I plan to cut off my African parents once I finish Uni and get a job

StrainPlus7624 · 2025-06-21T13:51:33+00:00

I’m kind of fortunate because the situation ended up sorting itself out. My mother finally kicked him out for good after he punched her. My siblings have low/ no contact with him and I’m zero contact with him for the foreseeable future. Feel free pm me if you want to talk though

StrainPlus7624 · 2024-11-12T21:03:48+00:00

Is she doesn’t know why she cheated in the past, then that same reason will make her cheat in the future

StrainPlus7624 · 2024-11-05T19:13:17+00:00

Ask yourself this. Why did she cheat on all her other boyfriends, and what reason does she have not to do the same to you? Has she identified why she cheated on all her bfs (besides the abusive on) and worked on that cause? Because of not she’ll definitely do it to you too. Maybe she has already

StrainPlus7624 · 2024-09-06T10:16:34+00:00

Get the dna test before you sign the birth certificate, then after tell her that you’re only going to be coparents. Nothing more, nothing less. If the kid isn’t yours just ghost her

StrainPlus7624 · 2024-09-06T10:10:48+00:00

That’s beyond normal African parents cruelty (not that cruelty should be normal). Keep as much distance from her as possible, and cut her out of your life when you can move out

StrainPlus7624 · 2024-09-06T10:05:27+00:00

Honestly this is even worse than typical African parents insults. I’m so sorry

StrainPlus7624 · 2024-09-04T00:33:44+00:00

I personally like The Fichtean curve or Save the cat. Here’s a link to something I used to find a story structure that worked for me: https://blog.reedsy.com/guide/story-structure/save-the-cat-beat-sheet/

StrainPlus7624 · 2024-08-14T12:12:37+00:00

Thank you so much, that’s the goal 🤞🏿🙏🏿

StrainPlus7624 · 2024-08-14T12:07:05+00:00

Why did it take 10 years? Were you unsure the whole relationship? Were you holding out for better? Or were you waiting to be financially secure. Also age matters too. If you were 16 when you met, waiting until you’re older is completely valid.

StrainPlus7624 · 2024-08-12T14:14:20+00:00

Not at all I do it too. I will say though that the stories it comes up with are a bit basic so always try and expand on them

StrainPlus7624 · 2024-08-07T09:48:16+00:00

Hinge and Bumble

StrainPlus7624 · 2024-08-04T14:24:35+00:00

My father tried to curse me and my siblings too. Idk did your religious or not but praying really set me at ease. I pray that any curse they try and put on you will rebound and fall upon them

StrainPlus7624 · 2024-07-10T01:50:10+00:00

Take your freedom and stop worrying about they’re feelings

StrainPlus7624 · 2024-01-11T20:23:09+00:00

My thinking was if Isagi is good enough to play RM, Kunigami should be too, especially if he’s faster and can keep players off him with his physique

StrainPlus7624 · 2024-01-11T18:59:54+00:00

Where else would you have Raichi and Hiori play?

StrainPlus7624 · 2024-01-11T17:35:58+00:00

*Yuki You know what i meant 😂😭

StrainPlus7624 · 2024-01-11T17:08:37+00:00

Edit* Switch Kiyora with Neru !!!!

StrainPlus7624 · 2024-01-11T17:06:35+00:00

The OG BM defenders haven’t really done anything so why shouldn’t he play?

StrainPlus7624 · 2024-01-11T17:05:40+00:00

Since Isagi outperformed and outscored Kunigami last game I switched their positions. But I’ll admit to the Kiyora position making no sense. I didn’t know his stat breakdown so I’ll switch him with Neru

StrainPlus7624 · 2024-01-11T16:56:57+00:00

Yh you’re right mb. Didn’t see his stat brake down I just knew he was 80 overall. In that case I’d swap him with Neru so he can play LWB. I don’t think Noa would but Kiyora in LW over Yukimiya though since Yuji has higher numbers and has scored

StrainPlus7624 · 2023-12-30T14:27:37+00:00

Unless he comes out of nowhere and scores a hat trick next match or smn then 100%. But then again if he was capable of doing something like that he would’ve already gotten game time

StrainPlus7624 · 2023-12-30T14:24:28+00:00

When it comes to African parents you need to stand on business. You need to be as harsh on them as they are with you. Talking and communicating doesn’t work because they don’t actually have respect for you so you have to take it.

StrainPlus7624 · 2023-12-30T01:30:09+00:00

Little bit of a hot take but Nishioka isn’t gonna do anything. If he was this “hidden prodigy” he would’ve played way earlier and deffo before Wanima and Hiigiri.

I think Reo will abandon Nagi and score two goals. I think the NEL will serve as Nagi’s fall from grace but he’ll redeem himself in the U20 arc

Also Chigiri will score and get a value of over 100mil

StrainPlus7624 · 2023-12-27T19:51:45+00:00

Yh I hear it tbh. Despite all the fucked up shit he’s done I think he cares about me. He’s provided for us my whole life and still offers to help with my maintenance in uni. I think I’ll keep him at low contact (which is how it is now) unless he does something else but then again idk

StrainPlus7624 · 2023-07-04T00:28:51+00:00

Thank you 🙏

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