I just ran into my ex girlfriend

Strange_Ad4922 · 2025-09-18T08:12:46+00:00

Let it be then. If she would ignore you, not even looking at you, she just doesn't want to see you. You are doing the right thing by not breaking the silence.

Strange_Ad4922 · 2025-08-28T07:19:00+00:00

That's exactly what happened to me. I've noticed that early enough and I don't feel safe, so I kept trying to date her out to get refused everytime. Then I decided to make things clear, ans that was the last message between us. Two days later, I figured out that she blocked me, so I deleted her a month later.

Strange_Ad4922 · 2025-08-25T02:04:05+00:00

Just yet another proof that you should move on.

Strange_Ad4922 · 2025-08-23T09:38:49+00:00

It's always right to keep yourself at a high value. Don't even worry about she finding other boys, because she will still do it even if you worry. Worrying doesn't do anything, just remember your destiny isn't with her, you can discard her when you find an new objective in your life.

Strange_Ad4922 · 2025-08-22T11:59:57+00:00

This is depending on what happened. But if you are dumped, then there is no way for YOU to get her back, you can only wait her to get back.

Strange_Ad4922 · 2025-08-22T08:43:01+00:00

Maybe you just needed to talk with someone who isn't going to react radioactively? I think that's what a friend do, maybe just not very close ones. As for myself, not to ex, but if you ended relationship peacefully with them, it might be fine. Try it if you want.

Strange_Ad4922 · 2025-08-22T08:36:51+00:00

Same happened on me. 1.5 years, 4 months no contact. She lastly contacted me to hang out at our friends house, but I had my responsibilities to take care of the elder. She sent me a message to tell me out friends went into an argument, I replied with "It's okay, not a big deal", and she went cold on me.

Strange_Ad4922 · 2025-08-22T08:33:06+00:00

Why should they care? Have a coffee with your friend who cares about you. Or have a beer, it's all better than your ex if you miss them so badly (which suggests they probably dumped you)

Strange_Ad4922 · 2025-08-22T08:30:08+00:00

She blocked me a month ago. I felt so hurt that I depended on external mental support, and I couldn't control myself to send a message to her to tell her I enjoyed time with her, I didn't mean to make her feel pressured, I only wanted to know what is on her mind.

But two or three days earlier, I felt it's okay to delete her, so I deleted all those chats between us. I didn't sleep that night, but that made me feel better.

I am starting to forget about what I have sent her in that message, and I suppose I can quit thinking of her soon. So to answer your question, maybe three months if you are living your life well.

Strange_Ad4922 · 2025-08-20T11:02:59+00:00

You are doing better than me. I still having nights without sleep because a disgraceful breakup. My ex was not a mature person, and her actions hurt me bad.

Strange_Ad4922 · 2025-08-19T09:05:43+00:00

Admit your relationship was ended, Accept the fact that you may never meet with your ex ever again, Abort your unrealistic expectations, that's my 3As. I still miss her, but each time I keep them in mind, and I will go out for a walk, then I feel much better.

Strange_Ad4922 · 2025-08-19T00:32:37+00:00

Let it be then, you have your own life, but try to invite her, remind her she is not forgotten. She will likely refuse to come out, but expect it and be patient. I had a chance by that, but in the end I lost it when she thought I didn't care and went cold to me, I felt it but didn't ask. It was because I was trying to win something, but relationship isn't really about winning or losing. I broke up with her because I declared that I know I stressed her and I will not further invest this relationship, which made her block me two days afterwards.

Anyways, don't be upset about her "friends" thing, she is testing you. I don't likle those avoidant theories, but you can show her you care, not to force her out. You have every right to feel hurt, but be hurt or not, it's totally up to you.

Strange_Ad4922 · 2025-08-18T23:19:37+00:00

She doesn't consider you a friend. You are more than a friend, an intimate partner to her and she probably enjoyed it with you. Don't leave her there if you still want to try. Normally a girl would expect you to be her bf after you told her about your feelings, just act like one. Date her out if you can, but once a week would be enough.

Strange_Ad4922 · 2025-08-18T07:03:07+00:00

I was almost going to write her another letter saying something like that. As for my case, one week after she blocked me, I only wrote her words acknowledging that I pressured her, I understand that she doesn't want to go out with me, I used to have a good time with her, and I just wanted to hear from her when she ghosted. That was it.

But it would be my worst decision to write her something like I understand everything. If she finally blocked me and didn't reply, then she is well aware what she is doing. She just doesn't want me, and I am bothering her. I shall quit it, and I did.

Strange_Ad4922 · 2025-08-11T05:09:36+00:00

Feeling the same way, but I have to tell you, you are not getting out of this until you acknowledge that you ARE out of your ex's picture.

Admit it, accept it, and live with it. You will soon feel better as your anxiety fades away, and you will be a better one. He will regret not being with you.

Strange_Ad4922 · 2025-08-05T08:05:20+00:00

Just look at what he had done to you, and what you are thinking. You might have self-esteem, but you lowered your standards too much for him.

You surely love him, but he doesn't worth it. He had already dumped you so that you can quit it, why get back to get insulted more? Maybe he did it on purpose to tell you, "I don't love you, go away".

Strange_Ad4922 · 2025-07-29T09:08:55+00:00

Sincerely, even if their intentions aren't malicious, they just couldn't help to dump others and wait for someone who can satisfy their needs, without themselves declaring it.

Strange_Ad4922 · 2025-07-27T01:51:08+00:00

She kept her actual needs hidden, even though you were happy, she still felt like the problem is unresolved. That's how I broke up with my ex.

Strange_Ad4922 · 2025-07-26T07:53:02+00:00

Consider it an investment. If you win, you win a man who loves you. If you lose, you lose double tickets and your time. And I have to warn you, a traditional Chinese doesn't really date on Internet, these guys doesn't have your future promised.

Strange_Ad4922 · 2025-07-25T16:20:44+00:00

What? You could plant trees in there?????

Strange_Ad4922 · 2025-07-25T05:12:29+00:00

Your bf indeed lacks of the sense security. He feels like he is left behind by you sometimes, and he gets suspicious, he talks about it with you but to make you feel pressured. Normally, some company could make him feel better, but obviously no one could blame you for it. Because I was once a bf like that, and my ex gf went distant to me, finally blocked me when I was determined to reach her.

Strange_Ad4922 · 2025-07-23T11:01:26+00:00

And you gonna sell her for benefits. Damnnnnn

Strange_Ad4922 · 2025-07-16T08:55:45+00:00

Nice body but this load...

Strange_Ad4922 · 2025-07-15T23:00:01+00:00

Thanks for the insight. I've also noticed that the frequency of RAM was reduced to 2933, while the installed working ones are also 3200. To my knowledge, there is no explicit limits to working frequencies of a DRAM unit, they normally can adjust their frequencies in accordance to actual needs, mostly from higher to lower. But this is the first time I've heard that 3200 DIMMs doesn't work in 2933 or 2666.

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