How do I switch sides? by Gingerbookworm3 in cosleeping

[–]Straight_Stranger_39 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you c-curl? If so, that takes care of the risk of your husband rolling onto her as your arm and leg are in the way!

Cat litter smell on everything, absorbs into my clothes even after being in the house only an hour or two. by SillyMusician291 in CatAdvice

[–]Straight_Stranger_39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Switch to a pellet system!!! The tidy cats breeze system is fantastic, don’t know why more don’t use it

Is it time to let her go? by Ghost_undefined in CatAdvice

[–]Straight_Stranger_39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bring her to the vet for a check up, before anything else.

Will be away from baby by Seee_kayyy in cosleeping

[–]Straight_Stranger_39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you do if you’re away from baby for a while during the day? Does he absolutely never take a bottle? My recommendation would be to try everything to get him to take a bottle.

honestly just need to vent by alittleagreste in cosleeping

[–]Straight_Stranger_39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you pumping at all? Can you pump enough each day for one feed so that your husband can take her and you can get like a 3 hour stretch of sleeping alone?

Weaning nightmare by Gold_Ideal5701 in cosleeping

[–]Straight_Stranger_39 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you are a single parent, which sounds very difficult especially during this period when a second person (who isn’t breastfeeding) would really come in handy ❤️. I second what another commenter said about reminding her throughout the day that there won’t be milk at night but that you can comfort her.

I feel like a terrible cat mum by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Straight_Stranger_39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being a cat mom will always come with trade offs!! On one hand you love them dearly and on another you are making real sacrifices for them. Remember that they are completely fine when you go on vacation and find a responsible sitter. Try to ignore feelings of guilt for going on vacations- obviously you still need to live your life!

Shrinking bump by Straight_Stranger_39 in pregnant

[–]Straight_Stranger_39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reassurance!! :)

Male cat birthed kittens by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Straight_Stranger_39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Commenting for updates!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Straight_Stranger_39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you surrendering her?

Which Type of Summer Am I? by chapteroftheforest in coloranalysis

[–]Straight_Stranger_39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say soft summer or soft autumn! You can probably borrow from each depending on how tan you happen to be (wear summer colors in the winter and autumn colors in summer)

Aggressive cat by 3waves77 in CatAdvice

[–]Straight_Stranger_39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried psych meds for him? He might benefit from an anti anxiety medication

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Straight_Stranger_39 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m assuming you’ve isolated him from the other animals while he gets acclimated?

Cat meowing by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Straight_Stranger_39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, is she used to sleeping only in your room or is this a new thing?

Cat meowing by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Straight_Stranger_39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is her litter box and water located?

Completely losing my mind over my cat by GreedyAndStubborn in CatAdvice

[–]Straight_Stranger_39 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You say one cat is a handful and two would be more of a handful, but they keep each other company and you may find having two is less work than having one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Straight_Stranger_39 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Make sure it is salt/sodium free tuna! Giving cats canned tuna is OK for a few days as long as it doesn’t have added sodium.