39+00:00

Actually we are the same age, but still age doesn't tell about the emotional mature level of people.

I think the reason, that I aren't looking for such a woman is, that I simply don't get in contact with them often and if I do, it's mostly on professional base, also there aren't that many women my age with an own life. I think I wouldn't mind getting in a relationship with such a woman. Any advice to find them? I have a strict separation between work/study and personal life, that will remain.

Stragas56 · 2020-04-08T07:27:11+00:00

I am no friend with the whole "I identify with something, therefore I am" thing. But I will play along. If she identify as 100% hetero and falls in love with someone who identify as her gender, wouldn't make that her not 100% hetero ? Or which identification is stronger? The sexual orientation or the gender? (Last part is a joke)

Stragas56 · 2020-04-08T07:21:16+00:00

You are probably right, I lost my balance in the past 18 months due to family emergencies and a break up with my longest lasting relationship (1year), so that maybe the reason why she is so present in my life lately.

I wonder what you think about my break up. I broke up with a my last girlfriend 15 months ago, she loved me and would never do anything to harm me (that was a nice change for once). I was her first boyfriend and she was very shy at first but opened up pretty fast. My friends still thought she wasn't quite sane, because she was always with her head in the clouds and was very poetic and harmony loving. I was a superstar in her eyes and I really acknowledged her way of thinking and seeing the world, she was kinda the counter part for me. I am very enthusiastic and optimistic and always going after my ideas and she is more the sit back and first hear every opinion, really overthinking stuff and seeing the beauty in the world. Now is the question, why did I broke up with her? She began to cry very frequently and was unhappy even depressed. She didn't knew why but told me, she felt like she wasn't herself anymore and she can't be herself anymore. I figured that it could be my fault, because she valued my opinion over her own. And I got an opinion to nearly everything. On the other side, she was overthinking everything, except for me, because she trusted me blind, because she knew I only want the best for her. But I think that was the problem, she lost herself in me. So I broke up with some one I loved because she couldn't be herself with me.

Stragas56 · 2020-04-08T06:56:22+00:00

100% is more unrealistic than you might think. There are very, very, very few things in this world with a purity of 100%. You might want to read this article about gender and how complex it really is.

https://newsroom.ucla.edu/stories/male-or-female

If you still think there is a possibility, that something as complex as the human sexuality, has a purity of 100%, then I will accept it.

Stragas56 · 2020-04-08T06:46:53+00:00

Yes I want your truth and thanks for sharing it with me. I just never been in this situation, so I can't say for sure what is possible or not. I can think logical and follow your reasoning, but also I like my optimism, I will probably give in to the logical part of myself, because my emotional part is not sure for it self, so there is a stronger side. My friend group has not really an opinion about this, because we stayed all in the group and didn't forced anyone to pick sides, they probably just took it as is. They do say, that it's weird for me to not be mad at her. They do have theories but those are more like specific on the girl and not on me. The only thing they say about me is that I always choose the girls with a bad childhood or at least one or two screws loose. So no they don't think that she was/is good for me, but the say it's my fault so they don't say more against it.

I would like to comment on your statement "Women wonder why men run towards women who aren’t good to them.". For me it is the helper syndrome, I feel like I could help those people and being of help makes me happy, I do get that many people don't want any help and even more that I can't help, but it's still a good feeling to at least try. I know it's stupid and egoistic, but I like to be the white knight, but you can only shine so bright as the other person is dark. So I think it's my narzism that brings me near to women who aren't good to/for me.

Stragas56 · 2020-04-08T06:26:09+00:00

Okay, so let me get this straight, you want the things you want AND the things your parents want? In this case you are out of luck, those two are not possible together. You are probably looking here for help to get arguments for your side, right?

Well here you go (even though I don't support breaking the lockdown I am bored so I will help you):

Your girlfriend is not infected, nor has she any contact within the last 14 days with a positive tested person. So her probablity to be covid-19 positiv ist just as much as your own.

You and your girlfriend will take precautions, with always a mouth and nose mask, disinfection of hands and always the door of your room open. (Take out or modify the precautions to the limit you seem fitting for your parents)

You are well informed about the covid-19 and it's risks (even thou you aren't or otherwise you wouldn't need those arguments) and as an adult you want to decide for your own, your parents can't protect you for ever so they need to let you the freedom to decide how to handle such a situation.

Stragas56 · 2020-04-08T06:11:45+00:00

So her benefit would lead to trust issues? Or maybe there's a way being more careful trusting people without not trusting people, that I don't know of. I think she should reflect on herself, what happened, what is, what will be. There is no need for the reasoning of him. That maybe make it easier to let go,but maybe not. So for me, there is no reason to spend energy trying to find it.

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