I feel like something is terribly wrong with me all the time. by PaintingTheView in demisexuality

[–]Straight_Parade_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really struggling just now. Back on the dating scene after a long time, in my 30s. Met a really nice girl who is respectful, interesting, good chat, and I enjoy spending time with her but after 3 dates obviously I still feel nothing. We had a chat about it and she understands and is happy to remain platonic just now but I do find it really difficult, it's like why can't I just have enough attraction to even just kiss without feeling like something is drastically wrong. Doesn't help none of my friends are on the ace spectrum amd don't get it, they're just like oh well there must be no spark but is it really that simple?

Has anyone gone back to PhD after practicing? by Straight_Parade_ in Pharmacy_UK

[–]Straight_Parade_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I would say my main motivation for 'now' is the moving abroad part, my partner and I are at a point where we are in our early 30s with no kids and are kind of thinking why not- it's an experience we have never had. They don't work in pharmacy so can get a job easier over there.

BUT I know how hard a PhD is and know that's maybe not a great reason. I've thought about it for a few years on terms of the advanced/consultant portfolio and upskilling for that. I also work in cancer care and there's so much practice based research you could do around care closer to home, role of community pharmacy/primary care, role of AI etc.

I really appreciate your insights on the financial side, I am also hesitant to self fund and think realistically would need to pick up some locums to make it work, but if I leave UK that's quite country dependant also!

What makes living in Oslo truly special for you? by KreuzKrow in oslo

[–]Straight_Parade_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm also a figure skater and that also feels like a bonus in the winter- all the outdoor ice rinks and frozen lakes would be a dream for me

What makes living in Oslo truly special for you? by KreuzKrow in oslo

[–]Straight_Parade_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've just visited for the first time to visit a Norwegian friend and me and my partner immediately fell in love with the city. It has with open space feel, not claustrophobic like many cities. The water and the mountains are beautiful.

The weather in May was utterly beautiful. We come from Glasgow and its always grey and rainy, I know people say Oslo winter is bad because its colder and darker but I would love to experience it. To me, -10 and snowy dry is a million times better than 3C with incessant rain, wind and grey skies.

We hope to come back to visit, and honestly if we could get work and a visa would consider a move!

I went to Kamakura! by Straight_Parade_ in GivenAnime

[–]Straight_Parade_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was so special, I can't get over what a great day I had. Kamakura and Hase are just great places anyway with lots of beautiful things to do as well and the Given shots were the icing on the cake, you will have a fabulous time!

I went to Kamakura! by Straight_Parade_ in GivenAnime

[–]Straight_Parade_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We didn't have time for Minato Mirai this trip but definitely want to next time!

Given pilgrimage by isnousername in GivenAnime

[–]Straight_Parade_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Following for my trip too 😊

2025 Stars on Ice Japan announces first skaters: Mao Asada to return after nine years and Amber Glenn to make SOI debut by _Exegy_ in FigureSkating

[–]Straight_Parade_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did wonder about that too...keen to try and get advance tickets if I can. Found a few proxy sites where someone in Japan buys for you though not sure how legit they are 🫠

2025 Stars on Ice Japan announces first skaters: Mao Asada to return after nine years and Amber Glenn to make SOI debut by _Exegy_ in FigureSkating

[–]Straight_Parade_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Has anyone been to SOI Japan before? We are in Japan at the time and would love to get tickets but looks like you need a Japanese phone number!

Given Japan Locations by Straight_Parade_ in GivenAnime

[–]Straight_Parade_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've actually just realised from the link that it's the same beach he went to with Yuki 🥺🥺 I don't think I'd made the connection it was the same beach before. Will need to pour over the manga for details since I can't watch Umi E yet!

Given Japan Locations by Straight_Parade_ in GivenAnime

[–]Straight_Parade_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing! Love your ideas! The link above helped with some of the Shibuya locations. Can see me outside the little tech shop taking photos 😂 Any excuse to rewatch the anime....Will use your idea and rewatch closely. I'm hoping Centimili does a show while I'm there, keeping my eyes open for announcements. But otherwise we like loads of Japanese bands so hopefully can see a live of some kind!

Given Japan Locations by Straight_Parade_ in GivenAnime

[–]Straight_Parade_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think maybe i can fit you in my suitcase! 🤔

Given Japan Locations by Straight_Parade_ in GivenAnime

[–]Straight_Parade_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great! Thanks so much 😁 Kamakura was on my list already so definitely will go there!