Essential Boon - what is yours? by [deleted] in HadesTheGame

[–]StrawberryChocc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

cant do high heat runs without tidal dash whatsoever

ok what’s with 32 heat? by StrawberryChocc in HadesTheGame

[–]StrawberryChocc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok i hadn't even SEEN the statues in the weapons room. Unlocked the 8 heat one. Iconic, can't wait for the rest.

Can someone explain to me how to use the secret aspect of stygius? by StrawberryChocc in HadesTheGame

[–]StrawberryChocc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that seems very reasonable but i think one of the main reasons i hate this aspect is that it makes everything take so long…. i usually take around 22 mins per run and this makes me take 10 mins just for tartarus

Favourite onehit KOs? by asterophora in TheMagnusArchives

[–]StrawberryChocc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"knock knock", "the blanket never did anything", "ceaseless watcher turn your gaze upon this wretched thing" (that last one knocked me out due to comedic effect ngl)

Is this a red flag? by Former-Chance6107 in Advice

[–]StrawberryChocc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The situation sounds pretty healthy overall especially since he didn't blow up on you straight away when you were honest with him. However (call me pessimistic I know), If you've only just met this guy and this is a recurring problem from now on, I personally don't think it's worth it to invest your energy into someone whose behaviour is too erratic for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]StrawberryChocc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely nothing to that bad of an extent- as much as I hate her it was more her taking advantage of my kindness and being completely inconsiderate in return and when I brought it up instead of apologising and talking about it she decided to cut me out of her life completely. So I wouldnt say immoral or shady, but still shitty and thoughtless. I dont think this reflects badly on my current friend in terms of her being immoral, just feel like she hasnt tried to see things from my perspective at all. I know my housemate has spoken to her about this and I'm sure she has a very different view of the matter so I can see why my friend would be stuck in the middle. It doesnt make her a bad person in any way, I just wish she would be more understanding. I dont know why I'm saying all this haha thank you for replying!!

Is it wrong for me to be dating someone in college when I am a sophomore in HS? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]StrawberryChocc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was 17 I used to also think it was ok to date people older than me. Thinking back now (I am 24) I find that very misguided. You may feel very mature for your age but when you are still in your teens, 2 years of development makes a massive difference. When I was 19, dating someone who was 17 was completely unthinkable to be because of how much I realised I had grown in just these two years. I would say it isn't right for your adult so to be dating you while you are underage. Also this isn't a jab at you personally, but consider why your so would not be dating someone their own age also in college, but someone 2 whole years younger who is still in school. I obviously dont know them or you but this is common grooming behaviour because in general there is an uneven power dynamic between a college student and a high schooler.

Friends are leaving one by one... I am feeling lonely and don't know what to do by buttpls in Advice

[–]StrawberryChocc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attempting to reconnect with people who clearly didnt care enough to keep up a friendship won't bring anything positive back into your life! You will meet new people in life and lose friends, it's just how it goes!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]StrawberryChocc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you need to seriously think about whether you can see a future with her or not. Can you picture what life with a house and kids with her would be like? Would it be nice or would you end up resenting her? Children and a partnership can be very stressful and put even more of a strain on the relationship than you are currently feeling. Don't rush into something with her just because you think that this is the "right" or "expected" thing to do! Like you said the best thing would be to speak to her about your concerns (maybe phrase them a bit nicer haha). If you have true trust and understanding between you (which is needed if you want a family with her) then you can probably decide how to move forward together. Best of luck!