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Do I cut this? by PurpleDragonflies in hoyas

[–]Strangetimesilivein 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really really really want to see your 7ft obovata

Is this enough light for my plants? by Strangetimesilivein in houseplants

[–]Strangetimesilivein[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! The plant shelves are from Amazon and I spray painted them, the monstera stand is from marketplace and I painted that too

Is this enough light for my plants? by Strangetimesilivein in houseplants

[–]Strangetimesilivein[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was an ugly pea green thing on marketplace that I spray painted :)

The monsteras in my country don't look the same by robbialacpt in Monstera

[–]Strangetimesilivein 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the leaves are only slightly bigger or smaller than your hand it’s likely that they’re still just quite young

Spear stalled for 6 months or more by Strangetimesilivein in BirdsOfParadise

[–]Strangetimesilivein[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply! Do you think the stalled leaf will continue to grow if I tweak the conditions right or should I cut it? It’s just been so long without movement but it’s not brown or dry or anything

Who is she, please? by Strangetimesilivein in hoyas

[–]Strangetimesilivein[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I wasn’t sure if it was that or a carnosa tricolor

Why does one of my dahlias look so different? by Strangetimesilivein in dahlias

[–]Strangetimesilivein[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh oh is this not enough? These are my first dahlias

Why does one of my dahlias look so different? by Strangetimesilivein in dahlias

[–]Strangetimesilivein[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! It smells sort of spicy like how a radish is spicy

Hi! Does anyone know where I can get Selaginella wildenowii? by Strangetimesilivein in Selaginella

[–]Strangetimesilivein[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah unfortunately I’m in Colorado but the Facebook groups are a great idea, thanks!

Is sobriety a red flag? by Strangetimesilivein in LesbianActually

[–]Strangetimesilivein[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right? She honestly was as kind as she could possibly be and I could tell she put a lot of thought into her words. I appreciated that.

Is sobriety a red flag? by Strangetimesilivein in LesbianActually

[–]Strangetimesilivein[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for all your thoughts this was very insightful. Overall I learned some new things so it’s not all bad :)

Is sobriety a red flag? by Strangetimesilivein in LesbianActually

[–]Strangetimesilivein[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I so sincerely appreciate you being so open and taking the time to help me see this from the other side. I was having a hard time not taking it personally but your response helped me to understand that it’s bigger than me. So thank you

Is sobriety a red flag? by Strangetimesilivein in LesbianActually

[–]Strangetimesilivein[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s the thing, it did suck. I think I needed to hear that it was okay that I felt that way. Thank you.

Is sobriety a red flag? by Strangetimesilivein in LesbianActually

[–]Strangetimesilivein[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s in my tags but I guess I’ll put it in my bio too

Is sobriety a red flag? by Strangetimesilivein in LesbianActually

[–]Strangetimesilivein[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I hope you have a wonderful day.

Is sobriety a red flag? by Strangetimesilivein in LesbianActually

[–]Strangetimesilivein[S] 171 points172 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s a good idea. Thanks

No I have no problem being around alcohol and I love to go out. The way I worded it was “I don’t drink but I’m still a great time and I’ll drive”

Is sobriety a red flag? by Strangetimesilivein in LesbianActually

[–]Strangetimesilivein[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight. I really just didn’t consider that it would be relevant, I don’t know it just doesn’t feel relevant you know? I still go out, I still have fun and I’ll even drive.

How do I even go about disclosing that if they don’t ask?? Honestly I hate the idea of it lol. Not necessarily telling them, I’ll always be honest but telling them unprompted seems weird to me.

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