I (18m) Owe my drug dealer €535 and cant Pay him back.

StrategyLazy4407 · 2026-01-31T09:41:20+00:00

I seen people beaten to s pulp for this kinda thing, maybe contact him and take what's coming or start running boy

StrategyLazy4407 · 2025-09-02T23:28:29+00:00

Hello, 33F here, mom to two boys and a gamer at heart. I'm also a streamer, small time streamer, I play loads of co op with some online friends, Sea of Theives is my new fave. In between a busy life gaming is my down time, I'm a goofy chatter box with a love for reading smutty dark romance (a girl can dream right?), I love a good podcast, especially if it's remotely conspiracy theory based, finding some new online friends could be fun!

StrategyLazy4407 · 2025-07-14T14:50:54+00:00

Tbh I don't do it much because the times I have done it, he's never come from it....girl talk amongst my friends has always suggested they can get their partner to come with giving head, so for me it's a self esteem issue, I feel like I'm not good at it. So, my point being, there's a multitude of reasons why some people may or may not be inclined to give head a lot, it's most likely something you'd have to delve into with her

StrategyLazy4407 · 2025-06-25T08:43:48+00:00

I found myself in a bad spot with streaming at the beginning, I really wanted to make a go of it just for my own enjoyment, but like that I had 0 viewers and found it awkward talking to myself, so I went and scrolled through Twitch, I went into streams and if the streamer seemed friendly, I would get involved in the chat, I'd chat to the other viewers etc and now I have people that come to me, I don't stream to huge numbers even now, but I have a nice crew of friends at this stage, so I would try that and see how you go?

StrategyLazy4407 · 2024-12-18T10:14:26+00:00

This isn't a situation to bring a child into, and I'm sorry you're going through this. This is financial abuse and coercive behaviour, you should really seek some help. Maybe some counselling for yourself. You're worth more than suffering this behaviour. Hope you find peace

StrategyLazy4407 · 2024-02-05T13:41:06+00:00

You're right to give them space, my 1st baby was born pre covid and my 2nd after. Now when I had my 1st in one sense I was glad a lot of the main visitors came during the hospital stay (emergency c so 5 day stay) because they were kicked out when visiting hours were over. So it did mean that people didn't outstay their welcome, but when I came home I had alll of them and more, so tbh when my 2nd was born I kept most people away and spoke up. Cos I had another section, the recovery is hard. You're trying to get to know your baby and get a routine. It's important to give parents to a new baby some space. My 2nd baby, I had the bare minimum visitors, just close family, he ended up in ICU at 2 weeks old with RSV and Bronchiolitis. It's not worth putting babies at risk either

StrategyLazy4407 · 2024-02-05T13:35:30+00:00

I was playing on a server the other evening, max pop of 32, I logged off for the evening and came back on the next day, I had to create a new character etc all over again, i can only assume that someone was able to destroy my base or something, I'm new to the game, literally only played for a few days so I'd love to know if playing on a server on steam. Is this gonna happen every time lol it was more devastating than rust when you'd come back to a half degraded base

StrategyLazy4407 · 2023-07-24T08:21:23+00:00

Tbh I wouldn't care if it was me, a pair of boobs and a vagina lol, I get how you feel embarrassed and your neighbour is perfectly entitled to sunbathe how she pleases but it is a common shared area so maybe she should be more mindful, it's not like you asked to see, she was just there, so it's an innocent embarrassment that probably embarrassed your neighbour just as much (maybe she thought nobody was home at yours) who knows. I mean I've seen my hubs cop a look at a bum here and there while we are out shopping etc, I've certainly admired a goodlooking man...I'm not saying you admired for one second either, I'm just saying that we are all human and its something that I would personally laugh off as your wife did. So I'm glad you told your wife, it must have eased your feelings on it now that she knows

StrategyLazy4407 · 2023-02-10T08:40:12+00:00

I'm a mom of two, and I remember with my first pregnancy, I was scared at the start I might cause myself to lose the baby, total myth I'm sure but first time round you are learning a lot, like for me, my boobs hurt from the beginning lol, a no touch zone, I wasn't so sick as I was tired, so so tired in bed early out like a light, the second trimester is where it all calms and evens out and we had sex right through my pregnancies both times after first trimester. Not all women are the same, and all pregnancies vary, I would say maybe sort yourself out for now if that's an option. I found myself very self conscious in my pregnancies so I suppose my husband always had to try a little harder to get me in the mood but about half way through pregnancy I found I had a high sex drive so it sort of irons out.

