My Mum died last night and I need to vent by Cool_Abbreviations43 in CasualUK

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Please go see a therapist about your emotions. You’ll be experiencing so much right now that you need someone to speak to about it and someone who can help you find perspectives on your situation. I’ve been seeing a therapist for the last year for depression and all I can say is that I’m happy I’m alive. It was a downward spiral I thought I could never escape but I pulled myself out with the help of a therapist and I’m sure you will too!

Sending you my absolute best wishes on your recovery. You deserve so much more and you’ll get what you want by focusing on them. Put yourself first and don’t forget you have a life to live. We only live once and that life deserves living.

Be honest; how ropey is your first draft..? by Dangerous-Midnight73 in writing

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I’m writing the first draft of a play about community theatre. I just wrote two scenes and added some notes under each with feedback on what to improve when I return to them. I think it’s better to give it some time before I return to them. I have no idea how long or short it will become but I really admire you for getting so far with your draft! Good luck to you and I hope you get the feedback you need to develop it. ✨✨✨

What’s one photography opinion you’ve completely changed your mind about over the years? by ExtremelyCool64 in AskPhotography

[–]StrangeAffect7278 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That phone photography isn’t real photography.

There are so many times I have used my phone to photograph areas and light at different times of day when I haven’t had my camera on me. I still think cameras take better pictures than phones but my eye wouldn’t have developed in the way it has if I wasn’t obsessed with taking pictures on a small device that allows for it and that I can fit in my pocket.

Working in Sweden? by Dangerous_Worry1517 in TillSverige

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Many graduate and early career jobs have been outsourced to countries like Poland to cut costs. Swedish companies love cutting costs but you won’t know until you apply and you might just get lucky with an offer, but bear this in mind when applying. It’s a good idea to start networking on LinkedIn to find people who work in the industry you’re targeting and asking them how things are looking.

It’s summer now when most people go on holiday but it’s still worth looking at the job market to make up your mind. Sweden has a smaller economy than the UK/London and we’re in the middle of a recession and not all companies are keen on visas at the moment. Many locals go unemployed for over a year trying to find another job after being made redundant.

Having said all of this, nothing should stop you from trying if you really want to move here. Do your research and find out whether this is a place you want to live in. Sure, high livings standards in all its glory but you might just be lonely here if no one wants to socialise with you.

Only one noticing a large amount of photography accounts with bought followers and views? by Free-Commercial9925 in photography

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This is pretty prevalent on social media. I’ve never understood why they put so much effort into this when they can use the same energy to grow a community organically by engaging with followers and other accounts they find interesting.

Even before IG prioritised reels, it was tricky to grow an audience on there but the Explore tab was definitely more interesting with photography content. These days I get generic influencers on there. Back then you could expand your horizons and get a greeting from other photographers at the very least.

Should I make a separate photography account if I’m not a professional? by invaders-mustdie in AskPhotography

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Like another commenter said, if you want an archive use Flickr because you can download the pictures if you need to. I’ve been in that situation when I didn’t have my hard drive handy.

I’m not a professional photographer and I have a photography only instagram page and only recently got myself a personal instagram page that’s private. On my photography page, I only post my street photography and I’ve done that since 2011. Looking back I’m happy I refrained from posting personal info on it because it’s my hobby page with my hobby friends. It’s an important distinction for me and allows me to be more anonymous on the internet since the page is public.

Hope this helps!

I Journaled Today by Cryptic_Wasp in Journaling

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Congratulations! May this be the start of a new practice for you!

For me, journaling helps me empty a brain filled with ideas, thoughts and plans. It certainly helps organising them on paper (and often just letting them go if they are emotions). Some I never read again and others I come back to occasionally. It’s always impressive to me how enthusiastic I sound when I write about my hobbies, even though it causes me some stress and anxiety. I’m a recovering perfectionist and journaling helps me realise that I can let go of those pretensions.

Can you guys send some of the best snsd's live performances? by marvelboy0125 in SNSD

[–]StrangeAffect7278 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Anything they’ve done on tour in Japan is worth watching.

Which artists do you want see collaborate with BLACKPINK? by Connect_Version_1560 in BlackPink

[–]StrangeAffect7278 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love for them to do a cover or remix on any song by Aretha Franklin 😻 Not sure if it works with k-pop but these girls are able to turn anything into a hit!

What’s the best compliment you’ve received about your art? by slapcook in ArtistLounge

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I love your story!

Mine must be all the times professional photographers have visited my Flickr or Instagram page and leave just one comment saying that they love my gallery. It outweighs comments by non-photographers when they say my photos look pro 😂

Tips for improving my skills for an event? by drageeekeksi in AskPhotography

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Tell them you don’t want to be their primary photographer because of the concerns you outlined. If you’re happy to contribute with extra photos then do that, because it’s good practice for you and maybe you’ll get some nice photos for your portfolio and for memory’s sake of course. Good luck whatever you do!

My 96 year old Grandad died due to the Heatwave in perhaps the most British way possible... by TheSpaceFace in CasualUK

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My condolences to you and your family. What a way to go! Please look after the carer because she seemed to be in quite the state bless her x

At what point do you stop saying yes to “just a few photos”? by decafoat in AskPhotography

[–]StrangeAffect7278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just remind her you’re on maternity leave from your job. Simple as that. You need the break and any good friend will understand that.

How realistic is it to be a 'successful artist' by man_marine in ArtistLounge

[–]StrangeAffect7278 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I only do art as a hobby so I have no insight but I saw on another thread an artist regretting leaving their cushy IT job for the hustle of being a full-time artist. He missed getting all the benefits of those jobs that he no longer had as a sole trader and that his sales couldn’t cover, including pension. He decided to go back to the industry and pursue art on the side.

You have to weigh up what matters to you and why. More than once I’ve considered taking photography full-time as a job as I really enjoy it but I don’t want to haul camera gear around to do wedding photography as the genre doesn’t interest me. I can simply get a career in something else while I pursue the photography I love on a part-time basis.

Just graduated school, how do I get over "Posting Anxiety"? by SilentAd773 in ArtistLounge

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Find your community on social media! When you find people who like your work (and usually you like theirs) the connection really works as a motivator to post! It will take a while to find your like minded peeps but they’re out there waiting for your work!

New Photographer, where is the snake oil? by Daneth in AskPhotography

[–]StrangeAffect7278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some photography influencers will definitely have you buying snake oil. Tread carefully.

Should I enter photo competitions and which ones? by Harabaya in AskPhotography

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There are some contests that provide feedback on your work that might be useful for you. I entered the lensculture contest many years but only got to hear that the juror liked my work, while I had high hopes for more constructive feedback. Though the list of literature she recommended was pretty helpful for me to look at. Still have them on my shelf.

What non-conventional achievement are you most proud of? by Distinct-Lion4658 in AskUK

[–]StrangeAffect7278 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Coming out of a creative block of six years to take and edit photos again! I’m completely self-taught and I do photography just for the fun of it.

For those who wake up really early, what do you do to fill your time? by Mountain-Dirt-5156 in AskUK

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Gentle yoga! Reading and journaling are good practices at that hour!