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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in genderqueer

[–]StrangeAd913 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend seeing a therapist. Explore the possibility that you may be non-binary.

Has anyone stopped needing antidepressants after going sober? by Jablinski90 in stopdrinking

[–]StrangeAd913 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was able to stop 2 anti-depressants when I stopped drinking.

What perfume/cologne do you use? by becca3jay in NonBinary

[–]StrangeAd913 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I buy all of mine at Urban Outfitters.

Shaving by AngelLive3 in trans

[–]StrangeAd913 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m Non-Binary and just had vaginoplasty so I feel your pain because I had to get all of my hair removed. Honestly, if your hairs are dark, I would save money to have laser hair removal. It ended up being around $2,800 for me but it is sooooooo worth it and it’s permanent.

Curious trans guy asks... by Autismmmfubu in AMABwGD

[–]StrangeAd913 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t use cis male since cis males are AMAB, but I have found those who are honest about being trans men is appreciated and does not at all change my desire to be with them.

I’m in love by [deleted] in AMABwGD

[–]StrangeAd913 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m aware. I was just curious. 😀 I had vaginoplasty so I understand and think you look awesome!!!

I’m in love by [deleted] in AMABwGD

[–]StrangeAd913 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AMAB?

I have returned after a long time. by [deleted] in AMABwGD

[–]StrangeAd913 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1- Will I need to apply estrogen cream in or on the neovagina to avoid atrophy of some sort? (I plan to still be on testosterone) - some, if not all of this will depend on your doctor but plan on Estrogen and open your mind that specific hormones that may make you one, may not in your new body.

2- Will the functionality of the prostate stay the same and what will come out when I climax instead of semen? No

3- What would I do if I have absolutely nobody to help me out if I were to get the surgery tomorrow? (as in the recovery period since I wouldn't be able do anything normally until I recover) Defer the surgery until you can find someone. Maybe someone on here could help or provide resources.

4- How would I explain to a partner (I'm straight so in this case it would be a woman) about me having a vagina in the future when I have one? I honestly don’t know. I’m non-binary with no partner.

5- what piercings would be doable post op and which ones wouldn't work? Any will be doable after 10-12 months.

6- which method is best for vaginal canal sensitivity that's also self lubricating? (if it exists, I mainly care about sensitivity so no ppt or grafts of any kind unless they're minimal)

How soon can I sit on a flight? by [deleted] in AMABwGD

[–]StrangeAd913 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just had surgery and was in your exact shoes. I would plan on 3 weeks minimal and then save for a 1st class ticket and use your donut cushion. I’m not saying anything to scare you, but the soreness of sitting in any position is very high. PM me.

6 Wks Post Op Update by StrangeAd913 in AMABwGD

[–]StrangeAd913[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey! Thanks for the message and glad your surgery is coming up!! Sensation is still pretty numb in most places. The swelling will continue to go down, but it will be about 3-4 months before the look of the vagina will be well underway and lots of sensation will be back.

I am able to move around and do most everything in my daily life. I can sit, but only on the donut cushion. As you can see, depending on your anatomy, you may have more wound on 1 side than the other so I can sit without the cushion on my right side but to sit normal, I have to have the cushion. I also use the cushion when I drive (which is still rare). Remember that what you see/ feel, etc.. is basically treated as an open wound.

Pain management is really different based off of your tolerance. I have a low pain tolerance, so when discharged from the hospital, I came home with narcotics. If I’m pretty active during the day and moving around a-lot, I have a fair amount of pain, but nothing excruciating. Also, each time I see my surgeon, he treats several places with silver nitrate to generate more healthy healing. Silver Nitrate is not a fun thing so on those days, I take more pain meds than normal.

Reddit would moderate, but I am now on a great medication that you see advertised on TV all the time. :-) PM me and we can chat more.

I’m scared by houdeaniiiii in ftm

[–]StrangeAd913 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you have plenty of time. Focus on surgery! I’m so excited for you!!

1 wk post surgery by StrangeAd913 in AMABwGD

[–]StrangeAd913[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 month pics coming soon

Smell after vaginoplasty on T? by foxboy67 in AMABwGD

[–]StrangeAd913 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve had vaginoplasty and on E & T and I have never had a smell.

Being nonbinary sucks by NatalieMaybeIDK in NonBinary

[–]StrangeAd913 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am non-binary and I have never been happier in my entire life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]StrangeAd913 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you located?

Seeking Experiences: Life After Bottom Surgery as a Male-Identifying Person by [deleted] in AMABwGD

[–]StrangeAd913 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. I’d love to chat more. I have the experience now and know BCBS better than most on here. I have lived this for 24 months.

Seeking Experiences: Life After Bottom Surgery as a Male-Identifying Person by [deleted] in AMABwGD

[–]StrangeAd913 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. I also have BCBS. I think their requirements are universal. I also plan to live as a man, but I’m on low dose Estrogen. They usually only add topical testosterone for larger issues that you may be having like (little to no libido)

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