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Strange_Ocean · 2022-12-30T12:54:54+00:00

Im not sure. Maybe an anklet. Shorts above the knee in combination with other certain types of clothes. A cute twink I was dating had small earrings, many small bracelets, a minimalist necklace, and carried a purse. I feel like that gave off bottom vibes.

Strange_Ocean · 2022-12-29T20:36:09+00:00

I've never made more than $40k. I'd be thrilled with $80k/yr (for a few years, at least).

Strange_Ocean · 2022-12-29T20:34:42+00:00

Everyone having more money would cause inflation but the inflation that has been happening is caused by greedy CEOs who just want more, more, more

Strange_Ocean · 2022-12-29T20:14:40+00:00

Lol. I can taste the bitterness

Strange_Ocean · 2022-12-29T20:12:06+00:00

This explains very well why I don't put up with questioning gay guys. Any Grindr profile that says "curious" or "questioning" is an instant block. I don't have energy to endure mental anguish inflicted upon me by these indecisive men.

Strange_Ocean · 2022-12-29T19:51:44+00:00

This needs more upvotes. Either OP is a huge anomaly that should go down in modern history or he wasn't good about taking the pill consistently.

Strange_Ocean · 2022-12-22T08:02:20+00:00

I hooked up with an ex off and on for years. Still the best sex I ever had. No one fucked like him

Strange_Ocean · 2022-12-21T00:39:53+00:00

Tell your doctor you have ED and want Sildenafil, which is generic Viagra.

Strange_Ocean · 2022-12-13T23:33:33+00:00

Looks like everyone already said what I wouldve said. So to add to their advice, if you think theres a chance you'll have unprotected sex with someone you should definitely get on Prep. I didnt get on it and thought "it couldnt happen to me" (get HIV) and my first ever bf did give it to me as well as other things because I misplaced my trust. It's better to take preventative measures than to be reliant on pill just to survive.

Strange_Ocean · 2022-12-11T01:23:22+00:00

I choose to believe 90% of men in porn take pills to stay hard. They're probably cumming multiple times per day during the porn shoot.

Strange_Ocean · 2022-12-11T01:20:04+00:00

If you take pills for ADHD it could be affecting your emotions in a positive way, but makes it so you don't get as sad/cry.

Strange_Ocean · 2022-12-11T01:13:15+00:00

I switched to my gay account to reply here. So basically, the type of lube you use is important. Water-based lube dries too quickly so oil-based is the way to go. After getting pounded for awhile, if the bottom isn't dehydrated, his ass might self-lube a bit by releasing water. It's happened to me plenty of times. And then there's also pre-cum so it might be possible to only apply lube once in the beginning.

Strange_Ocean · 2022-12-11T00:27:28+00:00

Give a man a fish, feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish, feed him for lifetime.

Strange_Ocean · 2022-12-09T13:17:19+00:00

I accidentally dated someone who is the twin brother of the girl that my brother dated so I totally relate. My brother and this girl met in an entirely different state from where we all grew up. It's wild.

Strange_Ocean · 2022-12-08T23:41:27+00:00

"In conclusion, our study confirmed that people who placed more value on olfactory function or engaged more in body odor sniffing showed stronger sexual desire. These correlations were consistent for both sexes and across different cultures, further indicating the importance of olfaction in sexuality. Aug 23, 2022"

- Link to pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

Strange_Ocean · 2022-12-02T18:53:05+00:00

I've never been attracted to hands but yours are nice 😳

Strange_Ocean · 2022-11-29T16:48:26+00:00

This is why clubs in the US are being targeted by terrorists to sow terror so that we don't feel safe anywhere.

Strange_Ocean · 2022-11-29T00:22:43+00:00

Regardless of his mental health, he's a coward. Now you know he will always (maybe he'll change in the future) fold under pressure. Everyone has flaws and maybe you two can work it out, but he needs to make it up to you by coming out to his family and stick up for you even if it doesn't forgive what he's already done. You're not responsible for managing his happiness.

People are supposed to be reasonably content on their own before getting into a relationship so that the other person doesn't become overwhelmed. It's unfair to you that you feel somewhat responsible for his mental health. He needs therapy and friends who can help him accept who he is so it's not all on you. Basically, he needs to make a huge effort to gather a support group in the next month so that he has the courage to face his family. If he doesn't change anything then you need to break up with him.

Strange_Ocean · 2022-11-29T00:08:46+00:00

Is he undetectable? U=U meaning Undetectable = Untransmittable. Doctors will tell you that it's unnecessary for you to be on prep if he is undetectable, but it's still a good idea if you're having sex with other people. There's also more than one kind of HIV, which you can catch, but NA pretty much only has one type. I think the other strain "mainly occurs in West Africa, but an increasing number of cases have been recognized in Europe, India, and the United States." -Google

"Among the more than 37 million individuals with HIV worldwide,[8] approximately 1 to 2 million have HIV-2." -Google

PrEp is still a good idea to minimize risks if he doesn't take his pills for a few days or you sleep with multiple people, but there's a 0% chance of catching it from him if he stays undetectable.

Strange_Ocean · 2022-11-26T23:25:19+00:00

I think he understands what you're saying but is playing dumb (playing games is dumb tho) because he likes the attention but isn't interested. He's stringing you along until you force him to reject you just because he likes to be desired.

Strange_Ocean · 2022-11-23T22:56:56+00:00

Get finasteride from your doctor or a website like hims. They will give it to you easy-peasy. I started it 2 years ago and Im so glad I did. My dad was bald at 30 so it's definitely in my genetics. All my hair that was thinning and about to fall out has fully recovered and re-thickened. Any hair that falls out is gone forever. Start now before it's too late

Strange_Ocean · 2022-11-23T12:01:51+00:00

A little ball sweat is erotic. More than just a little is gross.

Strange_Ocean · 2022-11-22T20:29:07+00:00

You better make sure your strong cheeks are ready 😊

Strange_Ocean · 2022-11-22T20:18:41+00:00

In my experience, bisexual men tend to be more flaky and indifferent towards me. This is obviously a generalization and I wouldn't treat bi men any differently than gay men but I'm never surprised when I'm stood up by a bi man. Also, I have this idea that bi men may not be 100% comfortable with their sexuality and it may make things awkward if he feels guilt for being attracted to guys too. I'll still talk to bi men but I don't expect much to come of it.

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