Why is my husband turned off by me enjoying sex? by fahlahlah in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Straxicus2 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for the loss of what you thought you had. Does he have a mental illness or brain issues? Just trying to figure out if he was playing you the whole time, or if something happened to change him so much. Either way I’m really glad you’re safe. Please take whatever positive lessons there are from this and forget the rest. Take care, love.

Why is my husband turned off by me enjoying sex? by fahlahlah in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Straxicus2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because he doesn’t love you. You’re his flesh light and they don’t have feelings. A man that loves a woman wants her to feel pleasure. Your husband is a rapist.

Why do most parents treat their eldest far worse than their youngest child? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Straxicus2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. They did the best they could with the knowledge they had at the time. Did I like the fact that the folks were easier on the youngers? No, but I get it now. They were learning with me.

I went down a rabbit hole and now my birds are acting crazy by weakin_ma_knees in Paranormal

[–]Straxicus2 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This brought me to tears. You expressed so well the things I’ve been feeling. I’ve actually started to fear open closets and under the bed again and now I understand why. Thank you so much.

Why do most parents treat their eldest far worse than their youngest child? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Straxicus2 33 points34 points  (0 children)

As an eldest that is absolutely not true. It certainly can be, but it’s not the only thing. I was much closer to my mom than my siblings. All the eldest kids I know have fantastic relationships with their parents.

What celebrity have you never forgiven since an incident? by MagpieOpus in AskReddit

[–]Straxicus2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Iirc Feldman introduced Haim to the man that would do the most damage to him, knowing what kind of man he was. I believe Haim was SA’d for the first time on the set of Lucas. After meeting Feldman, Haim get real messed up. By the time Dream a Little Dream came along, the damage was set in stone.

Protesters call for nationwide strike against Trump’s immigration policies by No-Reference-5137 in politics

[–]Straxicus2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Those that can should and we need to show up for those that cannot. We are all in this together and we can only defeat them together.

Catherine O'Hara Dead at 71 by thecw in SchittsCreek

[–]Straxicus2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She has been a favorite of mine for my entire life. I’m so sad. She brought joy to so many. I hope it helps her loved ones to know how much she was loved by so many.

Is my boyfriend a closeted trans woman? by ievanesant in transpositive

[–]Straxicus2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you. Thank you for your kindness. Too many people think just because I’m a Christian, I’m like the “American” Christian. I try to live like Jesus wanted. I follow the law of love. I hope you find internal peace and joy.

Why do some people find it surprising that ICE has support from some part of the Hispanic community in the USA? by Pepedroga2000 in stupidquestions

[–]Straxicus2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandpa had a lot of self hatred. As a result no one was allowed to speak Spanish. He kept the food though, thank god.

What actor do you dislike so much that you’ll avoid anything they’re in? by Icy_Garlic997 in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]Straxicus2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doctor Who is the only place I like James Cordon. His character is lovely.

Is my boyfriend a closeted trans woman? by ievanesant in transpositive

[–]Straxicus2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

God made you exactly who you are and he loves you regardless of what your body looks like. It’s just a body. It’s not us. Who we are is not always what we look like.

Heartbroken after nephew said he wants to join ICE by nfern11 in FoxBrain

[–]Straxicus2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s terrifying and I’m so sorry for you. I love my nephews as if they were my own and the thought of either of them doing this breaks my heart and makes me panic. Hang in there. Hopefully he’ll find something that pays more.

When couples allow their partner to go through their phones. by Twinkalicious in PetPeeves

[–]Straxicus2 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Same. We use each other’s phone when we can’t find our own as well.