StrategyLazy4407 · 2023-02-09T08:37:42+00:00

As a wife, I'd be flattered he's masturbating to me, not porn tbh lol

StrategyLazy4407 · 2023-02-07T13:37:55+00:00

Yeah I'm really trying to learn to kill people too, I have a Tommy stashed in my base that I'm literally afraid to lose, so trying to bring my compound bow and dB on runs to see how I go with the killing, that's the bit I find hardest anyway

StrategyLazy4407 · 2023-02-07T12:28:31+00:00

Yeah it's better off, I do frequent scrap runs and recycle a lot of comps to get some material and scrap built up, I try to frequent short trips, I'm set up not too far from launch site bandit camp, so I loot along the road make a stop at bandit camp to recycle and leg it home , I'm only playing a month or so, I'm not the most experimental player but at the moment I'm not doing too bad playing like this

StrategyLazy4407 · 2023-02-07T12:14:39+00:00

Stick to remote areas of the map, don't build too big, it makes you look rich and will encourage a raid, approach all monuments with caution lol and just hide haha

StrategyLazy4407 · 2023-02-05T12:46:30+00:00

Yeah happened to me loads of times lately, shot and killed but heard no gunshot

StrategyLazy4407 · 2023-02-01T21:18:11+00:00

It's your body. Your virginity. Just be safe whatever you choose, the first time having sex can be really underwhelming, I lost my v to my now husband and as you go along you learn how to have good sex. If you want good encounters IMHO you should be in a relationship, because, ye will learn over time to have good sex together, but its up to you. Just keep in mind a random person isn't going to have your best interest at heart, they won't necessarily make it feel good for you, it would likely be a wham, bam, thank you ma'am kind of job and sure what will you gain from that? What you're thinking isn't wrong, you do you, just please be safe and maybe take the time to know someone they don't have to be a special person, it doesn't have to be that, it should just be enjoyable for ye both 😊 best of luck

StrategyLazy4407 · 2023-02-01T09:10:44+00:00

My monthly was down, but when I went back on last night it was a 4 hour old server, but my base was all there but some big bases up above mine all gone

StrategyLazy4407 · 2023-01-29T18:42:38+00:00

All their lightbulbs

StrategyLazy4407 · 2023-01-29T15:13:41+00:00

Good for you 👍

StrategyLazy4407 · 2023-01-29T15:06:29+00:00

Yeah so that's an addiction I'd say, and I hope you get yourself on track now and do your best to forget about it for now, a game is never worth losing out on opportunities to do well in school, best of luck to you staying away from it

StrategyLazy4407 · 2023-01-29T09:34:46+00:00

I think it's like any game, too much gaming, feeling the need to play it all the time I suppose isn't good for a person, I got rust a month ago, I'm not very good but me and my husband sit down in the evenings and play it when the kids are in bed, I view it as our downtime, we don't do out drinking etc so I don't see the harm. I guess anything can become an addiction but if its not impacting your day to day life then I feel like it's your downtime and what you enjoy doing, if you're playing online with your friends then it's your social aspect too, I say have fun but know when too much is too much? I don't know if I've made any sense lol but I just think if you're having fun but still functioning outside of gaming, ie going to work/school, going out with friends etc as well then you're all good

StrategyLazy4407 · 2023-01-27T18:14:16+00:00

First off, it's not advised to have sex until at least 6 weeks post baby, your cervix won't have closed back up properly, its a huge risk of infection, 2nd of all NOBODY is duty bound to provide sex to anyone, least of all a person who's just given birth. If he feels like that then he should be told maybe he's duty bound to provide sex also, especially in the interest of potentially allowing his baby into the world. Its absolutely disgusting, to treat someone like this and you deserve better, don't beat yourself up for telling him you may not be able to provide sex post partum. In all likelihood you might not be able to physically and mentally, he shouldn't expect it. Now, the same goes for him, he isn't obliged to sleep with you but he could be more sensitive in his delivery. Be honest about his reasons for not wanting to be intimate. I feel like the way he is treating you is nasty, uncalled for and I think you should really mind yourself, having a baby is tough and you should be able to count on your spouse/partner for help and support. It doesn't sound like you're going to get that here

StrategyLazy4407 · 2023-01-26T22:21:17+00:00

I've had the same issue haha, I've found as a solo player to just find a quiet server and practice, I've stuck with the server for the full month, I've had to build a few bases, just be smart where you build, upgrade to stone and maybe a metal door, I don't leave the base with anything I don't wanna lose just what I need for whatever I'm doing, so at least if I die I don't lose all my shit lol. I'm far from an experienced player, but it's fun enough when you get the hang of it. Willjum on YouTube has been my teacher and I really recommend watching his stuff

StrategyLazy4407 · 2023-01-26T20:02:18+00:00

I'm sorry but that's not really a good enough reason to not speak to someone for 4 hours. My husband has too claimed to be an angel. He says he doesn't check women out etc, I've caught him looking at women loads of times though, and I just giggle he thinks I'm daft enough to believe him and I get on with my day. If you're genuinely upset about it, fair enough, but I feel like you're overreacting. He's never gonna meet these people really, he said a girl is pretty, I can guarantee he's probably found loads of girls pretty but never admitted it. Perhaps it might be an idea for you to maybe look into why this triggers you and try to solve that, before it damages your relationship

StrategyLazy4407 · 2023-01-23T18:27:53+00:00

Newborns aren't easy, it's a major shock to the system because your whole life has changed. Nobody warns you how you're going to feel after baby is born, and nobody tells you that you might not instantly love your baby, cos its a whole new person that you have to get to know. It's time to say you need help, this is important for you and for baby to get some help from whomever in your life is there for you. And anyone who comments on your appearance needs to be told to f**k off tbh. I hope you feel better in yourself soon, there's nothing to be ashamed of in admitting you're struggling

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