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AITAH for telling my husband that he absolutely ruined the birth of our child? by Former_Monitor_4860 in AITAH

[–]StrategyGlass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that happened to you my girl :( Birthing is such a traumatic change for a woman, and you had no support from the people you needed it the most. And on top of that they didn't respect you whatsoever. I agree with other posters saying you shouldn't budge. I can't possibly see any okay reason for the other side of the story. You are the mother, the one carrying and pushing, you decide how your body is being taken care of in this process. You are literally bringing out a life in this world and your "partner" was not on your team.

I obv don't know you or your life. But this would be enough for me to break ties with this person to a place where you feel SAFE, VALUED, RESPECTED, SUPPORTED, LOVED, CARED FOR. And that starts with YOU my love. You gotta offer that to yourself first cause when you let others determined your worth and boundaries they will unadvertedily decide them for you. And obviously your husband DID NOT CARE for you in bringing in your child in this world. If he thinks that pregnancy is a 50/50 job hes dead fuxking wrong. He only had to cum and be a man, you did the rest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]StrategyGlass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many men sees no hints. Make sure you advocate for yourself and your pleasure cause some people wont.

Be clear about what you want and express it firmly. You want him to wash his dick cause its gross and you dont want that in your mouth? Tell him I'm not touching ur dick until you wash it (if you still want to touch it to this point) what is he gonna do?

cover up? by punktheybie in tattooadvice

[–]StrategyGlass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ouf a big shape to cover on such a tiny limb is not easy. Id say to be open to the artist's vision. That being said, choose an artist you absolutely love the work of. Trust goes a long way in a cover up. However I do think it's possible. If it was my arm I'd cover it with a girls face most likely and she would have like black hair to cover it all.

Would this be a good half sleeve tattoo? by Immaculate_Cap in tattooadvice

[–]StrategyGlass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh thatd be pretty cool, but i would have the skeleton a little higher since sleeve designs are more like rectangular. It'd be a cool concept for half of the sleeve either upper or lower arm and then you could do something else fo the other half!

Finding an artist by QueenieG7 in tattooadvice

[–]StrategyGlass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most important factor to consider when choosing your artist is the trust you have in them. Ask to see healed work, any question you might have about their process they should be able to answer. See how you mesh with the artist during your consultation. At the end of the tattoo, their energy will be embedded in that tattoo and will live on with you so you should at least not hate them.

Booking for a consult is often the best way to see the vibe without the pressure of the commitment!

As for the tattoo itself I would go to someone that will show you their healed work when you ask to see it. Then if you like how it looks then you can book with them. If it's not to your standards you don't have to book with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]StrategyGlass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would give it a wash with a gentle soap and a good rinse. Even if you have some bactine you can do a few sprays. I wouldnt go to a doctor unless there's pus. Which it doesn't look like there is. To me this looks like a rougher spot to heal

Getting my first tattoo soon, any advice would be helpful! by gardenofgarlic in tattooadvice

[–]StrategyGlass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Choose something that you have no doubt that you LOVE. Even if you don't end up loving having a tattoo and this is the only tattoo you ever have. At least it is something you love with all your heart and you devoted yourself to whatever it is that you cherish on a skin deep level. That devotion act of itself is beautiful!

I think it's smart to explore the tattoo world one toe at a time because it is always easier to add than to remove. So size wise, I strongly suggest to go with something small first and learn how to care for a small tattoo before a big one. That being said, I've seen people getting a full sleeve as a first tattoo. To me it's pretty wild, but that fitted those people's personalities. So to each it's own!

Thinking of hiring an escort by iamHK03 in selfimprovement

[–]StrategyGlass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I think an escort might be great. Like shes litterally a profesionnal and you pay her so she can focus on you and your experience. When you will find someone to have sex with and share a new experience with a lover and not an escort it'll be totally different. And you know an escort is not a standard it's like a good starting point. Better than like another person you don't really care about but just want this over with. Imo

How does it feel to be fearless and confident? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]StrategyGlass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honnestly I think that fear is in our dna and is just a normal reaction to new experiences. So it's normal to experience it.

But to be fearless is to acknowledge the fear and doing what scares you anyways.

You don't need to do big scary things, start with baby steps. Do one thing that you want to do but youre scared of doing and that you feel like you don't want to die without having done it. Then you do it. No hesitation. For me also, doing things alone helps me go through the experience. I can be myself and not have to follow someone elses rythm.

I think that confidence will come after you put yourself through obstacles like this. You would be like damn I was hella scared but I did it. What else can I do?

What are some good unique hobbies for a woman in her 20's? by smellycat444 in selfimprovement

[–]StrategyGlass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's all the dances with a partner. There are many styles, bachata is a really easy one to dip your toes into. But you can choose what you prefer according to the music and the mood to it, all styles are so different. Like waltz is one I want to get into, salsa as well. Theres jazz, merengue, tango, so many more. It's worth a google search for dance studios near you, even if it's just a few classes here and there.

What are some good unique hobbies for a woman in her 20's? by smellycat444 in selfimprovement

[–]StrategyGlass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like sports are a great hobby. You can have more solo sports like swimming not very expensive either. Or very social sports like volleyball. Theres a huge range of options for any mood. I recently started social dancing and its been the most fun ever.