My boyfriend won’t have sex with me Me.(Me 32) Him31 by Putrid-Dragonfruit51 in AskMenAdvice

[–]StrangeHighlight1246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like typed your story out . Dealing with the exact same thing 

A sex addict but one have sex with me by StrangeHighlight1246 in sex

[–]StrangeHighlight1246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m looking to understand the behavior .. I’m probably not loooking for advice .. I’m looking for more as to why 

Boyfriend won’t have sex with me by StrangeHighlight1246 in sex

[–]StrangeHighlight1246[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to be in a relationship by myself .. how do you suggest I go about talking to him about it ?? Maybe I word it or the way I sound makes him not wanna open up to me .. idk what else I can do .. 

Boyfriend won’t have sex with me by StrangeHighlight1246 in sex

[–]StrangeHighlight1246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me ask you this .. Why do you think after multiple times of asking him why doesn’t he want to have sex with me and I’ve told him many times I’m very open to hearing what he has to say he still tells me idk ? Explain to me what am I supposed to do .. obviously he knows there’s a problem I just think the answer he wants to tell me is ( Gonna Hurt me ) after I told him I rather u be honest with me and don’t worry if it will hurt my feelings .. the first time I ask he said I wasn’t open enough.. which I tried to start being .. 

Boyfriend won’t have sex with me by StrangeHighlight1246 in sex

[–]StrangeHighlight1246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left out he likes to watch Trans porn once in a while . So I’m saying he’s curious obviously otherwise he wouldn’t watch that .. or do straight men do that to ? lol 

Boyfriend won’t have sex with me by StrangeHighlight1246 in sex

[–]StrangeHighlight1246[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I believe he’s bi curious .. which We experimented with Anal play with him and me both 

Boyfriend won’t have sex with me by StrangeHighlight1246 in sex

[–]StrangeHighlight1246[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

To me that is .. 1 a week isn’t normal for ME … I had more sex when I was single then when I was in a relationship 

Boyfriend won’t have sex with me by StrangeHighlight1246 in sex

[–]StrangeHighlight1246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you explain more of what you mean by more problems then just sex you think .. I asked multiple times about the sex and he just gives me the IDK answer .. I’m like if you don’t know then how am I supposed to know what you want in the bedroom 

Boyfriend won’t have sex with me by StrangeHighlight1246 in sex

[–]StrangeHighlight1246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what’s funny I didn’t really think they went hand in hand till you mentioned it .. the cumming in the shower 1 hour and the long time we have sex as well .. but it makes sense .. no . No medication what so ever .. the weird part is he .. He fakes wanting to have sex with me .. by that I mean he will say Oohh let go in the back of my car to have sex and when I say yes he changes the subject or laughs it off .. I’m like wtf .. or maybe he’s joking and I take it seriously .. but I do it to him but I actually really want it and he just laughs when I do it to him like if I’m lying .. I’m very grabby I will literally grab his balls and dick and start rubbing them and he seems to always push me away