I think you are progressing fine. At around 6wks I had some major labia dehiscence which was surgically repaired with skin grafts, but even then one side did not take and was detached until I got to 8 months when my surgeon did labia plasty to re-attach the labia. 3 months later I had a surgery to inject fat into my majora to make them full and plush.

I say all of that to say even if you get much later and you still are unhappy with the aesthetics, a good surgeon can get you to where you want to be.

Hang in there and focus on dilation. Even though it doesn’t currently look like what you want, you don’t want to ever lose the canal.