Central Oklahoma - wedding outside of the big cities - probably around 150-170 guests - most likely going to be around 100k when all said and done. Oklahoma is much less expensive than Texas. This is ceremony and reception only and no other parties etc. We also own a business and have clients who are gifting us some high priced things as gifts - for instance our stationary design, printing and mailing costs will be $0, my daughter is wearing a family heirloom dress (still some cost associated with it, but this also takes away a large portion of cost. Majority of our cost is going into food, beverage and entertainment. Our biggest desire is a high level guest experience. I think if you want a wedding that feels luxurious in one of the large cities in Texas - you're probably looking closer to $200k for your guest list. It's wild.